A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[dreaminghopin]

So sad for you xxxx

 

[BeachChica]

Welcome Dreaming! Sorry for your losses but you have come to the right place!

Lady - so glad you are enjoying your vacation and DH is too !!! That's crazy about your scare, that would have scared the bejeezus out of me too!!!

Lexi & NTAT those losses are tough!!

 

[patiently]

Lady sorry about the scare im sure your LO is fine probably from too much bedroom activity. lol...naughty naughty! but you do feel like you have to give your OH a treat now and then right? Just take it easy and as you said she's wriggling around so im sure she's fine! x

Beach so glad AF came!! you going to start trying this cycle?

NTAT i am so sorry about the dr's voicemail. WTF?? are these people just complete idiots! don't they have an up to date computer system at all! You should make a formal complaint they shouldnt be able to get away with that.

Lexi sending you tonnes of I know the anniversaries are really hard hun, try and hang on in there we are all here for support. I hope that next time all will be ok and you get your bfp really soon. Hope you catch the egg this week! FXed for you If you ever need anything we're here! xxxxx

 

[lemondrops]

I think I might be asking to be a part of this group. I had a miscarriage (twins) at 11.5 weeks in October. On Sunday I got a BFP and by Monday it was a BFN. Do chemicals count as recurrent miscarriages? I'm still waiting for AF to arrive, but I've been getting nothing but BFNs so I'm 99.9% sure I'm about to having a chemical pregnancy.

 

[patiently]

Hi lemondrops im so sorry for your losses... im not sure if chemicals are considered to be recurrent miscarriages. Sorry that i dont know the answer to your question but welcome to this thread. The ladies on here are so fantastic and supportive. How long have you been ttc? x

 

[lemondrops]

Hi lemondrops im so sorry for your losses... im not sure if chemicals are considered to be recurrent miscarriages. Sorry that i dont know the answer to your question but welcome to this thread. The ladies on here are so fantastic and supportive. How long have you been ttc? x

We went off of b/c right after we got married in April and we were sort of ntnp from April-July. And then the July cycle was when we REALLY started to try and did the SMEP, got pregnant and miscarried in October. I didn't have a "normal" cycle until January. So when I got my period February 11, we did the SMEP and that's when we got pregnant again, this time with what I'm almost positive is a chemical. So all in all, I feel like it's not fair to complain because some people have been trying for years and here I am, getting a bfp every time we try... but until it sticks I'm still really sad and discouraged.

 

[lexi374]

Welcome lemondrops i would consider chemicals as miscarriages but i dont know where docs stand on that 1, you are very welcome here though.

 

[dreaminghopin]

Hi lemondrops,
I have only just joined this thread too.
So sorry for your losses. I had a bfp at weekend but was negative by Monday. AF came today and actually feeling better as had really known since Monday. If AF shows up I hope your cycle messed about too much. From what I understand, chemical (oh I hate that word) pregnancies shouldn't disrupt your cycle too much and you and your hubby can get back to catching a very sticky bean.

X

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Lexi and Beach for bbt thermometer and FF advice...ordered my therm last night and will register online soon - I'm looking forward to putting my stats in already! Feel good that I have a plan, just as soon as AF arrives. I'll give it to next week before giving the doc a call about it. Glad AF has arrived for you Beach! One step closer on the ttc journey. Help with analysis would be great, thank you

Lexi, I did a hpt on the w/e with a bfn. Tbh we haven't tried in Feb, doing ahem withdrawal instead so I'm not expecting to be. Otherwise I'd be wondering a bit more if that's why AF hasn't shown!

Dreamin, hi and welcome to the thread and sorry for your losses I've also got progesterone for when I'm trying after I've ov'd, so I don't have experience of it yet but will let you know as I use it. Have you got the gel? At what point did you start taking it? Lexi has been told 7dpo but is likely to go 5dpo and Beach is 3dpo, where are you? Hope you get on well with it

Lexi and New - sorry that today/yday were edd and reminders of what could/should have been. Lots of and to you both for the v v near future xx

New - I gasped when I read about your vms and felt upset for you, that's TERRIBLE! I remember saying to dh when I lost the first what if they called about my first scan as I'd had my booking appt about a week before I started spotting and he said hospitals are bad but not that bad. So sorry you slipped through the net and call to give them hell today!!

Patiently how are you feeling today? I'm sure the symptoms will follow soon, how far along are you by your calculations? Did you do a digi? Lots of luck for your nurse appt tomo

Hi Lemondrops and sorry for losses Hope AF arrives for you too v soon, feels like limboland doesn't it?

Hope everyone has a good day xxx

 

[lemondrops]

Hi Lemondrops and sorry for losses Hope AF arrives for you too v soon, feels like limboland doesn't it?

Hope everyone has a good day xxx

AF arrived this morning.

 

[lexi374]

Oh my god can this week get any shitter!!!

Im 99% certain someone else i work with is pregnant too! Shes been saying loads of things that made me suspicious, and then today my bf thats 13 weeks said she walked in on half a conversation with the manager where she said she had an appointment at the end of march and the manager said will that be 12..... and then stopped cos bf walked in!!

