40 trying for number 2.

[iwantanother]

tiatammy.... if his results come back low...due to age and lower testosterone...there are mens vitamins he can take to help. the dye test will let u know if your tubes have an blockage....
its all about knowing whats going on with your body...
Hope the business of the holidays will take your mind off of all the TTC!!!!

If I get a visit from I'm going to until i amand hahaha

Done stressing for tis month! having a drink with ya!!!!!

 

[CHILLbilly]

Tiatammy- hope your Oh's 2nd test is good! I ended up only having 1 drink..haha BUT did have a bailey's pepermint mocha and hot chocolate..YUMMY!!!!! Its hard to keep up a "positive mentl attitude...also know as PMA !!! and hope my joking around makes everyone smile and helps take the edge off of this TTC business.....

So I get to ovulate just before New Years Eve!!! and as i dont't drink after AF...I ge to be a D.D. that night! yet another event i have to explain why I'm not having a few cocktails.... oh well, it will be well worth it all in the end!
My holiday plans are Christmas eve with hubby and myself, spend Christmas day here then goto his mom's house for dinner... My family lives a 4 hr drive away and we'll be seeing them next month. ( too hard to get do sitters on christmas and travel down there for the weekend..so..it'll be a low key christmas......Good thing my Oh is off all week after because we will be all week long..haha

dmari123- thanks for your support....I kind of thought so too ( only cause I was tired and my boobs didnt hurt pre AF......)
So your just entering 2 week wait..... We will try to keep yoru mind of off symptom spotting. Fingers crossed you end up with a New Years Eve ....


Iwantanother- cheers sister!!!!! haha Onto a Virgo (Aug 24 - sept 23) Libra(sept 24-oc23) baby!!!
Cycle Day 1 I usually go and calculate my next due date....... So sept 22nd......Virgo baby.

 

[tiatammy]

Tiatammy- hope your Oh's 2nd test is good! I ended up only having 1 drink..haha BUT did have a bailey's pepermint mocha and hot chocolate..YUMMY!!!!! Its hard to keep up a "positive mentl attitude...also know as PMA !!! and hope my joking around makes everyone smile and helps take the edge off of this TTC business.....

So I get to ovulate just before New Years Eve!!! and as i dont't drink after AF...I ge to be a D.D. that night! yet another event i have to explain why I'm not having a few cocktails.... oh well, it will be well worth it all in the end!
My holiday plans are Christmas eve with hubby and myself, spend Christmas day here then goto his mom's house for dinner... My family lives a 4 hr drive away and we'll be seeing them next month. ( too hard to get do sitters on christmas and travel down there for the weekend..so..it'll be a low key christmas......Good thing my Oh is off all week after because we will be all week long..haha

dmari123- thanks for your support....I kind of thought so too ( only cause I was tired and my boobs didnt hurt pre AF......)
So your just entering 2 week wait..... We will try to keep yoru mind of off symptom spotting. Fingers crossed you end up with a New Years Eve ....


Iwantanother- cheers sister!!!!! haha Onto a Virgo (Aug 24 - sept 23) Libra(sept 24-oc23) baby!!!
Cycle Day 1 I usually go and calculate my next due date....... So sept 22nd......Virgo baby.

Chillybilly yes love your joking you make smile all the time and thank you for words of encouragement on my hubbys test, As for me christmas eve going to see my daughter she is 19, spend the day with her and fiance, and then going to inlaws for christmas day, which is what we do every year, have alot of fun just hope there wont be alot of talk about the ttc thing dont want it to destroy my mood, it is bad enough I wanted to be able to announce be pregnant this christmas and knowing Im not and them talking about it will hurt. I do hope you have a wonderful chritmas, and chillybilly I am believing you are a good luck charm for me, because you always make me smile, and more than anything thankyou from the bottom of my heart.

 

[CHILLbilly]

tiatammy- hope you have a good time with your daughter and her fiance....when's the wedding? ( i just got married this past oct at the ripe ole age of 40..haha SO I am obsessed with weddings and wedding planning...)

And i hear ya about making christmas annoucements about being pregnant...... i should be getting ready to give birth ( jan 5)but due to a fluke ectopic i am not
so I have that in the back of my mind....

I didn't tell any famly about it as we were waiting for dating scan to make sure all was well, at 8 weeks... then we got the bad news...SO.....
WHEN i get pregnant again I will be telling my close family as soon as i hit 6 weeks... they can handle any bad news that could happen..... I just want to acknowledge my pregnancies and if it ends in a loss, well then I wll have all the support of family.

