ksquared726
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Thanks . I talked to him about it tonight. He does this with most serious topics - talks about it briefly and then makes a joke or changes the subject. I'm sure like you said he just doesn't know what to say. He did say it's all so confusing. When we were first ttc, he just wanted us to ntnp and what happens happens. But I'm a bit of a control freak, and that didn't work for me. I think he still doesn't really want to have to work too hard, and his reasoning is that it already happened once so it will happen again. But it took 11 months for it to happen the first time! I guess he's not as impatient as I am. Ugh, men.I'm hoping November is the month too. (Keeping my fx) If not, then I'm telling DH all I want for christmas is for him to do his sperm analysis lol
kquared - sorry about af. My DH used to be like that as well. I don't know what it was that changed in him why he's now gung-ho about ttc. Sometimes he listens to me, but then he'll say "weirdo" to me (in a tone that is kind of tender but surprised as well). He's admitted that he gets shy about talking and other times he just doesn't know what to say, especially if he thinks it's tmi. I think maybe yours just doesn't know how to reply or if he should. Has he always been like that?