A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[BeachChica]

Hi ladies!

Patiently - I know its hard not to, but try not to read into your symptoms too much and just take this pregnancy one day at a time. I was totally stressing every day of my last one and I was a wreck. I even had my doctor stressed.

Lexi - sorry you had a rough day

JW - how exciting about the movement!!!!

AFM - I have my day 3 bloods at 11:30 this morning. Can't wait. It will be interesting to see what those show. I probably won't get my results until next week. AF has been a b*tch this month ugh!! Read for her to gooooooo away!!!

 

[Inoue]

Bleh! Back again after failed cycle last month - now 1dpo... I hate the dam TWW just to get shit results .
All the best to others who's struggling - I feel ure pain xx

 

[patiently]

Inoue hope you get your bfp and the tww isnt too long! Hope you get your bfp early like 8/9dpo so the wait will be even shorter! FXed

Lexi hope you are ok hun

Beach I know stressing really isnt beneficial. I try to stop but its so hard. Good luck with your blood tests. Keep us updated.

Sooperhans i know that its the doubling time thats important but i cant get my betas done so im trying not to think about it. Just got to wait or my scan next week.

Thanks ladies for all your encouraging words. Hope you are all having a fabulotastic day! its so sunny in London! Im off out to a fruit and veg market. Might do a bit of vintage shopping too...well if im lucky. Enjoy the rest of your day x x x x x

 

[Sooperhans]

Patiently, cool, wouldn't worry about the 1-2 week on the digi as it may have been b/c it wasn't the first urine of the day or you may have diluted it. Hope you enjoy your vintage shopping! What did the doc say?

Afm...today I think I'm getting AF, so far I've had a bit of spotting. Hope so! Looking forward to officially ttc soon. Although my thermometer hasn't arrived yet! Is it ok to start temping further on than cd1? Thank you xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Beach, good luck for the testing, what kind of thing are they looking for? X

 

[lexi374]

Soop yay for af! You can start trying! Its ok to start temping later than cd 1, your temp can be a bit weird during period anyway, just start as soon as it arrives. Try and do it the same time every morning.

Beach how long til you get results?

Inoue good luck for this month!

JW yay for feeling bubs move! How cool!

Lady hope the hol has you nice and relaxed.

Patiently i have everything crossed for you, im glad you are getting an early scan, remember its very early to see anything though.

Nsn hey and thanks for still supporting us! Cant wait to see the rock!

Florida hows the bump progressing?

Hey preggos we need to see some bump shots on here!

Hi to all the other ladies to those that need it! x

Oh and afm cd14 and more ewcm! Dont normally see that much, as nsn said seems to be most 1st cycle after mc, we bd this am. I think ov is round the corner which will be pretty early for me!

 

[patiently]

Lexi sending you and everyone ttc lots and lost of baby dust! Hope you catch the egg!!!

 

[BeachChica]

Sooperhans - Yes its Ok to start after CD 1. When you enter your data into Fertility Friend, be sure to enter your first day of AF (with no temp) so it will know to count that as CD 1 and then enter temps on the days you take it. Its best to enter as much info as possible to have the AF, temps, CM etc so that it can track your cycle the best. The test I had was for FSH, Estradiol, and Anti-Mullerian Hormonedone. Apparently these tests on Day 3 can provide information on the quantity and quality of your eggs.

Lexi - sending lots of your way!!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you Lexi and Beach for your temp advice, hoping it arrives on Mon, so I can get cracking with it all. AF is in full force, think it's been the only month I have been pleased to get it! Spoke to my doc, she told me to start the progesterone on 4dpo, then test on day 28 and stop if bfn. Continue if bfp. I'm looking forward to ttc and feeling like we'r working towards something, felt pretty hopeless before. It's been such a busy few months, if we can have some good news it would be amazing. FIL has been unwell and MIL is struggling with caring for him, it's been 1 1/2 yrs since his stroke and countless seizures/hospitalisation since. Also think my parents are waiting by the phone pretty much, waiting for news of a first grandchild lol. Hopefully one day x

Good luck Lexi!! Hope you catch your early egg

How are you Patiently?

How are you feeling NSN? I read some of your journal (hope you don't mind) and I have everything x'd for you, happy 16 weeks and thank you for setting up this lovely, supportive thread. It's already been so helpful and informative to me, thank you everyone, I feel quite emotional thinking about the kindness of strangers...xxxx

I hope these tests are really informative Beach. When are you looking to ttc again?

The weekend is finally here!!! Hope everyone has

 

[Sooperhans]

Hope everyone has something lovely lined up xxx

 

[patiently]

Sooperhans im so sorry for your FIL and MIL. Life can be so hard at times and Im sure when you get your bfp they will be so thrilled to hear about a baby on the way. Hopefully really soon. Possibly in a few weeks!! FXed and baby dust to you x Temping has been amazing for me though confusing at times. But it really does give you a clear indication of your cycle!! GL hun x

Beach hope AF isnt too bad today and you get your results real soon!

Hope everyone has a fantastic weekend! x

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you, wouldn't that be amazing!! It would make our parents-and us- so over the moon. Thanks, I think temping will be really useful, help with interpretation would be great! I'm going to have to sort my tickers/links in my profile too.

Hope you are feeling well and not fretting. That's good you have an early scan, is it soon? X

 

[patiently]

yes its next wednesday God willing all will be good. x

 

[Sooperhans]

I so hope so x

 

[patiently]

Ladies this morning I have had some intense intense cramping it woke me up from my sleep so im really scared I am going to A&E as the pain is unbearable and I want to get seen. Im meant to be at work today and really feel awful not to go on in. But this is so important to me and I wont be able to relax at all. PLease wish me luck I hope everything is ok.

 

[dreaminghopin]

Thinking of you.. Hope you manage to get seen soon and find out that baby is just trying to get very comfy in there. Please let us know how u get on xxx

 

[patiently]

Thank you dreaminghopin. I just got back. They done some swabs and checked the neck of my womb and said it looks good theres no blood and my cervix is closed. They took my blood for some tests so hopefully i will get the results later on. Also they have prescribed something to help my bowel movement as i have been constipated. The dr i had was so amazing he was so helpful and he pushed my scan forward to monday. I told him i had one booked for wednesday but he insisted. I hope everything is ok, and baby is like you said just getting comfortable. Since last night not really any cramping just the odd twinge here and there. I know i shouldnt go by the lines on hpt. But this morning i done another and the test line is now so much darker than the control line. Two days ago the test line was dark but not as dark. My bbs are also getting tender under my armpit. Hope these are good signs...

 

[lexi374]

They sound like good signs!

Maybe it was just constipation and a bit of normal cramping?

FX for you thinking of you lots xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Oh Patiently, so sorry to hear you have been in this pain, it's good that it has stopped now. Was the pain on any patticular side, or all over? Thinking of you and hope they give you your blood results v soon. That's positive about the cervix, lack of blood and scan on Monday, I am sending lots of chilled and healthy vibes your way until you hear back. Good luck hun xxx

 

[lexi374]

Sooper hope you get on ok with temping give us a shout uf you need any help. Sorry to hear about your inlaws.

Im an only child and my parents are getting on now, i would love to give them a grand child.

Afm wish i hadnt given dh the day off wednesday as it looks like ov has come early yest! Cd 15! Dont think ive ever ovd that early! Was expecting it sundayish. Anyway we bd cd 12, 14,15. So hopefully thats enough.

Hi to everyone else how are you getting on? x