A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[thurl30]

Oh and mommylov good luck with the Clomid

 

[buttercup_82]

Hi ladies, sorry if this has already been asked but I could use some advice. I have just miscarried at 14 (2nd mmc) last week, had delivery then d&c, haven't had much bleeding and seem to be feeling ok (physicall anyway).

I have a DD (16 months) and in 2010 I had a mc at 11 weeks (lighted ovum). With that mc I had ALOT of bleeding, pain and ended up with a d&c then too. We conceived our beautiful DD on the next cycle - so basically I was pregnant 6 weeks after as my AF arrived 4.5 weeks after d&c.

So basically, I have had 3 pregnancies in 3 years more or less. My consultant, and various docs and nurses at hospital said it would be ok to ttc straight away, just wait til I get my AF first. My GP said wait two cycles (just to let u know this was by phone as I haven't actually seen her since mc).

I would just be grateful for some advice or similar stories? I know I conceived right away after first mc, but I wonder is that because I wasn't as far on and it was my 2nd preg when ttc. But on the other hand, I think I lost way more lood that time. Sorry for the essay - grateful for any thoughts

Thanks xo

 

[mommylov]

Thanks thurl! Hope you get your rain ow baby don! Xx

 

[BeachChica]

Oh Thurl - I hope this is it for you!

Butter - welcome and sorry for your losses. Many girls have gotten pregnant the first cycle after a MC, and I heard that you are actually more fertile during that time. In my experience my doctors have always told me to wait at least 1 cycle just to make sure things get back to normal down there. Just do what feels right.

 

[Nicki123]

Happy Friday everyone!

Thurl, I can't help but get a teensy bit excited for you!! When are you going to test?

Mommylov I really hope clomid works out for you.

Lexi lovely to hear from you, I hope you get a bit more sleep soon!

Beach, good packing skills you have there! I would've ended up throwing things randomly into boxes but you have a good system.

Butter so sorry for your losses. My Dr always advised me to wait 3 months after each mc but from what I read in the Internet, there really is no physical reason to wait that long. My last pg came the month after a chemical pg and I have heard a lot of people say you're more fertile after a mc. I would say do whatever feels right for you, I always felt the need to get straight back to it but some people probably need to give themselves time to come to terms with it etc. good luck

 

[buttercup_82]

Beachchica and nikki, thanks for your replies, and I'm sorry for your losses also. I just realised after posting this, that this thread is for ttc#1 so I'm sorry about that. I think we will know when time is ready, just hoping that one cycle is ok physically, then can think about emotionally too. Really hope this year brings happiness for us all, and lots of healthy babies thanks again xo

 

[Neversaynever]

Oh lordy I'm so sorry I haven't been on here for so long ladies

I barely have time to scratch my own arse these days

Welcome to the new ladies sorry you're here

NTAT...woop

Nicki..hope you get some answers from your biopsy say hi to patiently for me too

Thurl..how're you?

Already I've forgotten what I was going to put

Beach...2013 has to be your year right?

Wookie...almost there

Emme...congrats on Jonathan's safe arrival and I echo wookie and LF

LF...how're you? When's Elsa's appointment?

Buttercup...some people say wait three cycles, some say one. My rainbow was conceived after an early loss without AF in between. Do what's right for you..I don't believe you will get pregnant if your body isn't ready after a loss

to everyone else

Love, and whatever's

XxX

 

[thurl30]

Buttercup sorry to hear about your losses, I think it's down to you as to when you start ttc again, I have heard lots of success stories with people ttc straight away, good luck

Nicki thanks hun, I don't feel excited though, my boobs are getting less and less sore so I have a feeling I'm out again, soooooo frustrating, I have tested for the last 3 days but bfn's. Hope you're having a great weekend

Never lovely to hear from you, sounds like you are being kept busy I'm pretty much the same as always, I have ovulated for the last 3 cycles so that's a start How is little Louis doing? and how is life as a mummy? (apart from being too busy to scratch your arse

Can I ask the group for some help please? Could someone who likes interpreting temps have a look at my chart and see whether you agree with my ovulation date? I'm not convinced that I did ovulate on CD30, I think it was later, but I can't work it out

Hope everyone is having a great weekend

 

[lexi374]

By temps i would guess cd30 x

Baby has a name only took 3 weeks lol.... Neve Catherine x

 

[thurl30]

Ahh Lexi what a lovely name Hope you're all doing well x

 

[wookie130]

Lexi- Love her name!

