8dpo Ic! New UPDATE!!!!TEMP DROP, ITS OVER-BLEEDING!

[saveme]

TMI!!!!TMI!!!!
THIS IS THE SPOTTING I'M HAVING..... its been a few times now today only when wiping.

 

[Sander]

I can definitely understand how scary that is - but it’s super light pink. It’s virtually identical to the spotting I had with my son. Scary, but he was ok. I spotted like that the whole 5th week, and again in the 9th week.

Something that gave me comfort at the time was I heard if you go into the ER for suspected miscarriage they ask you how many pads you’re filling in an hour with blood. That wasn’t happening for me and it definitely doesn’t look like it’s happening to you.

I honestly think mine came from a sensitive cervix as the spotting was worse when I was active. If I stayed off my feet it improved dramatically and eventually went away xx

 

[Flueky88]

Just want to echo Sander

 

[saveme]

I can definitely understand how scary that is - but it’s super light pink. It’s virtually identical to the spotting I had with my son. Scary, but he was ok. I spotted like that the whole 5th week, and again in the 9th week.

Something that gave me comfort at the time was I heard if you go into the ER for suspected miscarriage they ask you how many pads you’re filling in an hour with blood. That wasn’t happening for me and it definitely doesn’t look like it’s happening to you.

I honestly think mine came from a sensitive cervix as the spotting was worse when I was active. If I stayed off my feet it improved dramatically and eventually went away xx

Thanks hun that does make me feel better thanks I know I'm truly flipping out now and my nerves are getting the best of me because I don't think I've ever posted such a tmi pic so sorry but thank you

 

[saveme]

Just want to echo Sander

Thanks

 

[sunflower7sd]

I'm "proud" of you for declining another beta test SooOo happy the numbers doubled for you. Sounds like you have a great midwife. I'm praying for a happy and healthy 9!!
And I hope you get some good rest and relaxation this week!!

 

[WantingababyF]

I found out at approx 4 weeks that I was pregnant with HCG of 36 I went back and had blood drawn again and it was more than double but not super high. I know have and 18 month old. So don't worry about numbers aslong as they are doubling

 

[saveme]

I'm "proud" of you for declining another beta test SooOo happy the numbers doubled for you. Sounds like you have a great midwife. I'm praying for a happy and healthy 9!!
And I hope you get some good rest and relaxation this week!!

Yes I thought about it and I don't want to deal with the stress anymore about bhcg its too much so I just prefer to go in next Friday and see lil bean God willing! And yes my midwife is the best been with her for 6 years now and I truly love her and my specialist together they are a good team!

 

[saveme]

I found out at approx 4 weeks that I was pregnant with HCG of 36 I went back and had blood drawn again and it was more than double but not super high. I know have and 18 month old. So don't worry about numbers aslong as they are doubling

Thanks so much makes me feel better about the betas I immediately thought ok its over only a matter of time because like I said before I've never had a bhcg so low in my successful pregnancies

 

[Momof2onetube]

I want to hug you. That spotting is so so light thinking of you til Friday, but keep reminding yourself that those numbers doubled beautifully and if there’s no flow.. I’m sure bubs is just settling in for the long haul!

 

[saveme]

I want to hug you. That spotting is so so light thinking of you til Friday, but keep reminding yourself that those numbers doubled beautifully and if there’s no flow.. I’m sure bubs is just settling in for the long haul!

Awww thanks hun, and the spotting has gone now, myfeel super heavy and they hurt soooo bad, nauseous at times not too bad but overall I feel better today that things may be going in the right direction

 

[saveme]

I can't wait till Friday!!!!
Although I won't be 6 weeks according to my dpo I'll be 5+5 so close enough to hopefully just see lik bubs in the right place

 

[Suggerhoney]

Hi hon
I know it must be scary but honestly ure spotting is sooooo light pink so I'm sure it's ok.
I had bright red spotting at 12 weeks with Tommy which looked like the bloody show and I was so scared thinking it was a miscarriage. But all was fine. The spotting lasted about a week on and off and my midwife cudnt give answers to why it happened. She just said spotting and even bleeding is common in the first trimester and doesnt always mean and news.

