6 DPO...& ...POAS until positive!

[Nataliieexo]

Hey i didnt post yesterday i was just well down, we have been to make a appointment tomorrow with the funeral director its tomorrow 11pm, i need to hunt out photos of us, i need to write her letter to put in with her, i need to do loads of things that i dont want to, i still dont think its sinking in, i think the day of the funeral is going to kill me :'( xxx

 

[OurLilFlu]

Hey everyone, happy Monday. I'm a terrible klutz whilst pregnant and I sprained my ankle yesterday, missing the last stair at the new house! So mad at myself. So no work today...Or til wed/thurs since i have a Midwife appt tomorrow, new tires on Tuesday... So looks like I'm stuck. It did snow like a mofo here this weekend so I'm glad our tire appt is this week. 22cm of snow in one night when the day before the grass was showing since it had melted so much! Jeeezzz! Winter is here!

Getting a little worriedabout Xmas since I haven't even thought about gifts or shopping at all!!

 

[OurLilFlu]

Hey Natalie, just saw you posted! Good to see you! All those preparations sound very thoughtful, but difficult I'm sure. Like Meg has said take it one day at a time, some will be worse than others and the funeral day is expected to be so. But still it's like everyday and you will get through it! Promise! Hugs!

 

[Nataliieexo]

Thank you im trying, i'm still finding it difficult to sleep even going downstairs on my own through the night when everyones in bed is scary, oh has been great and very patient with me, i have resorted to having my sister in with me at bedtime she wasnt sleeping well either so i am managing to sleep in the dark with someone there.

I mainly just sit and think it passes hours by, i only finally got my midwife notes today and have my first midwife app next tuesday, i dont think i will get a scan til 16 weeks if i want the down syndrome testing, but all that has been the last thing on my mind x

 

[natjenson]

Oh noooo talia...I hope your ok.you take it easy ok.
Snow snow snow.lol.woohoo........we have been warned of snow....but we can never trust that it will reach as far as the south west here...London and Scotland and up north always get it but here ...not always...we love the snow.
It's funny tho bc our country goes into melt down when it snows...lol like how on earth does Russia cope? All year around lol...

Anyway I hope your ankle gets well soon...and talia...make the most of it lol

Nat...sooo glad you posted I started to think the worst and I am really happy that you are ok...
Looks like you have a lot to be getting done love...that is a good idea having your lil sister in your room with you...
Yep like meg says one day at a time Hun...
Can I ask...why no scan till 16 wks ?...they not doing one at 10?...that's kind of odd...that would be the official dating scan wouldn't it?....idk...the uk are all wonky buggers...
You take care nat ok.

Well ladies...afm...
Cd9....start opks tmr...taking NO.sups this time...( actually haven't been since I got ill)
Cm is great so far ...hope it stays lol...
Would love an earlier o this time but I guess I won't know till I o...lol

Meg...how is your opks coming along!


xxx

 

[Nataliieexo]

because i have only just contacted the midwife im 10 weeks when i get my appointment and i might not get a scan at 12 weeks with it being short notice xxx

 

[natjenson]

because i have only just contacted the midwife im 10 weeks when i get my appointment and i might not get a scan at 12 weeks with it being short notice xxx

Ooooh - right I get it now
They may be able to get you a 12 wk one yet tho nat...fx.

xxx

 

[Petzy]

Natalie - I am glad to see you on here, I am thinking of you lots... good idea to have your sister with you when you need to sleep... it helps to have that comfort and not feel alone.. I am glad your DH has been so supportive helping you through this - you need eachother most in times like these. The next couple days will be hard, I know. Take the time to share stories with family, grieve together in loving memory of your dear mum. we are here for you xx. Also, I really hope you get a scan by 12 weeks.. 16 is so far away and surely they would want a formal dating scan xx

 

[Petzy]

Hello all,

sounds like everyone is getting their OPK's out and getting ready to O! We are all in good company lol! I just got my positive right now so I am reallllllly happy about that BD this am so hopefully again tonight or tomorrow morning tee hee... supposed to go for bloods tomorrow - maybe I will delay it one day to save time for a morning BD....

