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Gah! OH ran down the corridor when he heard Dom crying today (while I was out at the vets with Alfie for his shots) and he tripped and fell badly, injuring his arm. It is impossible for him to lift either baby out of their cots. It is supposed to be his night and he will take it but he won't be able to rock Dom back to sleep so if Dom wakes he will have to do our verison of CIO . Plus he might have to wake me at the crack of dawn to get the boys out of their cots and changed etc. Unless of course his arm improves over night. But if it doesn't then it will be 3 nights in a row of not great sleep for me. And it will 4 tomorrow as I will be on duty again then. I am so selfish! Of course I hope OH's arm will improve cause I don't want him to be hurt but mainly I want to cry at the prospect of not getting my full night's sleep again tonight How horrible of me. How did I do it when the boys were tiny and for more than 3 months I always had 4 to 5 nights in a row? Then the boys were on a 3 hour rota with their feeds and it took almost an hour to feed both. I guess one gets used to things and copes somehow.
I wanted to catch up with personals before going to bed so here goes:
Borboleta I meant to say thank you for advice re CIO. I really don't want to have to do this but I guess it is getting habit with Dom and his 2 bottles at night. I know he knows how to self settle as he has done it many times. And he has had 3 or 4 nights where he only woke once for a bottle so he doesn't really need it. But I am very interested how it will go with Thiago and his naps. I don't think either of my boys need this as usually they fall asleep in their bouncies quite willingly. Maybe it will change when I start putting them in their cots for naps.
Poor little Thiago and getting his shots. Did he cry very hard?
As for bumpers, we still have the breathable ones even though our boys don't get to move around their cots much cause of their wedges and belly bands.
Storm thank you I know you understand the depressing-ness haha of non sleep even better than me as you don't have anyone to take your L every other night. And as for how I cope with two, Sebastian is a very good sleeper and unless Dominic wakes him he usually sleeps right through till just before 6. So really I only have one bad sleeper. But I hope things are improving for you? How is her sleep now on her lactose free diet?
As for your friend with the twins I bet her kids aren't such bad sleepers and she gets 12 hours from them every night It is easy to look well rested when one is well rested.
But for your other friend with that little girl who is allergic to everything. Wow. Poor LO and poor friend! Is there any chance the little girl will grow out of this or is she stuck with this all her life?
As for us not dtd. Well it has been over a year now and quite frankly I think it is a combination of things. I don't think Nick has fancied me terribly much for a number of years or he truly did go off sex as he says. I find that hard to believe cause after all he is a man. It was hard enough to get him to dtd once a month when we tried to conceive for those 3 and a half years. Then also I am sure he didn't fancy me at all when I was pregnant with the twins though of course he kept telling me I looked lovely etc. And now I am so insecure about my horrible belly and the slight overhang I still have that I wouldn't want any either. I know he loves me very much but although he tells me I look lovely all the time, I just don't think he fancies me Sorry that was TMI and sounded too much like a pity party which it wasn't meant to be.
Sabrina we use the big bath too now and have this swivel bath chair. Dom loves it and Sebastian hates it but then he doesn't like bath time anyway. Hope Finn's bath went well tonight? Did he manage to sit by himself or did you have to hold him? I am looking forward to when the boys can sit in the bath unaided cause then they can share a bath and I hopefully won't have to draw two baths. (Sebastian needs special soap and shampoo cause of eczema).
Leeze are you all unpacked and settled in now? How is Kia doing these days? I am hoping she is no longer as subdued as she was at first?
Yeah sleep is sometimes just like it was with newborns. But at least I usually get every other night of a full night's sleep. So it isn't that bad But yeah I am looking forward to being able to just tuck them in and go to bed with no worries. I am sure it will happen before they turn 18 lol Isn't Chamomilia just chamomile? We have a calpol diffuser plug in that has chamomile and lavender in it and though it really helps unblock a snuffly nose, I don't think it helped Dominic sleep any better But it might help Kia?
Clio we posted at the same time almost I think.
My relationship with my mum has always been really good and close except possibly in my teens but even then nothing beyond normal teeny angst nonsense. I truly adore her and think there are few ppl in this world with a warmer heart and less selfishness. She didn't handle things well in regards food (or in regards to what she told me about men) but there was never any doubt in my mind even when I was a teeny that my mum loves me with all her heart and would do anything to see me happy. My mum has always been very slim and elegant and when she was young she never had to watch what she ate and was in fact known as the hoover in her boarding school. Only after she had my brother and me did she have start watching her diet a bit. She loves sweets and especially chocolate and is in no way obsessed with her body. I guess she is more naturally slim than I am. She did her best and her mistakes were mistakes but not ill willed ones
I loved your story about the cookies and Sesame Street! J sounds such a fun little guy!
