Last night, or should I say very early this am, talk of using protection came up again. It was an incredibly passive, extremely weak talk about it, which followed a weekend full of the exact opposite, though. Actually it was right after not using it yet again. But it was still mentioned. I think I'd made some stupid joke based on something that had just happened, that brought it up. It didn't sound like anyone has any real interest in actually doing so, but more a statement that we probably should, in theory, followed by a lot of reasons we don't want to. So I guess NTNP doesn't really apply, even if that's what's happening in practice. There's been so many mixed messages. (And 2 months now since we've used protection at all) I wonder if that could be because he's as conflicted as I am. Sorta being aware of last chances, while also knowing it would hardly be easy. I just don't know. And no, I just don't want to have a big conversation about it at this point because we're hardly kids who don't know better, and if it's our style to see if a happy "accident" just happens, and pretend we couldn't see that coming, then I don't want to interfere. Plus, it just isn't all that likely at my age anyway. Now today I just feel moody and annoyed for reasons I don't even fully understand. It probably didn't help hearing him and his ex on the phone talking about their amazing kids last night, then this a bit later after we had just been together again. It isn't like me to be bugged over that stuff. It's like suddenly I get jealous and annoyed over even fb friends posting about their babies. Especially the little girls. I've gotten very weird lately. I'm guessing that's my age kicking in. Knowing this is close to it for me. I guess I feel just a little crazy these days.
Other than that brief conversation which was hardly resolute, he hasn't made a single move to use anything, hasn't asked me to see my tracking calendars anymore, or asked me about timing. He also knows I openly expressed a feeling of sadness when AF finally showed last time after all that. We both spoke of mixed feelings and disappointment. Any talk when he thought I might had been about embracing it if it happened etc. I guess I'll just have to see what happens next. Wednesday may be telling. I just feel confused and maybe a little sad and moody/cranky. :/