A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[BeachChica]

OMGosh ladies, I am 4 days late today and temps were still up this morning so I took another HPT and this one was :BFP:!!! The roller coaster begins again. DH and I excited and scared at the same time!!

 

[Tweak0605]

tweak - huge congrats on the weight loss! looks like O is taking its time for the both of us! I think I'm just started getting O symptoms so will start opk's in a bit.

Yeahh, I hate when O is taking it's time. I've got tons and tons of EWCM right now, so I'm thinking its coming soon. Plus, my temps have started rising again, and its taking the pattern of last cycle. If that's the case, then O is 2-3 days away. Hopefully it's sooner cause DH is back at school Wednesday night and won't be home for BDing!

I'm on CD18 and no + OPK yet. Having twinges here and there, but still a faint 2nd line. Had really bad cramping and backaches a few days ago, but nothing. Temps are still all over the place too. Lost 5 lbs last week with my new diet and exercise thing. So happy DH and I are doing it together.

Also found out that DH's cousin is going to the family Christmas party at the beginning of December. They live far away so usually don't come, but apparently this year they are. DH told me he doesn't want to see her, and neither do I, so we aren't going. I just can't handle seeing her pregnant when I'm not, knowing I should have my baby now. She's also one who'll make the thing all about her, non-stop talking about her pregnancy and baby. So no way I can go. I told DH to tell people why we weren't going - his mom, his aunt (who knows about our loss), and to call his other aunt and tell her about it all. I'm just sick of hiding my feelings and my angels.

Do whatever makes you feel comfortable i understand about hiding your feelings to save others...it gets so annoying and some people just really are not understanding or sympathetic...they just go on and on about their pregnancies, so i totally understand where you are coming from..

I hope you OV soon and get your bfp this cycle...fingers crossed!

AFM still have slightly sore bbs...and i think i have a urine infection...im trying not to symptom spot but its hard not to...i try to think if it will be it'll be so just gotta wait and see...fingers crossed...I am going to the hospital on monday to see what is going on and see if they can offer me any assistance...fingers crossed for all...when is everyone in the tww testing?

Thanks hun That's thing, I don't want to go up there and have it be all about her, and listen to her whining about her morning sickness and cramps and whatever else she whines about. She's a habitual complainer, so I'm sure it'd be all about her.

FX for you this cycle!

OMGosh ladies, I am 4 days late today and temps were still up this morning so I took another HPT and this one was :BFP:!!! The roller coaster begins again. DH and I excited and scared at the same time!!

OMG!







How AWESOME, I'm so happy for you! This is starting to turn into a lucky thread! CONGRATS!!

 

[Neversaynever]

Patiently...where are you in your cycle?

Tweak...do what you need to do and stuff everyone else, no one is walking in your shoes

Filipenko...when are you testing hun?

Beach.... what did I tell you I'm so pleased for you

to everyone...I've seen future on a thread and she's got her BFP too

AFM... I feel very weirdly calm yup you read right and I am embracing it whilst it lasts

Symptoms...in bed by nine last two nights, needed a pee in the night, out of breath on a walk and feel a bit queasy although I think that's more likely to be nerves at this early stage

Loads of ladies

XxX

 

[pink80]

Congrats Beach

 

[mpepe32]

Congrats beach!

Tweak, I think I may O in the next couple of days as well so looks like could be at the same point in our cycles.

Patiently - thank you for your encouraging and kind words. And uggg to the urine infection. I`ve gotten them many times and they are just rotten. Hope you get relief soon.

And I just can`t believe how many bfp`s there have been. This has got to be a lucky thread!

Hope everyone is having a nice relaxing weekend!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Beach - way to go - amazing, had a feeling you would get a

I am so glad I am part of this lucky thread - hope my sticky bfp is not too far away.

 

[filipenko32]

OMGosh ladies, I am 4 days late today and temps were still up this morning so I took another HPT and this one was :BFP:!!! The roller coaster begins again. DH and I excited and scared at the same time!!

CONGRATULATIONS BEACHCHICA SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So how many dpo were you when you got your first suspect line?

 

[cazi77]

Hiya all I havn't been around much lately had a bad few weeks. Took a break from B&B and TTC for a month now back full steam ahead. Its so nice to come back to this thread and see so many BFP'S. Massive congrats to all those with BFP's I really hope this is it for you. It also gives me hope that I will get mine.

Me and DH have had lots of tests done and are just waiting for a F/U appt to discuss these.

 

[patiently]

OMGosh ladies, I am 4 days late today and temps were still up this morning so I took another HPT and this one was :BFP:!!! The roller coaster begins again. DH and I excited and scared at the same time!!

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Thats fantastical news!!! magical and fantastic!!! im so happy for you i had a feeling you would get your bfp!! this thread has really started to become a lucky thread...i had a feeling about november too! Really wish you a happy and healthy 9 months hun...

NSN im 6dpo i think today i felt like AF was on her way had that heavy feeling low in my abdomen like i always get just before she arrives...fingers crossed that she doesnt come and I get my bfp in a week or so...huff! im really tryin hard not to symptom spot and tbh i havent noticed any...well not anything that sticks out..got my hospital appointment tomorrow to see what i can do if this isnt a successful cycle..fingers crossed!!

To everyone who has got your bfp so happy for you all...hope you enjoy ur pregnancies...

To everyone in the tww fingers crossed and baby dust to you all..

To everyone else hi hope your all doing ok

Im off out to see immortals at the cinema so enjoy the rest of your evening ladies x x x

 

[BeachChica]

Thanks ladies!!! It's crazy but yesterday DH and I went out for Chinese, his fortune cookie said... "Good news of a long awaited event will arrive soon". This is so crazy, but at the same time I'm scared. I really don't want to go through any more MC's. I hope this is it for me!!