So on the upside i will find out if this natural cycle ends in a BFP on my moms birthday..so thats nice!!!!
This is a natural cycle NOT clomid as the dumbass that i can be..forgot to buy clomid in time to take cd5....arggggggg


Hope all of you that read this thread have a wonderful Christmas holiday!!!!!
May it be full of AND !!!!!!!!!


---- this is me after a few "Christmas" drinks!

 

[tiatammy]

tiatammy- hope you have a good time with your daughter and her fiance....when's the wedding? ( i just got married this past oct at the ripe ole age of 40..haha SO I am obsessed with weddings and wedding planning...)

And i hear ya about making christmas annoucements about being pregnant...... i should be getting ready to give birth ( jan 5)but due to a fluke ectopic i am not
so I have that in the back of my mind....

I didn't tell any famly about it as we were waiting for dating scan to make sure all was well, at 8 weeks... then we got the bad news...SO.....
WHEN i get pregnant again I will be telling my close family as soon as i hit 6 weeks... they can handle any bad news that could happen..... I just want to acknowledge my pregnancies and if it ends in a loss, well then I wll have all the support of family.

So on the upside i will find out if this natural cycle ends in a BFP on my moms birthday..so thats nice!!!!
This is a natural cycle NOT clomid as the dumbass that i can be..forgot to buy clomid in time to take cd5....arggggggg


Hope all of you that read this thread have a wonderful Christmas holiday!!!!!
May it be full of AND !!!!!!!!!


---- this is me after a few "Christmas" drinks!

Hey girl so glad to hear from you. You are so funny, I am on my 2ww now my conception time meaning ovulation was the christmas holiday so dont know yet if it has worked with the way my luck has been running I will more and likely be off to trying again january, a little down in spirits sorry, hubby may be diabetic he has to go through more test just nothing has been going in the favor of this little bunndle of joy we are trying to concieve

 

[tiatammy]

tiatammy- hope you have a good time with your daughter and her fiance....when's the wedding? ( i just got married this past oct at the ripe ole age of 40..haha SO I am obsessed with weddings and wedding planning...)

And i hear ya about making christmas annoucements about being pregnant...... i should be getting ready to give birth ( jan 5)but due to a fluke ectopic i am not
so I have that in the back of my mind....

I didn't tell any famly about it as we were waiting for dating scan to make sure all was well, at 8 weeks... then we got the bad news...SO.....
WHEN i get pregnant again I will be telling my close family as soon as i hit 6 weeks... they can handle any bad news that could happen..... I just want to acknowledge my pregnancies and if it ends in a loss, well then I wll have all the support of family.

So on the upside i will find out if this natural cycle ends in a BFP on my moms birthday..so thats nice!!!!
This is a natural cycle NOT clomid as the dumbass that i can be..forgot to buy clomid in time to take cd5....arggggggg


Hope all of you that read this thread have a wonderful Christmas holiday!!!!!
May it be full of AND !!!!!!!!!


---- this is me after a few "Christmas" drinks!

Hey girl so glad to hear from you. You are so funny, I am on my 2ww now my conception time meaning ovulation was the christmas holiday so dont know yet if it has worked with the way my luck has been running I will more and likely be off to trying again january, a little down in spirits sorry, hubby may be diabetic he has to go through more test just nothing has been going in the favor of this little bunndle of joy we are trying to concieve

and yes had a good time with my daughter and her fiance, and they havent set a date yet, so not sure when it will be.

 

[CHILLbilly]

Tiatammy- Hope you found some good diabetic recipes for the holidays... must be tough to change eating habits around christmas...well i am sure you had him "preoccupied" most of the holidays... hehe

Just take it easy next few weeks and here's hoping you get some good news in 2 weeks time..Great way to sart the New Year!

 

[tiatammy]

Tiatammy- Hope you found some good diabetic recipes for the holidays... must be tough to change eating habits around christmas...well i am sure you had him "preoccupied" most of the holidays... hehe

Just take it easy next few weeks and here's hoping you get some good news in 2 weeks time..Great way to sart the New Year!

hey chllybilly so glad to hear from you and yes a very busy holiday, If you know what I mean and im sure you do , the wait is killing me it would be wonderful to start the new year out knowing I am bringing my sweet bundle of joy in world.So anything new and exciting in your territory.