Thurl- I would agree that it looks like you O'ed on CD 30...

 

[thurl30]

Thanks for looking at my chart ladies, I feel better knowing that you think it's CD30, I was concerned that it took a few days for my temp to rise significantly, and as FF puts me at 11dpo today and my temp hasn't dropped today like it normally does, I thought perhaps I ov'd a day or two later.

Wookie happy 33 weeks!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Thurl - I have no idea about temps sorry so no use to you.

Lexi - Neve Catherine, what a beautiful name. Can we see some pics please?

 

[Nicki123]

Lexi - that's a really pretty name. Worth waiting for the right one.

Never - always lovely to hear from you. Hope Louis is doing well.

Thurl - damn symptoms getting hopes up. Grrrr. I hope you're ok, will still keep my fx for you.

Happy 33 weeks Wookie. Not long now

Hope everyone had a fab weekend.

Next week I have my appointment at st marys for more sticky blood tests, also AF is due to arrive any day which means a new cycle and we will be back on the ttc wagon. Feeling a mixture of excitement and 'I really can't be arsed with it' - hopefully the excitement will win out. X

 

[thurl30]

Thanks Nicki, I guess you never know for sure I can't believe it's almost time for you to start ttc again, that flew by! I definately think the excitement will win, especially once you actually get in to it again, I'm definately excited for you

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls, just wanted to send everyone

 

[monro84]

mommylov--wow good catch with the clomid. good luck with scan tomorrow

thurl--chart looking good. I would day cd 30 b/c I have had charts that have done the same as yours and i questioned whether it was corret but it was when af came on time. GL

butter--So sorry you have gone though that. My first pregnancy was a Blighetd ovum too. I also had a d&c but at 10 wks but was meausring 12. I bleed alot after the d&c like I was mc'ing on my own. I was told to wait 2 wks after d&c to dtd I asked the dr if there were any other reasons that I needed to wait instead of dating purposes and the lining might not be as thick and could cause an early loss, and emotional reasons. He said no So I asked if I was ok with all of those could I start trying again he said yes. So as long as you follow your hcg down with blood test or hpt's to 0 or neg or close to 0 (keep in mind it takes longer to go out of urine then blood). You are not suppose to be able to ovulate with hcg still in your system but it can happen. I think it happened to me b/c after my d&c I was temping and I had a sustained rise 21 days after it. I had a positve hpt 2 days before and a neg blood test a week after the day I supposedly O'd. However I did not receive my next bfp till 4 months later. but I do think your are more fertile after MC or D&c. But its up to you to know your body and know if your ready.

lexi--love the name

Nicki--hope the witch arrieves soon.

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks Monro - am waiting in St Mary's hospital right now for another lot of tests. I had a cry last night as I had to fill in a really detailed questionnaire about my mc history and scans and it was the third time I've recounted it in a week. I also came across the pic From the scan i got done privately when I was going through my notes. It will be nice to have the last lot of tests over with.
Thankfully AF hadn't quite started yet but as soon as the scan is done it can arrive! Then it's a case of here we go again...let the ttc commence!

 

[oyinkan]

Hello ladies,love this thread so much cos it you people that can understand what am goin through right now.Had 2 mc within a year(2012) and got married in july 2011.had my 1st mc @ 4month in march and 2nd mc @ 3month in Oct:sad: and am on CD9 using my OPK and d test line is showing and I have been BDing am hoping for the best in this 2013 with BFP.

 

[BeachChica]

NSN – so good to hear from you. How is it being a mommy? Settled into a route yet with Louis?

Thurl – I think your chart looks great and I agree with O date that FF is showing. Was CD 30 the only day you had EW CM? Usually you get that a couple days before O so maybe you O’d a couple days later…?

Lexi – I love the name Neve Catherine!!

Nicki – what kind of testing are you having now? Thinking of you!

Oyinkan – Welcome to the thread and so sorry for your losses.

Well ladies I am 15 DPO, which is an unusually long cycle for me as I typically have an 11 LP. Last night I decided to take a HPT and got a VERY faint second line (you can hardly see it really). I posted the pic below for you girls to see what you think. I repeated the test this morning with FMU and it was just as faint. Not sure what’s going on as my temps are still up but I have absolutely no symptoms at all.