Ok I am sure I forgot half of what I wanted to say again but I am too tired to remember. I am off to bed as it is almost 10! Night night lovely ladies
I wanted to catch up with personals before going to bed so here goes:
Borboleta I meant to say thank you for advice re CIO. I really don't want to have to do this but I guess it is getting habit with Dom and his 2 bottles at night. I know he knows how to self settle as he has done it many times. And he has had 3 or 4 nights where he only woke once for a bottle so he doesn't really need it. But I am very interested how it will go with Thiago and his naps. I don't think either of my boys need this as usually they fall asleep in their bouncies quite willingly. Maybe it will change when I start putting them in their cots for naps.
Poor little Thiago and getting his shots. Did he cry very hard?
As for bumpers, we still have the breathable ones even though our boys don't get to move around their cots much cause of their wedges and belly bands.
Storm thank you I know you understand the depressing-ness haha of non sleep even better than me as you don't have anyone to take your L every other night. And as for how I cope with two, Sebastian is a very good sleeper and unless Dominic wakes him he usually sleeps right through till just before 6. So really I only have one bad sleeper. But I hope things are improving for you? How is her sleep now on her lactose free diet?
As for your friend with the twins I bet her kids aren't such bad sleepers and she gets 12 hours from them every night It is easy to look well rested when one is well rested.
But for your other friend with that little girl who is allergic to everything. Wow. Poor LO and poor friend! Is there any chance the little girl will grow out of this or is she stuck with this all her life?
As for us not dtd. Well it has been over a year now and quite frankly I think it is a combination of things. I don't think Nick has fancied me terribly much for a number of years or he truly did go off sex as he says. I find that hard to believe cause after all he is a man. It was hard enough to get him to dtd once a month when we tried to conceive for those 3 and a half years. Then also I am sure he didn't fancy me at all when I was pregnant with the twins though of course he kept telling me I looked lovely etc. And now I am so insecure about my horrible belly and the slight overhang I still have that I wouldn't want any either. I know he loves me very much but although he tells me I look lovely all the time, I just don't think he fancies me Sorry that was TMI and sounded too much like a pity party which it wasn't meant to be.
Sabrina we use the big bath too now and have this swivel bath chair. Dom loves it and Sebastian hates it but then he doesn't like bath time anyway. Hope Finn's bath went well tonight? Did he manage to sit by himself or did you have to hold him? I am looking forward to when the boys can sit in the bath unaided cause then they can share a bath and I hopefully won't have to draw two baths. (Sebastian needs special soap and shampoo cause of eczema).
Leeze are you all unpacked and settled in now? How is Kia doing these days? I am hoping she is no longer as subdued as she was at first?
Yeah sleep is sometimes just like it was with newborns. But at least I usually get every other night of a full night's sleep. So it isn't that bad But yeah I am looking forward to being able to just tuck them in and go to bed with no worries. I am sure it will happen before they turn 18 lol Isn't Chamomilia just chamomile? We have a calpol diffuser plug in that has chamomile and lavender in it and though it really helps unblock a snuffly nose, I don't think it helped Dominic sleep any better But it might help Kia?
Clio we posted at the same time almost I think.
My relationship with my mum has always been really good and close except possibly in my teens but even then nothing beyond normal teeny angst nonsense. I truly adore her and think there are few ppl in this world with a warmer heart and less selfishness. She didn't handle things well in regards food (or in regards to what she told me about men) but there was never any doubt in my mind even when I was a teeny that my mum loves me with all her heart and would do anything to see me happy. My mum has always been very slim and elegant and when she was young she never had to watch what she ate and was in fact known as the hoover in her boarding school. Only after she had my brother and me did she have start watching her diet a bit. She loves sweets and especially chocolate and is in no way obsessed with her body. I guess she is more naturally slim than I am. She did her best and her mistakes were mistakes but not ill willed ones
I loved your story about the cookies and Sesame Street! J sounds such a fun little guy!
Ok I am sure I forgot half of what I wanted to say again but I am too tired to remember. I am off to bed as it is almost 10! Night night lovely ladies