Hortensia
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Hortensia, welcome to our thread! We all understand how you feel not being a "member of the club". Ugh, I'm sorry she said that to you, but I have to admit, I can totally see where she's coming from. I feel the same way: feel like someone on the outside looking in and I pray for the day I'm finally through the door! She just shouldn't have shared that particular feeling with her friend who is still struggling. I'm sure she didn't mean to be insensitive. *hugs*
I hope you get your timing worked out. Emmi is right, though. Women our age have issues past just getting the timing right. Our eggs are not as viable as they used to be. My last IUI, I had 4 mature follicles (normal women generally get ONE mature follicle) and a stellar sperm count, and I still didn't get pregnant. None of my eggs were viable. For me, it seems to be a waiting game. We'll try every month, and one of these months, my body will produce a viable egg.
Have you seen a fertility specialist to get your parts checked out? You know your tubes are not blocked and your uterus is clear?
Hi Kat,
No, haven't seen a FS. Our timing has been seriously wacko and our attempts pretty half-assed, to be honest, so we want to give it a few cycles pinpointing things with the monitor, and actually trying properly, and then have that conversation.
Viable eggs...yes. That's the one thing it's probably impossible to do anything about. I am trying very hard to be philosophical about it, but some days are more difficult than others
Here's hoping 2014 will be the year you catch that good egg!