Filipenko- I'm either 16 dpo today when I got my first positive result or 13dpo. Not sure exactly because FF shows that I OV on CD 14 ( which is typical for me) but based on my chart I am wondering if it really happened on CD 17. I've also had negative tests over the last couple days with not even a slightly faint line. So be patient. It's looking good for you so far!!

 

[RaspberryMini]

Hi everyone, been away to Edinburgh for the weekend so not been able to update much!

Another wow! Congrats BeachChica wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months

No change here really, on and off nausea, on and off tender nipples, the main thing is the tiredness but then I wake up at 3am to pee and can't get back to sleep! I'm not feeling too bad overall mostly tired and irritable, but not reading too much into anything I feel quite relaxed about it all as though it's what will be will be. Still don't have the confidence to join any pregnancy boards though...

NSN - hope your coping ok, I too think you've made the right decision about the job

Ladyfog - hope your doing well too

This is clearly a lucky thread to all those waiting to test or approaching O day. Let's hope this is the last time we are all TTCAL

 

[Ladyfog]

Wow another - I can't believe what a flurry we've had. Big big congratulations Beachchica!! - H&H9 months to you!!

NSN, I'm glad you'll have the support of your current employer - it would have been tough starting a new job with tiredness and MS etc. Well done for being so relaxed about things

Tweak - do what you have to do at Christmas - it's important to look after yourself . There's nothing worse than being around someone self centred when you're going through a tough time. I started BDing like the clappers when I noticed the EWCM this time - get to it girl!! Hopefully even if you O while DH is away there will be some little swimmers up there ready and waiting

Good luck to anyone waiting to test!

AFM, doing OK and all going to plan - feeling a bit more worried at the moment though - just want my scan date to come through. Finding it hard to believe that this is actually going to happen, but I know I just have to take it one step at a time.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Yu

Thanks ladies!!! It's crazy but yesterday DH and I went out for Chinese, his fortune cookie said... "Good news of a long awaited event will arrive soon". This is so crazy, but at the same time I'm scared. I really don't want to go through any more MC's. I hope this is it for me!!

Filipenko- I'm either 16 dpo today when I got my first positive result or 13dpo. Not sure exactly because FF shows that I OV on CD 14 ( which is typical for me) but based on my chart I am wondering if it really happened on CD 17. I've also had negative tests over the last couple days with not even a slightly faint line. So be patient. It's looking good for you so far!!

That fortune cookie is spooky isn't it?!
Did you have testing after your last m/c hun? Sorry if you've said already.
I really hope this is a sticky one for you - enough is enough.
I remember you from other threads after I went through my first m/c.

Sending you lots of

 

[filipenko32]

Hi raspberry, all you can do is take one day at a time but I know it's much easier said than done!! Can i just ask you, how many dpo were you when you got your bfp?

 

[Ladyfog]

RM - sorry, realised I missed you in my last post

Sounds like it's all going well so far I know what you mean about waking up and then not being able to get back to sleep! I'm having crazy dreams too - guess it's all the hormones going around. Well done for having such a positive attitude too

 

[BeachChica]

NTAT- I went though about 3.5 months of testing after my 3rd MC. They never really found anything other than a high homecysteine level which I am now taking 2mg of Folic acid for (in addition to my prenatal vitamins). The specialist says there are conflicting opinions on whether this can cause a MC though. It can cause birth defects though so I am glad they found it. The tissue from my last MC was also tested and the MC was due to a Trisomy 12. I feel better that they did not find anything but I think my odds of having another MC are about the same. I am going to be a nervous wreck. Like Filipenko, I have yet to go to a successful scan or hear a heartbeat

 

[Neversaynever]

I am so glad I set this thread up

I've met some lovely ladies on here and is always nice to share the journey with people who are in the same boat

Cazi...sometimes a break is all that is needed

Lady...your losses were at the same stages as mine and the first one was close to mine too I'm so crabby and irritable it's unreal tying not to be

Tweak...get

Patiently...hope you enjoy the film and hope you get a BFP in the coming days or sone answers from the specialist

Lexi...hope you're having fun

and to all

XxX

 

[RaspberryMini]

Hi raspberry, all you can do is take one day at a time but I know it's much easier said than done!! Can i just ask you, how many dpo were you when you got your bfp?

Well I deliberately held off testing until 14 dpo, it could have even been 15dpo. I'm taking the time from my first peak on my CBFM.

In my previous pregnancy I tested at abou 11dpo and got BFN, but then low and behold 3 days later it was BFP

 

[filipenko32]

Yu

Thanks ladies!!! It's crazy but yesterday DH and I went out for Chinese, his fortune cookie said... "Good news of a long awaited event will arrive soon". This is so crazy, but at the same time I'm scared. I really don't want to go through any more MC's. I hope this is it for me!!

Filipenko- I'm either 16 dpo today when I got my first positive result or 13dpo. Not sure exactly because FF shows that I OV on CD 14 ( which is typical for me) but based on my chart I am wondering if it really happened on CD 17. I've also had negative tests over the last couple days with not even a slightly faint line. So be patient. It's looking good for you so far!!

That fortune cookie is spooky isn't it?!
Did you have testing after your last m/c hun? Sorry if you've said already.
I really hope this is a sticky one for you - enough is enough.
I remember you from other threads after I went through my first m/c.

Sending you lots of

I am definitely going for a chinese tomorrow evening!!!

 

[BeachChica]

I am definitely going for a chinese tomorrow evening!!!

LOL!! Yes, I recommend Chinese to all of you!!!