Emmi, trust me Kat is right! Ur not alone. My OH is a lovely guy too. And after I had my HSG and it was VERY painful & traumatic, he was sympathetic & happy to have me order him around getting me cups of tea & hot water bottle etc while I lay on the couch with cramping.... But then he said 'is it ok if I go see Aaron's band play tonite? It won't be a late nite & ur not feeling good so ur just gonna be resting on the couch- ill b back by 11pm'.... At first I was gonna have a go at him.. Then I realised! Men just have different brains to us! They are very logical, rational & at times completely unemotional in how they look at things & make decisions. He didn't think it should be a big deal if he went out for a few hours.. And really it didn't matter.. But if the roles were reversed- no way I'd have gone out to see a band with him lying on the couch feeling sorry for himself.
I also think guys sometimes are a bit more optimistic, they have that attitude of 'its all gonna be ok, so don't go getting all stressed out before you actually have any answers'. Infact I wish I was that way inclined to look at things.
To be honest, it's my OH optimism and unfaltering assumption that we'll be parents eventually that is what's getting my hopes & spirits up. I don't ever want him to lose that positive perspective bcos I need it to keep me going.
But also Emmi, if u really are feeling down, or scared, you maybe should come straight out and tell ur hubby. Sometimes men as nice as they may be, can also be dense & hopeless at picking up cues that women spot from a mile away! He maybe just doesn't realise how ur feeling.
And if all else fails, that's wot all these amazing girls in here are for! ; )
So I haven't O'd and not sure why. Last cycle (which was my first after metho shot) I did. Very frustrating. It doesn't matter at the moment since I'm having the surgery on Tuesday but what's going on w/my body??? I can't seem to lose any weight either. My blood work was immaculate so it has to be that I'm eating wayyyyyy too many calories. I'm a personal trainer and I'm def exercising enough. That will come to a screaching halt Tuesday for at least 2 weeks. I hate buying clothes in a bigger size!!!
so the "mass" was the pregnancy in my right tube which was taken out during the surgery. I have 4-6 weeks of recovery. Can't drive for a week, sutures out in 2 weeks but this doctor was wonderful.
so the "mass" was the pregnancy in my right tube which was taken out during the surgery. I have 4-6 weeks of recovery. Can't drive for a week, sutures out in 2 weeks but this doctor was wonderful.
Emmi glad you have a lot of follicles!! You have quite the new Two Week Wait now, eh?
Right tube is gone, it had to be taken. But the Doc said the left tube seems to be ok. He pushed some fluid thru it during the surgery but couldn't fully do it cuz of the work on the right side. I was totally against IVF due to our religion but I'm open to anything now. No clue when we can try again, i'm presuming in 4-6 weeks. That's how long til I can exercise or lift anything. I have a f/u appt w/Jr. to remove the sutures in 2 weeks and then i see his dad end of the month for my f/u of the 14 blood tests LOL. Had a meltdown today but I'm sure it's par for the course. Things will get better.
Hello ladies. Just thread stalking and wanted to wish you all lots and lots of baby dust.. Hoping for BFP's your way..