puppymom32
Mommy to Xavier
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Hey ladies havent posted on here but have been reading hope all is well some exciting news going around!! Dream each bday I have that same feeling about my sons Birthmother and she is family so that makes it even more emotional. Speaking of which I found out from her sister that BM is pregnant. I just dont how/what to feel. It has be over 4 years since she gave birth to our son was pregnant once but MC last year had her two daughters taken away by the state they are with the only family they have known or I would have taken them in. So I am not sure what will happen with this little one. I know she has a drug problem but I pray that she is not using for hers and the unborn babies sake. They didnt say how far along she is but I imagine she is pretty far along as she was when she found out with my son. I would love to have another child through adoption and this baby would be his bio sibiling or half sibling. I have not spoken to her in over 4 years during that time other family has only seen her 4 or 5 times due to her living on the street with her drug addiction. I just told her sister to let me know if the state steps in or if she decides she wants to adopt that we would be interested. I'm going to contact my lawyer to see if I can be notified if for some reason the state does end up involved. Because with the lack of communication even our local family where she is may not know when she gives birth and what the outcome is. Its out of my hands and what will happen will happen. I would love to be able to see her be able to mother but past experience makes me beleive that is wont happen or only for a little while. The crazy part is my son has been asking for a baby brother. I told him that mommy couldnt have a baby and he said well we can just catch one falling from the sky. ![Smile :) :)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/icon_smile.gif)
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