We BD'd a lot last week but not much this weekend until this morning so I am hoping coverage is ok.. I suppose I haven't O'd quite yet so theres still time for more spermies to get up there lol

I guess I will be 1DPO on Wednesday then

xx

 

[natjenson]

Hello all,

sounds like everyone is getting their OPK's out and getting ready to O! We are all in good company lol! I just got my positive right now so I am reallllllly happy about that BD this am so hopefully again tonight or tomorrow morning tee hee... supposed to go for bloods tomorrow - maybe I will delay it one day to save time for a morning BD....

We BD'd a lot last week but not much this weekend until this morning so I am hoping coverage is ok.. I suppose I haven't O'd quite yet so theres still time for more spermies to get up there lol

I guess I will be 1DPO on Wednesday then

xx

Yaye for your positive opk meg.

And that's a good plan me thinks about delaying the betas one more day....get some sweet loving instead.

Hope the tww treats you kindly live.

xxx
P.s cute siggi too

 

[barbikins]

Hey Natalie,

The build up to the funeral is always worse than it is.
My cousin just lost her mother & she said it was this strange calmness that came over her.
When I had the funeral for my baby girl, I was horrified of the day & regretted inviting everyone...and although it was a difficult day, it wasn't nearly as bad. And afterwards, I had this strange calmness too. It was a step towards the first day towards recovering from my grief. I wanted to move forward so badly b/c it hurt so much.

So I think you'll have some thing similar to this at some point.
Big hugs to you!!!


Yay Meg for positive OPK! That's exciting. Time seemed to have sorta flown.

 

[Petzy]

Hey Natalie,

The build up to the funeral is always worse than it is.
My cousin just lost her mother & she said it was this strange calmness that came over her.
When I had the funeral for my baby girl, I was horrified of the day & regretted inviting everyone...and although it was a difficult day, it wasn't nearly as bad. And afterwards, I had this strange calmness too. It was a step towards the first day towards recovering from my grief. I wanted to move forward so badly b/c it hurt so much.

So I think you'll have some thing similar to this at some point.
Big hugs to you!!!


Yay Meg for positive OPK! That's exciting. Time seemed to have sorta flown.

I think Barb is right... I cant begin to say that I understand the loss of a parent OR a child but I have witnessed a lot of grief first hand and can say I think that is really true. I will share something very personal with you as an example. My mother suffered a lot when her father, my grandfather, killed himself at only 53 (I was only about 6 years old) and then again, when her mother, my Nana, was murdered by my step grandfather several years later. Not long after that my Dad left her, so she has been through more than any one person should in a lifetime... she is the strongest person I know! But I know those funerals were the beginning of a healing process for her... I know this sounds a bit TMI but my mother even went so far as to look at crime scene photos for closure... everyone heals differently. But I hope that it can be a day to celebrate your moms life as much as you are able to through your heavy grief, along with your Dad and Sister and other family members who I am sure miss her very much. I hope that you get through the day with good support from all. xx

 

[mommaplus05]

Hello ladies..hope everyone is well enough. Meg yay for the possy!!! That is sooo great! Fx for u this cycle. Natalie u r in my thouggts honey. I been were u r and it gets easier.. just have to stay strong love. Ashley were r u? Wat cd u on? Nat? U start opks tomorrow? Goood..I was gona start them today but didnt make it to store. '( gona b tough to get in the sack this cycle cuz my dh is working 16 hrs shifts for the nxt 3 -4 days. blaaaa right during my o time..gona b hard to squeeze in some lovin..lol havin mild cramps but seem to start two days before pos opk and I had my reg brown spotting today as I always do prior to o..so o is comin for sure..cm is not great this cycle hoping it increases tomorrow..have good night my friends .

