8 dpo looking for buddies " 4 BFP" "Welcome Jacob "(old thread )

[Kaiecee]

Well now he's saying he's leaving that to find my own babysitter for Riley just to loss me off he's a real asshole to be doing this to me

 

[mzswizz]

Wow he needs to calm down.

 

[skittles76]

Hello Ladies!

@Mzswizz, oh my my, I can't wait for the double lines , you'll be making my 2013 complete. All my fingers are crossed for you. I can't even imagine, one little one about to be born and one might be on the way!!!!!!!

@Kaiecee, I don't know what to say. Hubby is tripping, he needs to help with the cleaning. Don't tired yourself out, you'll need all that energy in a few days. I feel lucky in a sense, my mother in law is out of the country , far far and far way from me.

As for me, I was busy with my hubby's friend that was visiting this week. They were a lot of fun, but I do like my quiet time with hubby. We visited Coca cola and the aquarium and the Martin Luther King Jr. sites. All fun times that got my mind away from baby making. Now I'm back!

Hubby and I discussed our options or the year 2014 and he still think that we should keep on trying without assistance. I think we should start seeing a specialist, but at the same time I agree with him. So we end up agreeing to go for a specialist in July . That gives us six months to keep on trying naturally.

On a different note, this month is the first month in ages that I did not check my cm at all. And it feels great, it made me feel normal. I guess since we started to try I have not led a normal life . So for this coming cycle I will keep with the not checking at all. And when I think about it, I have no reason to tract mine because dh gets some almost every day, so I should be covered for ovulation.

I also notice a difference in our love making, I am more excited around ovulation and right after, I loss a little bit of interest while being more focused on the tww. So, also for this coming cycle it's going to be about dh and I, instead of just myself. I came to this resolution when I read some posts from the long time trying ladies. Some have issues because of focusing just on them. I am thankful that so far dh is understanding, but, I do not want him to feels different in the long run.

Sorry for the long post, but I had a lot to share.

 

[Kaiecee]

Skittles
Love ur posts don't worry about it being too long and I know what u mean about the tww and love making not bein the same once I stoped worring we conceived Riley so maybe that will be the same with u

Ya dh really better relax because since this morning I'm getting more contractions and I can't go into labour before Friday (Caesarian) I do a lot for him and I don't deserve this at all that's for sure!

 

[mzswizz]

How are you ladies doing?

AFM, im 9dpo/11dpt today. I cant believe 11 days passed already. This cycle is going pretty fast. My temp did drop a little this morning but i think its because it was freezing when i woke up. Even though it dropped, it is still in the 98s range which never really happens around 9dpo. Im usually still in the 97s so something must be working. DH made it to his destination safely yesterday and i miss him dearly but i know that i got to hold down the household until he returns. He left a husband and hopefully he will be able to come back as a husband and father to be. That would really be a great way to come back home. But we shall see. If it doesn't work this cycle, then its IUI on my december cycle. I will be testing later on today. So we shall see what happens.

 

[mzswizz]

today's test...dont know what to think

 

[mzswizz]

here's 3dpt,9dpt and today 11dpt (top to bottom)

 

[Kaiecee]

To me I see the line from today and it's darker than the middle one fx for u

 

[skittles76]

Mzswizz, I see 2 lines in all 3 of them. ARE YOU? I don't actually know what I'm looking for . Those are ept right?

Kaiecee, hang in there. I think he's looking for attention. But, too bad for him, it should be about you an your little one at the moment. I understand, he was going tru the same phase earlier this year when you were about to give birth to Riley. His lost, cause he'll think about it later on in life and regret his way of treating you.

 

[skittles76]

In all my excitement of seeing multiple test, I forgot to say that Af got me today. But, I'm ok .

 

[Kaiecee]

That really sucks I saw the lines that's so shitty

R u sure it's ur real period and not just a break thru bleeding ?

Dh is good now and has apologized so hopefully all will be ok till Friday lol

Did so much shopping that my feet and contractions are killing me

 

[skittles76]

Definitely my Af, lol. But, I'm in a great mood. Today was mine and dh day off. So, I had my back rub and feeling mellow at the moment. Just took some pills for the pain and aches.

Happy that dh came to his senses.

 

[Kaiecee]

Skittles I was getting u mixed up with mzswizz
But that still sucks u got af

 

[skittles76]

I knew you did, lol. Night.

 

[mzswizz]

@skittles Well right now, im testing out the trigger shot which give me false positives.

 

[Kaiecee]

Sorry about mixing u up skittles

Shouldn't the trigger shot be out ?

 

[mzswizz]

i was thinking it should but i guess not. i dont know.

 

[Kaiecee]

Maybe it is a good sign

 

[mzswizz]

Well the tests were negative today. So i will be testing tomorrow at 11dpo and my temps are decreasing so i feell like im out.

 

[Kaiecee]

I got a bfp at 14dpo fx