To put ure mind at rest with my 4 losses including this last one I didnt have any spotting I just bled. And all were heavy with clots.
This one started off with a medium flow but was heavy the next day and so many clots and sooooo painful.
I hope that puts ure mind at rest a bit hon.
I know its gonna be hard to relax hon u have been through so much over the past year or so and ure bound to be anxious.
Ure tests looks great hon. I'm not sure about beta numbers because they dont do that here but they doubled so that's good hon.
Thinking of you hon. Hope the spotting stops.
I had a scan at 6 weeks with my DD and saw the gestational sac, yolk sac fetal pole and HB. Prayers for a healthy pregnancy sweety

 

[LuvallmyH]

I’m glad you are feeling better. This is such an emotional journey. I think you will get great news at the scan!

 

[saveme]

Thanks ladies it is hard not to worry about every single thing. I'm a ball of nerves one minute then cool as a cucumber the next. I have still been doing my temps yes I know crazzzzyyyy and sure enough this morning it dropped well below my coverline so once again something to freak out about it dropped so low I checked it twice stayed the same then I got up to see if the temperature would change because seriously scared s**tless and of course temp went up when i was standing so thermometer is functioning just fine. I will temp Tomorrow just to see if it rises if it does the thermometer is being put away. I only continued to temp because with all my cp's and or miscarriages and ectopics my temps were such a big clue something was wrong. Even last cp I started temping after the bfp just to see and sure enough I had 2days of very low temps my usual pre o temps I then had a full blown bleed and a cp was the result. With my ectopics temps were very erratic. Idk DH is so frustrated with me at this point because I wont just relax and stop trying to "predict everything" sorry girls just have to get that out you girls have become my sense of reasoning. Your thoughts?!?!

 

[saveme]

Here's my bbt chart oh and was sooo scared went out and bought a frer and still don't have a dye stealer. Ok full on freaking out right now!!!!

 

[LuvallmyH]

My thoughts:
You are 100% validated in all your fears, stress, and worry.
You are 100% welcome to share all your fear, stress, and worry here. We will all support you unconditionally!
You need to stop temping. Put that energy into sending positive messages to that growing baby. It was so hard for me in the beginning to let all of my fears go. I think I was afraid the second I let my guard down, allowed myself to accept there was a baby, and allowed myself to hope, it would all come crashing down. If I was on guard it would hurt less. If something goes bad, it’s going to hurt no matter what. Maybe try to let yourself enjoy this part. As much as you can.

 

[saveme]

My thoughts:
You are 100% validated in all your fears, stress, and worry.
You are 100% welcome to share all your fear, stress, and worry here. We will all support you unconditionally!
You need to stop temping. Put that energy into sending positive messages to that growing baby. It was so hard for me in the beginning to let all of my fears go. I think I was afraid the second I let my guard down, allowed myself to accept there was a baby, and allowed myself to hope, it would all come crashing down. If I was on guard it would hurt less. If something goes bad, it’s going to hurt no matter what. Maybe try to let yourself enjoy this part. As much as you can.

Thanks so much, I think thats truly what it is I have my guard way up and expecting something to go wrong figuring I better prepare for the worse. Ok I completely agree with you and I need to just stop and try to relax and try to ENJOY the fact that today I am still pregnant

 

[Sander]

Here’s what I’ve heard hun - temping doesn’t mean anything once you’ve got your bfp. It’s going to go up and down throughout your pregnancy, and reading into it just causes stress!

You’re still not spotting anymore right? That’s a great sign! Also for what it’s worth, I would say the test line is darker than the control

 

[saveme]

Here’s what I’ve heard hun - temping doesn’t mean anything once you’ve got your bfp. It’s going to go up and down throughout your pregnancy, and reading into it just causes stress!

You’re still not spotting anymore right? That’s a great sign! Also for what it’s worth, I would say the test line is darker than the control

I had a tiny bit of spotting today so far when wiping but super light.
Idk just scared girls, and trying to analyze everything to make me feel secure but its backfiring on me