Good morning ladies
My mum left yesterday so I will hopefully have more time again now. It is only just gone 6 but Dominic woke me at 5:40 this morning so I am sitting here trying to ignore his whining (so the early waking doesn't get a habit) and starting my post to you. No doubt I will only be able to finish it much later.
kosh oh you poor thing! I am so sorry you aren't coping well! Have you got your referral yet? I really hope it won't take them ages to be able to help you.
Oh and of course I was not offended at you suggesting that this was a phase with Sebastian's eating! It could easily have been after all from what I hear on here. I am always glad to be given hope
Storm hows it going with the toddler bed? I hope still well? Has she worked out yet that she can leave it easily? Hope she stays put!
And how lovely that you can feel your baby already
I am a bit surprised that your DH didn't feel the need to help you decorate L's new room.
But self reliance is so often the name of the game for us women, isn't it
Hope you didn't exhaust yourself too much though
clio how horrid for you to be threatened like that, when it isn't as if you are not perfectly willing to get the help you need! And then to be sent off like that! And while I don't think talk therapy will be much of a solution for your type of depression, it might still help with other things, might it not? We are always here to listen and give you a virtual hug but perhaps a "professional listener" might also do you good? Plus it might help to have another person looking out for you? My friend Mischi who has depression (though not manic) seems to find benefit in it but maybe that is different. And as for thinking that you are a troll! Seriously woman!
I think I speak for all of us ladies here when I say we think that you are a lovely intelligent person with a great sense of humour and that your posts are always interesting and often pleasurable to read, not to mention that your J is the most adorable, intelligent and entertaining boy!
Sabrina I too say go for it with the ttc! If you do have another MC that would be of course so heartbreaking but I too don't think you will regret trying but may well always regret
not trying
What does your DH think btw? Would he too like another baby? Or is he going to say "You wanted another baby!"
kitty_Love I love my mac air but my brother gave me one he had spare (sounds weird but my brother is kind of an addict to trying new computers for his company) and I too was staggered when I found out how much they cost! And if you got a good deal on your desktop, then better spend the extra money on Blake
How is he doing? I hope all is well? And did your DH agree for you to post a new piccie of him? Would love to see one but I do understand if you are reluctant
Charlie I hope you are feeling better? I really hope so cause in three days you'll be off! I bet you are scared and excited at the same time.
But I am so impressed with Sophia, though I kinda thought she would be standing and crawling soon. She seemed ready to go even when we met at the park
I hope the trip will do your mum good. Really sounds as though she had a tough time in the last 2 years, poor thing!
Leeze How is Kia? Is she all better now? Such a high fever, poor little thing! That answer of viral infection is so unhelpful, isn't it! It is why I was reluctant to take my boys to our GP when they had a bit if a fever now and again over the last week or so.
I hope things with your OH get better, I am not always completely enamoured of mine either cause it sometimes seems he hasn't got a romantic bone in his body.
Indigo Just post when you have the time and don't worry with having to keep up!
How sweet Nico jumping with joy at swimming!
I wish I could take mine but no way am I donning a cossie! Not even for my little lovely boys lol
Borboleta cute new avvie picture
Is T pointing at a plane? Dominic does point up when ever there is a plane over us, which can be every 2 minutes as we live in the flightpath lol
The story of T and the nursery is heartbreaking! Aww poor little man! As for getting him used to more kids at once, maybe there is a soft play centre where you are that you could try? Or even a gymboree type thing? But I am guessing he would have been ok at the nursery had you or your DH remained there with him. How was he at your friends' house playing with the 22 and 20 months olds?
I am glad your DH is enjoying his job. I bet it was a huge boost to his mood and self esteem to finally be working again
As for us: As I mentioned before I think, Dominic had half a day of fever about a 10 days ago and then another one last Monday. I have no idea what that was but I caught it off him and was not feeling too great for about 2 or 3 days but I am ok now. I just wish I knew what is going on with him cause he seems to have a lot of diarrhoea too but seems ok in himself. So I was wondering if it is what they call Toddler Diarrhoea. But I do try to give him enough fibre and I thought he got enough with the fruit and sweetcorn etc. Dunno. But seems to have started since we give him all that fingerfood.
Feeding Sebastian is still the same problem, though he did nibble at a few things lately. Maybe this is a start. I know he has cut at least two molars as I heard him grind them. But I am not sure if they are sufficiently out to not be painful, so this might also be preventing him chewing. I really hope once they are properly in, he will chew!
Dominic got his first shoes YAY! Well apparently they are called Prewalkers as the sole is super soft but to us they count as first shoes
They look huge on him but she did measure and all and I guess they are the right size as he walks well in them. He is a 5 G and his feet are apparently quite wide. I wonder what Sebastian's size will be but I am sure while maybe not necessarily much smaller, they would be a lot narrower, as he has such delicate little feet. (Are you all enamoured with your LO's feet like I am? They are just soo cute
) So maybe a 4 or 5 D? He will only get shoes when he actually starts toddling of course.
Oh and now a
question to you all: when your LO's wake earlier in the morning than is usual but not so early it can be counted as a night waking, do you get them up or do you let them whine and play in their beds for a while till their normal wake up time? As I mentioned, Dominic woke at 5:40 this morning but I remained firm till 6:30 when he started crying. I would have left him till 7 but for the crying. I just don't want him to get ideas about waking this early as a rule. But maybe I am being overly cautious? And did you know that there apparently is a 18 months sleep regression? I am dreading that this will affect my boys! Please please pass us by! Have any of your LOs shown any signs of this?
Right, time for the boys' breakkie. Hope all are well and I am sending
to all.