Omfg she was only gona start trying at xmas! Im bloody surrounded by them, and they will all be leaving and ill be the only bloody loser still there!! Ive been trying nearly 4 years! Shoot me now!

Sorry to the newbies im not normally such a moaning bitch, im having a really crap week!

On a positive note i did see ewcm today! Cd 13 aswell! Early for me! Dont usually ovulate til cd16-20. Bd yest, then everyday from tom onwards hopefully. Cant see me getting a bfp this month though when im feel on such a downer.

to all x

 

[patiently]

Lexi im so sorry that you've had a rough day. Its so hard when everyone around you is pg thats how i used to feel at my old workplace. 5 women were pregnant, 1 of them miscarried and was pregnant three months later she had her baby in january! But hun you will be joining them soon! I dont know about anyone else but i do put pressure on mysefl as i feel like its a race against time and other women to get pg...but then i remember that we are all unique and we will have our babies eventually! hope you are ok sending lots of sticky baby dust your way! and whooohoo for ewcm! go LEXI!! hope you catch the egg...

Sooperhans i have started to get sore nipples now! and the cramping comes and goes. Haven't taken a digi as im too scared. Was going to buy another frer test too but then thought that i would stress myself out even more. My last pg my lines got darker my digi came up pregnant and i mc'd so dont see the point in doing that. Im just going to take each day as it comes hope for the best and have faith! Thats all we can do i guess. I dont even know if i want to get my betas done. Have my dr's appointment tomorrow hopefully all goes well.

Hi to everyone else!! x

 

[FloridaGirl21]

patiently!! a pregnancy ticker! When did that happen? I haven't lurked in a couple days and I see that going to skim back now

 

[FloridaGirl21]

congrats hun, don't worry about the lack of symptoms. I had none until mid 5weeks, and I think I got them early cause of there being two. Most people don't have any real symptoms until 6ish weeks.

 

[Sooperhans]

Ah Patiently, it could be useful to know your levels, for peace of mind. See what your docs suggest, pleased you have an appt and that you are having some signs of symptoms. There's still lots of time for more to develop, fx'd for you, let us know how you get on xx

Lexi, so sorry you had a crap day, this isn't your week is it. That's good about the ewcm and hopefully this month is your month Chin up and tomorrow is one step closer to the weekend..I'll keep telling myself that too! Work's quite blah ATM so a couple of days away will be lovely. I hope one day v soon you can share your pregnancy news with your colleagues

 

[justwaiting]

Patiently Congrats I have been a bad stalker recently. I'm so happy u got ur bfp especially after last month. Fingers crossed for your rainbow.

Lexi it does seem like the world is on a breeding boom. there are 7 women at work that I know of who are pg not including myself. If something happened with this baby I couldn't face work. I understand how hard it is to see them. As hard as it maybe you may not know their journey to that baby. I know you have had a long and hard ride and hopefully you get ur rainbow soon.

afm - Feeling baby lots lately and on the outside for the first time yesterday, can't feel it very often just when he/she gives me a big kick. DH hasn't felt it yet. I'm feeling pretty good getting a good little bump. Tired as heck but am just so greatful

 

[Sooperhans]

Florida and Justwaiting, it's so good to hear about pregnancies on this thread, it reminds me of what this is all about and you are so deserving after your losses. Not that people who haven't had a loss are less deserving, you know what I mean

Justwaiting, hope your dh gets to feel a big kick soon, that'll be so special. And Florida, how do you feel 2nd tri in with 2 little ones? Very exciting xx

 

[Neversaynever]

Lexi...I am so sorry you are having to had the most EWCM after my last loss and now look at me...fat chubster even more Your time WILL come chick...I just know it and we are all here holding your hand to get there too

NTAT...me...mince my words?? Blah never seriously you need to write a letter of complaint..that just isn't good enough and yup...get to the docs and get your AF started...you've waited long enough now

Bum..can't remember who said about a chemical sorry...when I had my refferal they were slightly reluctant because my tets went negative at 4+2 and I passed whatever at 5 weeks and they blame the fact we find out early blah blah blah. In here...a loss is a loss in my opinion...you still see two lines and you still have that hope

Must dash to work but and everything to you lovely ladies

Ooo beach...day three testing today??

XxX

 

[patiently]

Ladies This morning i woke up and really didnt feel pregnant. Even my bbs aren't sore anymore and i was freaking out I will defo go to my dr's and ask for my betas. I have been toilet about three times since 8 this morning so was thinking maybe i shouldn't test as my urine wouldnt be as strong. But i did anyway i ran to the shop got two frer and a digi conception indicator. Both came out positive...my frer is much darker than it was on tuesday can clearly see its positive from far whereas on tuesday i kind of had to squint. However the clearblue conception indicator says pregnant 1-2...does this mean that i am not producing enough pregnancy hormone. I think im 4 + 1 so should my pg test say 2-3?

 

[Sooperhans]

Hi Never, hi Patiently...it's what your hcg levels rise by that is the key indicator, as everyone starts off differently. So ask your Dr if you can have 2 tests, a week apart, and see how you are doing. My EPU tested me 48hrs apart but my doc said there can be daily fluctuations. Lots of luck and everyone crossed for you xx