A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Tweak0605]

Good luck with testing tweak. Fingers crossed. You doing any symptom spotting?

I'm 6dpo so will start poas on monday but go for blood to check for hcg early next week. I'm very impatient and can't bare the suspense!

Oh yes, definite symptom spotting. I have on and off sore boobs, cramping every so often. It seems to get worse in the afternoon. Got really hungry yesterday, to the point I almost threw up. And then the temping thing.

I didn't realize I had someone so close to me in DPO! I'm super impatient and wanted to test this morning, but I'm holding off till Saturday. Good luck to you!!

 

[lexi374]

Hope - sorry! You will be fine honestly! It is quite crampy for a couple of minutes but im a wimp and it settled down after fairly quickly!

Tweak good luck!

Just waiting - i only saw her for the NK test as shes miles away, although i did mention luteal phase, she just made a note of it all which is more than the consultant at oxford did!

That is why i tried soy last time to see if it would improve my LP, as people say it works similar to clomid.

Good luck to you aswell.

xxx

 

[Neversaynever]

Just wanted so apologise for being missing lately...not in a good place at the mo but will be back fighting the usual TTCAL shit very soon along with you all...

Sorry to the ladies that the witch has visited, for the testers and for everyone and to the newbies...

XxX

 

[Tweak0605]

Just wanted so apologise for being missing lately...not in a good place at the mo but will be back fighting the usual TTCAL shit very soon along with you all...

Sorry to the ladies that the witch has visited, for the testers and for everyone and to the newbies...

XxX

 

[justwaiting]

Wlcome back never - Ttc is horrid at times. Your doin the best u can!!

Tweak I have sore boobs and they have lasted for 5 days now. i usually get sore boobs for a few days after ovulation so not sure whether it's been around longer this month. I have been having cramps/ pains in my left ovary where I ovulated from. I too this morning woke up feeling a little sick and just before it's lunch time and I was feeling a little queazy before I ate. Who knows if it has anything to do with anything tho. It's nice to have someone testing around the same time. I've got my Ic's ready to go and frer but I'm hoping it'll be confirmed/pr not early next week by bloods. Strange how something u want so much can also fill u with fear!!!

 

[Tweak0605]

Wlcome back never - Ttc is horrid at times. Your doin the best u can!!

Tweak I have sore boobs and they have lasted for 5 days now. i usually get sore boobs for a few days after ovulation so not sure whether it's been around longer this month. I have been having cramps/ pains in my left ovary where I ovulated from. I too this morning woke up feeling a little sick and just before it's lunch time and I was feeling a little queazy before I ate. Who knows if it has anything to do with anything tho. It's nice to have someone testing around the same time. I've got my Ic's ready to go and frer but I'm hoping it'll be confirmed/pr not early next week by bloods. Strange how something u want so much can also fill u with fear!!!

Yes, I'm so scared to test on Saturday. I used to have all this positive attitude at the beginning of the TWW, thinking this is THE cycle and everything. Now, I'm getting doubtful. We've BD'd at all the right times so I can only hope for the best. It's weird they way my boobs hurt, because they aren't sore when I squeeze them, but I can feel this radiating pain from then when I'm just laying down or something. Cramps have basically gone away, and I've felt off and on sick today. 2 more sleeps!

 

[NewToAllThis]

everyone

Sorry its been a while since I posted properly. I have been around stalking though

Tweak & justwaiting - good luck with testing - hope you both get BFP's this month. I hate symptom spotting - it gives me false hope so I tend to try to not do it (easier said than done though!)

NSN - sending you a massive hug hun - sorry to hear you're not in a good place. Remember we are all here for you if you want to share.

Lexi - glad to hear your appointment with Prof Q went well. Fingers crossed you get the results soon and that they give you some answers. It didn't sound pleasant but it'll be so worth it.

JennyPenny - sorry to hear you went through so much with OH - sometimes they don't think with their brains do they? Happy you managed to sort things out though.

to everyone else and all the newbies - welcome!


AFM - Still getting positive HPTs, although this mornings was very very feint - really hoping it turns negative soon. I felt my ovaries twinging yesterday so rushed home and did an OPK (more for info that TTC) as I so so so want my body to be working again - but it was as white as snow so not working yet!

