Any ladies starting ivf in april !!!! ??????

[Chaseizzy]

Thanks trolley scerena hope your both good sending good luck wishes !!!

Faye thanks and I gave up alcohol since January that's it really and tried to stay calm because I'm a but nuts!!! I'm 29 so not doing so bad on the age front I guess.

I had an ectopic when I was 18 and have struggled ever since!!

Good luck with your collection m sure you will be just fine!!!

Xxxx

 

[fayewest]

Thanks Chase,

I have been alcohol free since March, I had a little before then but nothing too crazy. Thanks so much, I am really scared but hoping for the best, still feel like this might not work and have another go on my pct so dont feel majorly stressed at the moment ... I am sure I might do after Monday though x

 

[Chaseizzy]

No probs that's good ou get another go this is our oly shot on the nhs
I'm sure ou will be fine stay positive!!!

Xxx

 

[xx Emily xx]

Scerena - fingers crossed for you! I'm so exited!

Betty - congrats on being PUPO with twinnies!! glad you've got 2 good embryos!

Em xxx

 

[Chaseizzy]

Congrats Betty that's fab ou are pupo with twins!!!!

Xxx

 

[fayewest]

Congrats Betty, that sounds amazing, two brilliant quality embies in ;0) CONGRATS xx

 

[fayewest]

Chase - We are really lucky to get 2 goes on the NHS, we are actually just on the border of three counties, in Wiltshire you get 3 goes and Baines you only get 1, so we are a happy medium ... Just want to get it all moving now, next week is going to be tough as I wait to get the eggs looking perfect, I am doing Acupuncture so I hope that will help me x

 

[bettybee1]

Thank you ladies I had a fight on my hands to get 2 back I tell ya !!! They were like ur only 21 an you have already have a baby do if you get preg theirs a 30% chance of twins I was like a willing too take that risk and it up the preg rate havingb2 !!!!

Am cramping now tho and have really bad trapped wind!!!!x

 

[fayewest]

Hi Betty, what area do you live? I have been told only 1 back unless they are 2 or 3 day blasts, I really want to fight for two though, I just don't think they will let me!

 

[bettybee1]

Hey am in Yorkshire but Iam slef funding so it's my choice weather I have 1 or 2 but they can advise you not too !!

When your nhs funded you can't really have a say init. , but suppose its fair becoz you getting like 5000-6000 worth of treatment free I only wanted 2 as I have paid so much other wise I would have 1 with out a doubt ! I have had day 3 ones not blasts if it had ring blasts I would have only 1 xxx

 

[fayewest]

The thing that gets me is that the clinic don't fund the treatment from their budgets, the money comes from a completely different source in local health care budgets.

So it shouldn't make any bloody difference to them, they are getting the money whether its from the individual or from your PCT so they should treat you exactly the same, and give you the best possible chance of getting pregnant! Modern research (2012) by Bristol University says the best chance is by putting back 2 eggs, in every case!

Its bloody annoying, I really do want 2 back, I will argue for it! ;0)

 

[fayewest]

I just read that my clinic are the top rated NHS clinic in the UK this year, which is brilliant news, I guess I just need to trust them and stop freaking out! ;0/

 

[bettybee1]

Haha don't worry hunnie if your embies Arnt the top quality they will put 2 back !!! Regardless !!

How old are you xx

 

[scerena]

My clinic asked me if I want two back at day 3 and that seems standard protocol at my clinic and usually one for blast... But They can only advise me not tell me as its a private clinic so it's my choice... I don't know guess every clinic is different... they will do what they see as best for us I guess

betty thought I'd congratulate you on this thread too

em thanks he are you???

fay that's brilliant news keep your trust in them

 

[fayewest]

They are the doctors afterall ... must be annoying really when people come in and say 'but I have been reading on google .....'

The doctor I saw here was a bitch, really patronising and told me to 'stop talking to those women on forums' and that 'I didnt need to concern myself with all the things they do' they'll do the best for me blah, blah blah! I despised her!

I complained and got moved, she may be good at the technical side of things but her bedside manner is terrible! Thank god the nurses are all lovely x

 

[scerena]

fay I hate doctors with no manners some are so stuck up!! I'm glad that you got moved and the nurses are lovely

 

[fayewest]

Oh forgo to say I am 36 ;0) x

 

[scerena]

IM HAVING A 5 DAY TRANSFER she said it will be so difficult to choose the best embies today as they all look really good and they want the one with the best potential...

All 4 embies are doing very well...
They grade from grade 1-4 with 1 being the highest... All 4 are grade 1
So far there is one 7cell
And 3 8 cells, they were all 4 cells yesterday so they're doubling nicely she said....

Anyhow Im having transfer on Sunday IF they make it fx'd

I said will they make it and she said they're developing very nicely, if they were slow they would have put them back, she said if they're going to develop it wouldn't make a difference being in the dish or inside me, she said they are doing very well...

fay at 36. Thought you were allowed two back? Or that might be on the 2nd try? Anyhow I'm sure they're doing what is best for you

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hi ladies

BFN for me im absoultly gutted thought i had control but im so in shock
We had such high odds 70% with 2 5 day blastos put back what a rollercoaster this has been not sure what the next step is no doubt wait a couple of months for AF then try again never felt so down!!

Anyways this is a lucky thread so im not going to pull it down no more

Betty congrats on being pupo with twinnies!!

Scerena GL for ET!!

Emily look forward to hearing about your first scan!!

Captain im hoping u got your BFP!!If u r around PM me if u want to!!

To the rest of u ladies GL with your journeys its a tough one and try your best to get 2 embies every time to double your odds....but like em it can work with just one!!
I will b checking in from time to time to c how u all r getting on sending u all lots of Hopefully i will be back with a sticky bean one day its been great talking to u all u have all really helped me through this rollercoaster journey xxx

 

[captainj1]

Hey Trolley, I'm right with you. I haven't tested again but AF has started - not full yet but bright red and only a matter of time before it makes it through all the crinone gunk. I'm gutted too but at work so trying to hold it together. I've emailed the clinic as I really don't think I can speak to them without choking and I'm the boss so I can't have my client seeing that. Gutted for you too hon. I just keep thinking it will happen, it is just a matter of when. Like you we were given excellent odds and everything looked perfect so it is hard to think what might be different next time.