Another day another BFN

[julybabe84]

Feeling so down today another BFN and I;m 19dpo. I wish would just show up now so I can start again.

 

[tweedy]

hey, sorry you still have no answers, i'm in the same boat, 16dpo and no sign of af and bfn. so fustrating!

i got pregnant 1st time with my mmc and got my bfp 4 days early, this time i'm 2 days late and nothing, i was devastated, but i suppose it's only our first month trying again, what has me worried is that i had an ectopic in 2007 and with that they were able to detect pregnancy till i was 6 weeks, i got faint bfp from about 18dpo, then i went on to have the ectopic diagnosed which was such an awful time, so now i am hope AF comes, and it's not another ectopic pregnancy.

why do we do this to ourselves!

T

 

[Lumboo]

JulyBabe, when is AF due? Do you know the date you actually OV, as yu could have implanted late, in whch case your HCG levels may not be detected so soon. Hope its good news and that your wait for a BFP will soon be over Xxx

 

[julybabe84]

I think i got it all wrong this cycle i'm fairly new at it. I just checked my cervix today and it is high soft and more open than I've ever felt it so i've had to go into fertility friend and change everything I recorded as open to medium. I also noticed I had put in one of my temperatures wrong when going back through my diary and it looks like i've not ovulated yet. However today everytime i've been to the toilet i've had loads of EWCM dangling (TMI sorry) from me. So possibly Ovu is near I'll keep up the opk's this week just incase today;s was quite dark but not as dark as the control line. Symptoms must be to do with that or because i wanted to be pg i tricked my body into acting like i was. Also tummy starting to swell which it usually does a few weeks before af with me and given that my shortest cycles in a year have been 46 and 53 days it could be about right.

Tweedy sorry to hear you've had so much trouble I hope you get your bfp soon and have a health pregnancy.

Oh well looks like its back to for me lol