 

[CHILLbilly]

Only exciting news on my end...i'm gearing up for ovulation!!!!!!
Hard to figure out when due to clomid cycle last month...but looks like it is right on schedual....

Good thing Hubby is of all week!!!!! hehe

 

[tiatammy]

Only exciting news on my end...i'm gearing up for ovulation!!!!!!
Hard to figure out when due to clomid cycle last month...but looks like it is right on schedual....

Good thing Hubby is of all week!!!!! hehe

chillybilly honey you and your hubby will be in my prayers for that BFP As of right now I am in my 2ww, so we will see if I am off to trying again next month sending you lots of

 

[tiatammy]

Only exciting news on my end...i'm gearing up for ovulation!!!!!!
Hard to figure out when due to clomid cycle last month...but looks like it is right on schedual....

Good thing Hubby is of all week!!!!! hehe

chillybilly honey you and your hubby will be in my prayers for that BFP As of right now I am in my 2ww, so we will see if I am off to trying again next month sending you lots of

well hit the wrong button sending you lots of

 

[doshima]

Hi ladies. as it seems, this is the tread i belong for now (kind of). I failed ivf last month, taking a break before i try ivf#2. I'll be 40 mid next yr and DH is 50. We are all ok from test done. i have 2 boys aged 15 and 11 from a previous marriage. DH has 2 much older children. we have been trying to ttc since 2010, i had a myomectomy in 2006 and another in july this yr. i guess it may be the age thing but am not done loosing hope yet. just came across a concosion for improved egg quality and will start trying it while i wait a couple month to try again. i used preseed this cycle and af is due in 3days time, so am keeping fingers crossed too. lots of baby dust to all of us and am sure this New Year will bring us lots of pleasant baby surprises

 

[doshima]

oh by the way, this where i found the info on the egg quality suppliment


https://www.fertilethoughts.com/forum...g-quality.html

 

[tiatammy]

Hi ladies. as it seems, this is the tread i belong for now (kind of). I failed ivf last month, taking a break before i try ivf#2. I'll be 40 mid next yr and DH is 50. We are all ok from test done. i have 2 boys aged 15 and 11 from a previous marriage. DH has 2 much older children. we have been trying to ttc since 2010, i had a myomectomy in 2006 and another in july this yr. i guess it may be the age thing but am not done loosing hope yet. just came across a concosion for improved egg quality and will start trying it while i wait a couple month to try again. i used preseed this cycle and af is due in 3days time, so am keeping fingers crossed too. lots of baby dust to all of us and am sure this New Year will bring us lots of pleasant baby surprises

Hi doshima I am also 40 and hubby is 50 have been trying to concieve since april 2011. still no luck, hubby having a sperm anaysis done next week, so hopefully we will get some answers from that. sending lots of good luck keep intouch

 

[tiatammy]

Only exciting news on my end...i'm gearing up for ovulation!!!!!!
Hard to figure out when due to clomid cycle last month...but looks like it is right on schedual....

Good thing Hubby is of all week!!!!! hehe

Hi chillybilly any news sweetheart? as for me on cd 25 and temp has dropped so off to TTC for january, hope all is well with you sweetie havent heard from you just concerned. hope this finds you well and happy and full of laughter. friends, keep in touch.

 

[tiatammy]

Only exciting news on my end...i'm gearing up for ovulation!!!!!!
Hard to figure out when due to clomid cycle last month...but looks like it is right on schedual....

Good thing Hubby is of all week!!!!! hehe

Hi chillybilly any news sweetheart? as for me on cd 25 and temp has dropped so off to TTC for january, hope all is well with you sweetie havent heard from you just concerned. hope this finds you well and happy and full of laughter. friends, keep in touch.

Chillybilly AF showed her ugly face this morning , makes me so angry, I just dont understand I am doing everything right, following doctors orders, taking advice from other ladies that had the same promblem, and have concieved, its not putting me in great spirits thats for sure. How are you, In better spirits then me I hope. Hubby is having some testing done next week so maybe that will give us some good answers, I dont want bad news thats for sure. sending lots of , and hope this finds you well and happy.