DH and I have resumed
Not for TTC purposes as we haven't discussed it, but just enjoying it being for no reason (although we are not taking precautions)

I have done some research and am starting to take some vits. I know some people take them and swear by the three month rule to get them in your system so now is the time. I have bought and started zinc & royal jelly - and have ordered the others and am waiting for them.
My plan is to take the following daily :-

30mg Zinc (2x15mg)
200mg Royal Jelly (equiv to 1200g fresh)
100mg Co Q10
8mg Folic Acid (2x4mg)

Not sure if to take more Folic Acid - I was told to take 6 times the normal amount by a friend on here who researched it. They are not expensive so I might. Just want to wait and see how I feel when I start taking everything else together - don't want to overload myself.

Back to work on Mondaty - work rang me yesterday - I had contacted them and asked my manager to tell everyone why I've been off (to avoid any awkward questions).
My manager confirmed that she had briefed everyone and that they were all sorry and looking forward to seeing me next week. She also mentioned that she was willing to let me do half days for the first week to allow me to settle back in, so will be doing 8-12pm next week
Just got to check that they aren't going to make me use my holidays for the time off. Hope not.

 

[RaspberryMini]

Hello everyone. Hope you are all doing ok.

We got over the milestone of the due date and are now in the officially 1 dpo after 2 highs and 2 peaks on the cbfm. I backed up the peaks with an opk and we on peak and high days so now is just a waiting game eek!

to all and good luck to everyone in the TWW

 

[lexi374]

Good luck raspberry sounds like you covered all bases!

NTAT Im glad your work are being kind to you, hope your body gets back to normal soon.

Tweak, just waiting - did you test yet? x

I took my 1st dose of soy again last night, day 3 80mg. Last time i got lucky i did days 3-7 80mg, dont know whether to try the same or increase over the last couple of days

NSN come back when you are ready we will all still be here xxx

 

[patiently]

Hi ladies im back after a long time away. I was so confused i thought it would be best emotionally not to log onto bnb. AF finally arrived after alomst 7 weeks, 5 weeks after my positive opk...i had many hpt but all were negative so think my cycles are just messed up. I have been referred to the hospital on 14th nov! so fingers crossed i will get a little understanding as to what is going on. Hopefully November will bring BFP for us all! fingers crossed i will read through this thread in detail over the weekend so i can keep updated on how you ladies are holding out. Fingers crossed for us all x

 

[Tweak0605]

NTAT - Glad you have resumed ! Good luck this cycle - hope all this vitamins work! I only take my pre-natals, so I can't be any help there! Good luck back to work!

Raspberry - Yay for peaks and highs!! FX'd!

Lexi - Yay for soy!! FX'd for you this cycle!!

patiently - I'm glad you're back, but totally understand about needing to step away. I did that for a bit around my EDD. Sorry to hear about AF coming, and your long cycles. That's frustrating! I'm glad you've been referred to the dr though, hopefully they can sort it out.


And I did test this morning, but BFN. But it's still early. My temp rose back up, so I'm praying it's a good thing. I'll give it a couple days and test again. Maybe it's a good thing I didn't get a BFP, cause I'd probably be freaking out not being able to get to the dr to get my blood work done. Here's hoping for Monday!

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi Ladies,

Good luck to everyone on their 2WW and Lexi, sorry AF turned up again this month. NSN, hope things get better for you soon NTAT, it's really good to just BD for the sake of it - we can all get a little obsessed and it's good to do it just for fun!!

I'm still on my 2WW and have completely switched off from symptom spotting this month - I'm just convinced it's not my month. Not sure when I ovulated but guessing I'm about 9DPO. I'm not going to test until after next weekend - I tested like a mad woman last month so just going to leave the tests along for as long as I can this time.

Decided that if I'm not pregnant this month, we'll give it one more go and then if we still haven't had any luck we'll have a break for Christmas. I found out I was pregnant last Christmas Eve with our first baby and I just can't cope with the 'am I aren't I' roller coater at that time of year. I'd just rather know I'm not and enjoy Christmas.

 

[lexi374]

Patiently welcome back hope you get on ok at the hospital

Tweak there's still time for you xx

Lady frog its ok wasnt trying this mth was told not to before nk test, so am happy af arrived and i can get on with it now, good luck with your tww

to everyone else, hope you are having a nice weekend.

