A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[wookie130]

Kmp- nice beta!!! Sounds like you're off to a good start.

Emme! WOW!!!! I can't wait to hear your birth announcement!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Emme - good luck hun, hope baby makes an appearance soon

Thurl - hope you O soon,

kmp - nice beta numbers. Gl for your scan

Monro - happy 12 weeks, when is your next scan?

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ladies!!!

Hope everyone is doing well and had a nice weekend

AFM! POAS this morining (9dpo) and negative. I know it can still be a little early but Im hoping I just have a shy little bub.

Daily to you girls!!!

 

[monro84]

mommylov-don't worry I did not get my bfp till 11 dpo at 9 and 10 it was very very very light on a wondfo IC pink handle. And the very very light line started showing that evening at 9dpo evening pee works better for me.

thurl--I felt ok Fri. and good Sat took no medicine for nausea either day. I took one yesterday and this morning kinda felt nauseas when I woke up. Hope O comes soon for you FX you don't have to wait much longer.

NTAT-Thank you. I have one today in about an hr. Since I missed my appt Wed I have to do everything today. So get the GD test, prenatle blood work, pap, and US. When does the 2nd tri start. I know some say 12 wks , 13 wks, or 14 wks. But 12 wks starts a new development period so I am going to say I am in the 2nd tri now. Yay your 7 wks. Sending tons of Sticky your way.

kmp--Sending tons your way also sticky

Emma--you have that sweet boy in your arm yet?

I will try to upload a pic when I get back.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks! The last 2 I didnt get a BFP until about 14dpo so it may be a bit early for me but seeing as how those two didnt end up being fullterm pregnancies, Im scared of not getting a bfp by now

 

[mommylov]

Also, with being on Crinone (progesterone gel) since last friday, I cant rely on temps or symptoms either since I wont know whats causing them. Oh how I hate the 2ww

 

[NewToAllThis]

Sending you some mommylov for that BFP.

How did your scan, GD test and pap go Monro, hope you have a lovely scan pic to show us.

Emme-hope you have your baby now and are enjoying cuddles.

AFM - starting to get anxious again and still over 2 weeks to go until my next scan. I think after mmc's, you can never totally relax. I am freaked out by cramps and twinges and then worried if I don't get any
Been pondering on a private scan next week, or should I just wait it out, idk.

 

[mommylov]

newtoallthis... I hope the next couple weeks go by fast and you will be at your scan before you know it. I know, its terrible that we cant maintain the innocence we had before we had our losses and just go through pregnancy like others can. Its just going to be that much more rewarding when you are holding your LO

 

[monro84]

12 wks 2 days but was measuring 12 wks 4 days. Heart rate 160 baby was not too active. jumped once and Opened its mouth 3 times playing with its hand I think.

GD was normal, for some reason did not have a pap did not question it either. Go back in 4 wks to measure cervix since even though I do not have a septate anymore I am still high risk for shortening of cervix b/c of being born with a mullerian anomily. They said that at 16 wks they might be able to tell but it would still be iffy. So probable won't be able to find out till 18 to 20 wks thats if baby cooperates.

https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8215/8381572498_3656fb972e_z.jpg
12 wks 2 days heart rate 160 by monro15, on Flickr

https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8327/8381571040_b829eb6a88_z.jpg
12 wks 2 days heart rate 160 by monro15, on Flickr

This one is of the head and a hand is above the head.
https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8044/8381569420_2bcc1aebd4_z.jpg
12 wks 2 days heart rate 160 by monro15, on Flickr

 

[monro84]

I have had a girl in a private facebook group for expecting in july guess at it and she has not been wrong yet and she said Girl.

 

[mommylov]

awwww cute pics Monro!!!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Lovely pics Monro

I think girl too xx

 

[monro84]

I hope so my dh would flip though he is convinced it is a boy he says God would not do that to him or his daughter he said boy this time then next we will try for a girl. I know she would have him wrapped around her finger lol.

 

[mommylov]

heheh ... men always want a little mini-me

 

[Nicki123]

I will guess boy ... I mean I have no idea but I like to guess differently to the majority
The top pic was so clear Monro!

NTAT I also hope the time flies until your next scan x

 

[sammihanvey]

Hi there, I'm not sure if i'm doing this right but I've just read that you have had 5 losses and seen your scan pictures which are amazing. I'm Sam, I've had 3 losses in the past year the most recent was September when I was taken in and D and C carried out. I've just turned 43 and beginning to lose hope, well I was till I read some of the entries on B&B. My close friend who is 42 has just had her first and I'm keen to chat with ladies who have been through this too as no one really seems to understand how hard it is unless it's happened to them. I'm very happy for you, it must be amazing to see your little baby show up on the scan like that, I only wish it could happen to me x

 

[mommylov]

Sammi, Im so sorry for your losses. I have a friend who also had a healthy baby girl at 42 after thinking she couldnt have kids so please dont lose hope. I have had 2 losses myself.. my first ending in a D&C in july of 2012 then a natural in Nov of 2012. The girls here are very sweet and encoruaging and hope you can find peace and inspiration as I have here. Have you gone through any kind of fertilty testing?

 

[monro84]

Hi there, I'm not sure if i'm doing this right but I've just read that you have had 5 losses and seen your scan pictures which are amazing. I'm Sam, I've had 3 losses in the past year the most recent was September when I was taken in and D and C carried out. I've just turned 43 and beginning to lose hope, well I was till I read some of the entries on B&B. My close friend who is 42 has just had her first and I'm keen to chat with ladies who have been through this too as no one really seems to understand how hard it is unless it's happened to them. I'm very happy for you, it must be amazing to see your little baby show up on the scan like that, I only wish it could happen to me x

I am so sorry you have gone through all that. I have had 5 (4 in 2011 and 1 in 2012 and then became pregnant with this one). I found out through a fertillity dr that I had a partial septate uterus that caused my 4 one which was also (twins/triplets concieved naturally). I had it resected in Dec 2011 and became pregnant July 4 but lost it on july 26 but I knew it was doomed b/c it was a very very late implanter and my hcg only got up to 51. I also felt that the septate was the reason and as soon as I became pregnant again and implated at a decent time then it would stick and this one is it so far.

I know of a lady that tried and tried to have a baby and gave up and at 45 she got pregnant on her own and carried full term. If your dr has not chosen to go ahead with fertility testing I would push the issue until that happens b/c I knew something was wrong with me and my old ob told me I am young keep trying it will happen I'm now 28 this was in 2011. You have to be your on advocate I pushed after the twin/triplet loss and he finnally refered me to the specialist. I found out about the septate and had it resected in less than a month from my first appt with him. They said that we could start back after a regular af which would had been March. So don't worry if you have not had any testing done b/c you can get things done pretty fast sometimes but you cannot be scared to ask question and demand answers. It also seems like you get pregnant easily so that is a good thing. I bet you will find answers soon and in less than a yr you will have/be pregnant with your rainbow forever baby.

 

[wookie130]

Welcome, Sammi! This is a great place to find support while you're trying to conceive after losses. Good luck to you on your journey...42 is definitely NOT too late, although it may take a bit longer!

Monro, I LOVE your scan pics! Congrats, and I'm so happy things are going well!

 

[Nicki123]

Hi Sammi. Welcome to BnB. Ttc after miscarriages can be a lonely and frustrating place when people around you just don't know what it's like, so hopefully you'll be able to chat to lots of lovely ladies on here who have an inkling of what you're going through
I am 36 and ttc#1, have had 5 losses and lots of tests. No answers yet but I'm crossing my fingers that this will be my year. I hope it is for you too. Have you been offered any tests?