A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[patiently]

Lexi sounds like you really have it covered this month. You're in the 2ww!! FXed this is your bfp!! sending lots of sticky baby dust your way. So excited for you!!!! Hope all is well.

Sooper the pain was all over. Mostly on both sides. Haven't had any pain since just the odd twinge here and there.

Ladies i just wanted to say a huge thank you for your encouraging words. I know i worry loads and loads and im sorry if i come across self centred at times I think PAL is really hard. Hopefully we'll all be discussing baby names in the very near future. Sending lots of baby dust to those who are in 2ww and with o'v approaching. Hope all the pregnant ladies are also doing well and like Lexi said we are waiting to see baby bump pics...

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!! x x x

 

[dreaminghopin]

Glad you had a nice doctor who has managed to reassure you. Don't be daft this is what we are hear for. Pregnancy after loss will be a worrying time and think I will be the same (if it ever happens)!

Birthday weekend for me and trying so hard not be glum even for the sake of dh who is trying his best to cheer me up. He is always telling me that we need to live our life's but sometimes it's just so hard and days like this are just a reminder that I'm still not pregnant. Right pity party over going to try and have a good weekend and hope you all will too xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Lexi, yeah dh is an only child too...pressure isn't it! :-S Hopefully this is your month, so hopeful for you x

Patiently pls don't worry, we all know how terrifying it all can be, hopefully it was constipation. Feet up now, get oh running around after you! And only go back to work when you are ready x

 

[Sooperhans]

Happy birthday Dreaming! Next one you may have a lovely baby...for now enjoy a glass or few of vino!

 

[hopingtobemum]

hi there just wondering if I could join in here. We are currently trying to conceive. I have had 4 losses over the last 2 years - including a late one at 21 weeks for my first loss - all the others have been before 12 weeks since. I am currently in the 2 week wait - period due on 19th March - hoping it doesnt come!!! xxxx

 

[lexi374]

Welcome hoping so sorry for your losses particularly the later 1 that must have been incredible difficult. hopefully we will be able to offer you some support here.

Dreaming i hope you manage to enjoy your birthday weekend, its so hard when you think of the what ifs but hopefully you will get your sticky bfp soon.

Patiently we all have good days and bad, when they are good we can offer support to others and when they are bad hopefully others will offer us the same support. Relax this weekend and i will be keeping my fx for your scan on monday x

 

[dreaminghopin]

Thanks for the birthday wishes ladies.. Of to enjoy some birthday cocktails. Welcome hopingtobemum, so sorry for your losses, life can be very cruel. Hope 2 week wait goes super quick for you resulting in sticky bfp xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Hi Hoping, I echo what Lexi and Dreaming have said, really sorry for your losses, have you had testing following these losses? Fingers crossed you get good news on or around the 19th March!

Dreaming - enjoy those cocktails!!
Xx

 

[Inoue]

Good luck to you all - there seems to be a bundle of different scenario's going on here (some PAL, some TWW, some TTC, some recovering etc). I really hope you all find happiness in the near fufure

Im 3DPO but kind of forgetting about it at the moment, i dont even want to think of how the PAL will effect me... it will be so scary to go through it all again and pray all will be ok on the scan day .

Welcome to the new members ~ were all here for you x

 

[NewToAllThis]

Patiently - sorry to hear you were panicking this morning - but glad the doc has brought the scan forward. Hopefully there will be a lovely little healthy bean in there, but don't panic too much if there's not much to see as its still very early

Hi to the newbies - you're all very welcome

hopintobemum - Welcome and sorry for your losses. 21 weeks must have been so hard. So sorry but glad you're here

Sooperhans - I'm an only child too - mum and dad are beside themselves wanting a grandchild - and its awful that I can't give them that

Dreaminhopin - happy birthday have a few drinks to celebrate

Lexi - how you feeling now that EDD is over? I think you covered your bases around Ov - good luck

AFM - spent all day gardening, it now looks lovely but I'm knackered. Waiting for my Indian takeaway to be delivered and having a beer Happy Saturday everyone

 

[patiently]

Lexi just looked at your chart definately think you ovulated cd 15!! but defo think you have it covered also!! FXed for you hun. Sending lots of baby dust your way. Are you going to symptom spot?

NTAT well done for doing the garden, and just in time for spring too! Hope you're not too tired and have a fantastic weekend!

Dreaminghopin happy belated birthday hope you had a fantastic day!

Inoue when will you be testing? have you noticed any symptoms yet? Hope you catch the egg and sending you lots of baby dust!

Hoping welcome!! I so sorry for your losses. You are incredibly brave and strong, and I hope you get your sticky bfp in a few days also sending lots of baby dust your way!!

To everyone else hope you have a wonderful sunday! anyone eating anything nice? Sunday is a big dinner day for us so will be having some prawns, potatoes and veg! mm cant wait! have a lovely day all! x x

 

[patiently]

Im going out of my mind here. The hospital wont give me the results over the phone and have told me to come back in and pick them up but i cant do that today. On top of all this my bbs are not sore anymore...i dont even feel pregnant anymore...I just want to cry

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hun, symptoms come and go all the time. Remember NSN stressing over it? And her baby is doing just great. The hospital may want to tell you in person and maybe do follow up bloods to compare, so please try not to panic xxx

 

[pink80]

Patiently - NTAL is right, symptoms are never really a good indicator or how things are progressing and they will come and go. I'm sure it's just hospital procedure - try not to get yourself all worked up xx

 

[lexi374]

Patiently i agree they usually do 2 lots of bloods to compare so maybe they just want you to do that?

I will be thinking of you tom at your scan, remember you are not even 5 weeks yet so dont panic there will not be much to see. Dont worry over symptoms just yet get tom over with first.

Ntat im ok thanks, good days and bad, sometimes i feel positive and think we WILL get there and other times i feel so down and think it will never happen...
How are you after this week?

It seems some of us are in tww, me included, gonna TRY not to think about it.....
I always get it wrong anyway!
Was great to see a bit of sun today, always cheers me up.

Hope everyone had a nice weekend.

 

[Sooperhans]

Oh Patiently, the waiting for results is awful. Hope you see them early tomorrow, have follow up bloods taken and hope you get on well at the scan hun xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Lexi, I feel the same - sometimes excited at what the future holds, sometimes terrified that it'll never happen. Fingers x'd to you and the others in the 2ww

 

[Neversaynever]

Patiently...I know how scary all this but you have to try not to worry as hard as it is. You are too early to have constant symptoms and strong ones at that too Cramping is all normal, baby is burrowing in to your lining for the duration. Good luck for the scan...hopefull yoyu'll get to too the gestation sac

Pink....huge for this weekend mu lovley

NTAT..wan to do my gardening?

Balls...power cut and can barely see what I am typing now

for the TWW ladies... for those that need them and I wil be back...hopefully!

XxX

 

[patiently]

Lexi glad you had a good day today and the sun cheered you up. Like you said we WILL get there. Hang on in there you could be days away from your sticky bfp! FXed for you...x

Thank you everyone for your supportive and encouraging comments i really do appreciate it and sorry for my dramatic rants every other second. Will update tomorrow. Night Night x

 

[Neversaynever]

Patiently...don't apologise...it is perfectly normal to feel that way

XxX