 

[CHILLbilly]

So sorry to hear she got ya!!!!!
Its so frustating when you fgure out right days...proper positions....having scientific sex experiments sure do me in!!! and for it all to end in the........

thats how i feel for you right now!!!!!!
iam sure once you get a test done..it will either give you positive results or will answer your question about why its not happening... Not blaming, cause that doesn't do anyone any good..BUT its definately a non invasive test that can help.....

i would recommend a dye test for you...very invasive but will show if your tubes are blocked or ok.
When i got mine it gave me some definate answers ( 1 tube blocked) and took some of the frustrations away..... Tests and answers are the only way to keep us sane.... and save us time...cause lord knows time is not on my side......
Hope you have a decent AF weekend get onto ovulation soon!!!!!!

 

[tiatammy]

So sorry to hear she got ya!!!!!
Its so frustating when you fgure out right days...proper positions....having scientific sex experiments sure do me in!!! and for it all to end in the........

thats how i feel for you right now!!!!!!
iam sure once you get a test done..it will either give you positive results or will answer your question about why its not happening... Not blaming, cause that doesn't do anyone any good..BUT its definately a non invasive test that can help.....

i would recommend a dye test for you...very invasive but will show if your tubes are blocked or ok.
When i got mine it gave me some definate answers ( 1 tube blocked) and took some of the frustrations away..... Tests and answers are the only way to keep us sane.... and save us time...cause lord knows time is not on my side......
Hope you have a decent AF weekend get onto ovulation soon!!!!!!

Hi sweetie all of what you said Im sure is so very true, but waiting on what bthe doc. is going to do, He really hasnt changed or added anything since the tubal reversal in april, Each time I send him my temp chart he says all looks good no need to change or add anything end quote. My husband and I are the ones that decided to do a sperem anaysis not him daaa,I dont know. the sperm anaysis he is to do friday I believe. I just sent my december temp chart to doc. so waiting for what he is going to say now? Is it going to be the same reply as always or is he going to make some changes? I am getting so frustrated with this doctor,but dont want to make him angry beings we have that contract with him with the IVF being included in the price of the sergery if there were any promblems with us concieving naturally, because lord knows I wouldnt be able to afford what they want for IVF, thats why I am not making a big stink nover this you know. I quess only time will tell. sending you lots ofand. Keep intouch hun as I will too. FRIENDS

 

[CHILLbilly]

My husband didnt have any issues with giving a sample..UNTIL he had to hand it to an aquaintence we knew from our small town..ahahahaha

Dr.s sure do like to take their time....... you'd think they would have done a SA while you had your tubes reversed.... but hey what do we know? haha
there's also a 21 day blood test they can do for you to see if you did ovulate...done 7 days after Ovulation date....I had it done 1 time....and then done for my first clomid cycle..but of course no phone call to say yes I did or no i didn't....
I'm loosing faith in my fertility specialist....seems she just wants us to pay for IVF.....told her i can only afford IUI and to give me their price list of what its going to cost.....she kind of dropped off paperwork ( THAT Wasn't pricing) and left in a huff...... and then prescribed me the max clomid dosage.....that i am sure will thin my lining and make implant impossible...again setting me up for a paid procedure. Maybe I'm just worrying too much...

arggggg....maybe its just my hormones making me crazy!

Hope you're having a good weekend!

 

[tiatammy]

My husband didnt have any issues with giving a sample..UNTIL he had to hand it to an aquaintence we knew from our small town..ahahahaha

Dr.s sure do like to take their time....... you'd think they would have done a SA while you had your tubes reversed.... but hey what do we know? haha
there's also a 21 day blood test they can do for you to see if you did ovulate...done 7 days after Ovulation date....I had it done 1 time....and then done for my first clomid cycle..but of course no phone call to say yes I did or no i didn't....
I'm loosing faith in my fertility specialist....seems she just wants us to pay for IVF.....told her i can only afford IUI and to give me their price list of what its going to cost.....she kind of dropped off paperwork ( THAT Wasn't pricing) and left in a huff...... and then prescribed me the max clomid dosage.....that i am sure will thin my lining and make implant impossible...again setting me up for a paid procedure. Maybe I'm just worrying too much...

arggggg....maybe its just my hormones making me crazy!

Hope you're having a good weekend!

Oh chillybilly soooo sorry to hear about you loosing faith in your doc.Maybe you need to find another one hun, I pray that the thinning of the lining doesnt happen hun, My weekend has been ok, still cant get it out of my mind why I am not concieving, But maybe we will get some answers after the sa is done at the end of this week. I was hoping last month was going to be my month, but nooooo of course not NOT MY LUCK It is really driving me crazy. keep intouch as I will too. sending you lots of HUGS HUGS HUGS,and FRIENDS