Hi Emmi, thanks for popping in, its so good to hear from you and hear about your successful ,beautiful baby! It is encouraging to all of us!
Congrats on your babies pussycat! Wow
This is fabulous news.
I've always secretly hoped for twins. Somehow at our age I feel like if I ever get pregnant it will be only once, so it would be SO NICE to get a larger family.
Lastchances, hang in there. Over the past 3 years of TTC my DH and I have been in more fights than I can count, almost separated multiple times, have been on the same page and then suddenly not on the same page about all this. We've never needed to deal with "using protection or not" like you are working through. but we've been through a lot of uncertainty,misunderstandings, "games", etc. I want to send you a huge hug, because it sounds like you are also dealing with a lot of other stuff on top of TTC/NTNP as well. You will get to a good place, I promise!
AFM, it is not normal for me to not OV, but the cortisone shots were making me not O. I'm pretty sure I did O last cycle, but I can't quite figure out when. I was using OPK and got a positive, but my temp spiked up and stayed up several days before my positive OPK. It also shot way down below coverline then back up again many times during LP. It was totally bizarre. I ended up doing my hormone testing on CD20, which could have been 4 dpo or possibly 6dpo.
My FSH is 16. My AMH is .62.
Two years ago my FSH was 12 and AMH .24. Not sure why/how my AMH increased. Its a better number but still really low. I'm told it should be at least 1.0 to be reasonable, the higher the better.
I try not to let my FSH freak me out, since its "so bad". I try to remind myself that I was pregnant a year ago, and I can't imagine my FSH nor AMH was so much better then. This is still possible for me. I have to believe it.
The other thing my hormone tests showed was that my progesterone is really low. This could be because I wasn't exactly sure what dpo I was, but in general anyway my doctor says even if I took the test a few days later, my number is so low that even if it was quite a bit higher it would still be low. She said my progesterone should be 5 or 6 times higher than what it was! She recommends supplementing after O,so I'm going to do that.
I got AF last week, I'm CD 9 now. So on we go with a new plan.
I'm glad to be back TTC'ing.
Wishing you all the best.