8 dpo looking for buddies " 4 BFP" "Welcome Jacob "(old thread )

[mzswizz]

Well that sucks.

AFM, im back from the docs and they said I have PCOS. I am now referred to a gynecologist and my primary doctor told me I might have to see a fertility specialist.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Oh no I'm so sorry... We learnt about PCOS in bio 277 I hope they find a way to help you.

 

[mzswizz]

Thanks. I am going to call to schedule an appt. and hopefully we will finally be able to conceive our LO.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Honestly, finding out what is wrong is usually the hardest step. Once you find that out then they can help you conceive. Not that it will be easy, but at least they will know how to help and what to look for now!

 

[mzswizz]

Exactly so im fine. Just ready for the next step.

 

[skittles76]

@Kaiecee, hang in there . It seems like they all have their moments. Better have him act up now, instead of later when Riley will be able to notice. I hope he gets it out of his system soon.

@Colormefamous, WHY! I thought you guys were doing OK.

@Mzswizz, I'm sorry about your result. Like Colormefamous said, it's better to know. At least now you know what to do next.

As for me cd 25, and AF is still a no show. At least the back pain is no more, only my tailbone hurts when I seat. But now, I have to worry about AF and seating too long while I am on my way to Georgia .

Next time I'll post it will be from Georgia .

 

[ColorMeFamous]

I hope you get your BFP, Skittles!!

Yeah we were good. I think that I'm just pulling at threads, trying to keep my family together. Tonight he told me he loved me and Chanel and that when she hugged him yesterday, he felt a new kind of love he had never felt before. I don't know how to approach this. I'm scared. Ughhhh

 

[skittles76]

If you are scared there might be many reasons. Either you find him too good to be true, you find him lacking or you are scared because of past relations, scared of the result. Either reason, take your time. If he is the one, he will understand and wait for you.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

It could be any of those reasons. He is very understanding. I guess I'm also scared because mom and dad got divorced after 17 years and I just don't want to do that. I don't really see relationships work ever. All my friends are divorced. And we are 20!

 

[mzswizz]

@skittles-Thanks yes Im glad to know now so I can fix the issue or atleast get help. And hope you got a bfp coming soon for you.

@colormefamous-I say take your time. He came into your life for a reason. You don't have to rush things and understand that yes a lot of people get married etc and end up getting divorced due to certain circumstances but you shouldn't let that scare you out of a good person and a good relationship that you deserve. Just take your time and have faith that things will be good if its meant to be. My parents are living proof that everyone may have ups and downs in their relationship but they sit there and make it work and find solutions. On the 27th of this month, they will be married for 36 years!!!!! So trust me, if you have the right mindset and so does he, then you guys will be unstoppable and untouchable. And I got married at 19 and I've been married for 4 years now and been with him for 7 years. And our relationship is strong. You just got to have an understanding and communication that's all. Hopefully everything will work out.

@kaiecee how are you?

AFM, cd29 and spotting. I don't know if I should call this AF or what because one minute its red and flow and the next minute I go to the bathroom its brown and its on and off so its very confusing so im just going to put it as spotting on this same cycle. I woke up late this morning but my temp was only 97.41 so not a big difference really. It looks like im not going to ovulate this cycle and whatever this is...is just going to drag itself out. My gynecologist appt. is on Sept. 4th at 9am. I wish it was a little earlier than that but that's the earliest day and time they can book me inside the Navy hospital here. All my docs are inside that one hospital which is great for me. Well, from seeing my doc yesterday, I was a little down because I found out my previous docs were nothing but scam artist She told me I have PCOS and since I am ttc...they should've NEVER put me on birth control. My former docs put me on birth control because they said it will help regulate my cycles because it will help remove my ovarian cysts. She told me that the birth control doesn't remove the cysts, all it does it prevent painful AFs when you have PCOS So I pretty much wasted time AND money on birth control for no apparent reason But now im just happy that these docs don't benefit from the money from our insurance. They get paid based on their rank (active duty Naval officers etc). So they have nothing to gain so they are very helpful. She gave me all the information I need and als ogave me an account to talk to her about the PCOS online etc and what I can do to help myself increase my chances to get pregnant. She is really helping me because she is determined for me to get pregnant so im thankful for that. I've never gotten this far before and FINALLY I know what's going on with me and what I need to do in order to conceive. So we shall see what Sept. 4th holds.