DH is doing a curry, gona have a glass of wine then watch x factor! xxx

 

[patiently]

NTAT - Glad you have resumed ! Good luck this cycle - hope all this vitamins work! I only take my pre-natals, so I can't be any help there! Good luck back to work!

Raspberry - Yay for peaks and highs!! FX'd!

Lexi - Yay for soy!! FX'd for you this cycle!!

patiently - I'm glad you're back, but totally understand about needing to step away. I did that for a bit around my EDD. Sorry to hear about AF coming, and your long cycles. That's frustrating! I'm glad you've been referred to the dr though, hopefully they can sort it out.


And I did test this morning, but BFN. But it's still early. My temp rose back up, so I'm praying it's a good thing. I'll give it a couple days and test again. Maybe it's a good thing I didn't get a BFP, cause I'd probably be freaking out not being able to get to the dr to get my blood work done. Here's hoping for Monday!

Thank you so much for you kind words. Im holding out ok...my OH is being so supportive aswell i really am feeling loved by friends and family and feel really optimistic about my future...I hope your temp rise is a good sign and its still early so fingers crossed that in the next few days your post will read..."BFP ladies!!!!" hope tomorrow brings you lots of good news..fingers crossed! x

Patiently welcome back hope you get on ok at the hospital

Tweak there's still time for you xx

Lady frog its ok wasnt trying this mth was told not to before nk test, so am happy af arrived and i can get on with it now, good luck with your tww

to everyone else, hope you are having a nice weekend.

DH is doing a curry, gona have a glass of wine then watch x factor! xxx

Thank you lexi, glad AF came for you too so now you can try again, fingers crossed for all of us who got AF in october what we will get a BFP in november...I try to think about it this way, we could be only about 4 - 6 weeks from our BFP's! fingers crossed and good luck to all those in the tww, in the dbo (days before ovulation) and those who have just got AF!

Its going to happen ladies! x

 

[Bells n Bump]

Hi Ladies,

Just wondering if anyone can help, I had a slight boit of spotting (literally 2 or 3 spots) a couple days before ovulation, does anyone know if this is something I should be worried about?

xxx

 

[justwaiting]

sorry bells I have no idea what it could be.

How is everyone going?
I should find out tomorrow if I'm pregnant. first hcg test at the fertility clinic. I hope they can tell

 

[patiently]

Good luck at the fertility clininc justwaiting i really do hope you get some fantatsic news...

erm does anyone know what cramping after a period could possibly be. I started my period thursday evening but spotting, then had AF on friday but it stopped saturday..and im getting cramping its very mild but feels like im about to come on...and my cycles are usually 5-6 days long but its been two days of real flow and one day spotting, this is so not like me any ideas ladies?

 

[Neversaynever]

JW..hoping you have some HCG in that blood test

Tweak...any news?

Lexi..cheers hun...how long for results?

Patiently..hoping you get some answers, must be so difficult waiting for AF to arrive after so long. As for the cramps and light AF..I can't help, both AF's since I lost Furry have been pathetic 3 days and only one day of flow. The things that is comforting me is this is the same as after I lost Ginge and I am hoping the next AF is the belter of a clearout like last time

Bells... I have heard of spotting after ovulation which is normal..never heard of pre O spotting sorry

Ladyfog...hope you're holding out ok and you get the BFP you deserve :hugs

to everyone I have missed sorry

AFM...nothing new to report, still in a bit of a funk and not even remotely sure what I am going to do this cycle

XxX

 

[mpepe32]

Hello, I'm hoping I can join. DH and I started ttc #1 2 year ago this month and have had 4 mc's. Last loss was 2 months ago. Pretty pessimistic in thinking I'll ever become a mom. all losses have benn at 4 weeks, so never even got to hear a heart beat

 

[justwaiting]

Welcome Mpepe, Sorry to hear about your losses. We are all in a similar situation here and the ladies here are very supportive and encouraging. Have you had any testing done? I hope you get your forever baby soon. Since your losing them so early could it be a progesterone problem or sperm, egg quality? Just throwing ideas out there as I'm not sure whether you've had anything looked at? If you need help with what to ask your dr many of us on here have had various testing.

Patiently I'm sorry AF is misbehaving, the spotting after af could possible just still be your af or your gonna have af again? sorry I'm not really sure. How many months since your last loss, could just be your body still sorting itself out. If your unsure go get checked out.

AFM just waiting on my test results!