 

[mommaplus05]

Hello ladies..hope everyone is well enough. Meg yay for the possy!!! That is sooo great! Fx for u this cycle. Natalie u r in my thouggts honey. I been were u r and it gets easier.. just have to stay strong love. Ashley were r u? Wat cd u on? Nat? U start opks tomorrow? Goood..I was gona start them today but didnt make it to store. '( gona b tough to get in the sack this cycle cuz my dh is working 16 hrs shifts for the nxt 3 -4 days. blaaaa right during my o time..gona b hard to squeeze in some lovin..lol havin mild cramps but seem to start two days before pos opk and I had my reg brown spotting today as I always do prior to o..so o is comin for sure..cm is not great this cycle hoping it increases tomorrow..have good night my friends .

 

[Petzy]

Hi All,

Get BD'ing ladies! You are all gearing up to O lol.... whoop!

Momma - all you can do is do your best to squeeze in a BD... I know its stressful but it wont change anything so do the best you can and try not to worry.. it only takes one right?

We BD again last night (twice yesterday lol) which is good because my OPK was back to negative today... I assume I am O'ing now if not already. Couldn't this morning as DH was dead to the world asleep lol but maybe tonight again! Will see

Going to call clinic today to see when I need to start my progesterone....

 

[Sis4Us]

If u r temping they usually like 3 above cover temps b4 starting the P just to be sure u Od!!! GL

I've been taking P forever so if u have any questions don't be afraid to ask!!

AFM.... My temp took a Dump this Am let's hope it jumps back Tom!!!

 

[Petzy]

If u r temping they usually like 3 above cover temps b4 starting the P just to be sure u Od!!! GL

I've been taking P forever so if u have any questions don't be afraid to ask!!

AFM.... My temp took a Dump this Am let's hope it jumps back Tom!!!

Hi Sis! I don't temp, which is where some of my confusion lies...I will have to see when they want me to start it in that case. I just take OPK's and that's it.

 

[natjenson]

Bahahahahahaha....sis...you temp took a dump? Pmsl......that made me chuckle..lol
I know what you meant tho.

Yaye...for bd ing twice yesterday meg...I think you "got er done'" lol...

Afm...cd 10 ...opk negative...but I a nice colour
We bd last night and it was slightly tender so I know I am gearing up
Been. Having a few sharp pains on the right side this time.so it's a right side o..which I feel good about...I'm sure Harry was concieved with a right eggy.

Good luck all you lovelys....

Ashley momma....OMG...I saw the super tornado on the news it stated that it was south west storm...are you gals in the clear...I hope it missed you.
I'm with meg Amanda...it only takes once....tie him down "get him done" lol...

Hmmmm I feel a kinky underwear and stawberry night coming on over here tonight..yum yum...lol...I am soooo in the mood today...which is not normally like me lol..

Back later ladies...

xxx

 

[natjenson]

Afternoon/evening ladies.

Well tonight's opk is also negative...but I have NEVER o'd on cd 10 so it's no supprise to me ...
The earliest it could be now is cd12...which is cool with me..

How are you all?....good I hopes.
Oh has fell asleep of the sofa...thinking about either leaving him there for "not being on board lol" or just jump on him lol...thinking the latter as I cannot be arsed to undress this big old lump bahaha..and he's grumpy when woken...may leave a note for the morning....
As follows......l
Dear MR sleepy facking head!.....your mrs needs servicing lol...full MOT required...no messing about...full English breakfast in return...
No deal- no meal!!!
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ....

Good eh? Lol...

Hope yous all ok...
xxx

 

[crazy84]

Hey everyone!! How is everything going?! Cd 7 here nothing to write home about!! Hahaha
Nat- you are too funny!! Love the note!!
Amanda- getting close to O right?! Yay! Be prepared for me to probably have another testing frenzie...lol too boring not doing it....but I will only be using ics!
Natalie- I hope you are doing ok. Lots of thoughts and prayers for you!
I haven't read through everything yet so I may ask questions that have been answered. Lol
Meg- positive opk yet???
Sis where r u in ur cycle
Barb how is everything going??
Talia I hope you and that little bump are well!!