 

[Kaiecee]

i changed my pic so u can all see what riley looks like i think he was 5 months here

 

[ColorMeFamous]

So big now!!! Adorable!

 

[mzswizz]

omg he is soooo handsome!!! And is your new baby going to be delivered around your anniversary time? I just noticed your ticker and your anniversary ticker are kinda close in time

 

[Kaiecee]

Nov 25th is our anniversary and they told me they will deliver between dec 3-6 which is good because I don't want to b in the hospital for me birthday dec 11th

At least we will have an early Xmas present

 

[mzswizz]

@kaiecee your anniversary is my dad's birthday!

AFM, cd30 today and you already know..Im still have a random spotting/bleeding cycle. Hoping this doesn't continue on for weeks. Im hoping it atleast stops by the time I get to my gynecologist appt in 3 weeks but we shall see. Thinking about just changing to tampons instead of keep wasting good pads...or maybe panty liners Don't know yet. Well I only have 4 more modules to go before I have completed the medical coding and billing program Im getting closer and closer to achieving my goal. Also, tomorrow I get to pick up my new dog She got spayed yesterday so she has to be in their care for 48 hours before they can release her to me just to make sure she is recovering fine. Tomorrow morning, Im going to the store to buy her pet bed, the kennel, collar and leash, dog bowls, etc. Im super excited cant wait. DH will be home next Friday so im happy. Also, cant wait for my doc appt. So just pretty much got to wait for everything

 

[skittles76]

Hello from Georgia!

@Kaiecee, he is so adorable.

@Colormefamous, I was worse than you, lol. All my immediate friends are divorcees, but one of them and she's been married for 16 years. So I always thought that married people sucked . But I have been happily married for 2 yrs and almost 6 months. So far I am enjoying it. It all about respect, respect and respect. Once you respect yourself and your mate you are good.

@Mzswizz, congrats on the puppy. I actually had a puppy as a passenger, lol. A shih tzu, he was 6 months old. I drop him off for my friend in Georgia. He was so playful and loving.

As for me, Af showed her ugly head the day that I was moving. Yuck!. My back was killing me during the last 5 hrs off the drive. I wanted to kill someone, lol. Dh saved me when he gave me some aleve.
Now I am settling down to life in Georgia and so far I am loving it .

 

[mzswizz]

Glad you are enjoying your life in Georgia!!!!!

 

[mzswizz]

AFM, today is cd32. The spotting has subsided so im hoping that means my body is TRYING to gear up for ov again. It's a little pinkish but it was there only once when I wiped so it looks like its on its way out Today is my 2nd job interview and I will be leaving in the next hour or so. Sooo I have decided to pamper myself a little today. I have went to the nail salon and had my eyebrows waxed..which was well needed And I might go back after the interview to go get a pedicure because its just something about the mini massages that make you feel so much better DH will be home next Friday so Im happy about that. After he comes home, in the following week or so is my apt And DH is coming with me so atleast he will have all the info. Who knows..they might just ask him to do a semen analysis. Im just ready for the process to begin. Im hoping to atleast get pregnant before he goes on deployment next year. That's the goal. So just occupying my time until then. Plus, here a couple pics of Ellie my new dog!

 

[Kaiecee]

what a cute dog

so im almost mostly packed but cant seem to find a place to move which freaks me out i have to be out 1st oct

so im stuck on finding another boys name if anyone has any ideas please send them my way

hope everyones good anf enjoying the last weeks of summer

 

[mzswizz]

@Kaiecee-Thanks. And hopefully you will be able to find a place before the 1st of oct. How are you and your oh doing? Also, as far as boy names...hmmm Brandon, Reece, Tristan, Daniel, Simon...I can go on for days lol

AFM, im cd33 today and spotting has went away completely My temps are still in normal range so I wonder if my body is going to try and ov again If it does..im hoping its around the time dh comes back from detachment. I had my 2nd job interview yesterday and it went pretty good. I will know if I have the job by Sunday. Im also going to apply to a job that's around 25-30 mins away. Even though its a drive, if it pays better and I get more hours...then the drive wouldn't matter to me. Nothing really to report also. Ellie is doing wonderful here and she is a very good listener etc. Glad I was able to get here Well that's it for now.