Anyone doing FET in October?

[bumski]

Mobaby I know the feeling, all this spotting and bleeding is getting so hard to deal with, I'm at the point where I'm scared of my own body moving! It's dds 13th birthday today and went to sit downstairs as family came round to see dd and I'm now back in bed with heavy aches in my stomach. I hope your spotting stops quickly for you and you can relax.
When is your scan going to be?

 

[Minno]

Bumski thank you for your lovely message. I am praying for a miracle but fearing the worst. The clots were huge and just came out quickly one after the other over the space of about 12 hours or so. No pain. Then bleeding suddenly stopped but I am still bleeding lightly at the moment. I was really scared and we ended up calling nhs24 who were very good an reassuring. I'm up and dressed just now but like you I'm scared to move and have been lying down most of the day. I'm so so sick of it. I can't imagine what you're going thru having it ongoing this long. I'm praying for happy outcomes for us both x

Mobaby, thank you, I hope everything's ok but can't see how bean could have survived. I hope your spotting stops soon. It's very distressing xx

 

[jkhkjnjhb8879]

I hope u ladies are ok
It must e aweful x

 

[MoBaby]

Minno does sound awful! I really hope all is well. Really praying for you. I've ready so many women recently with heavy bleeding that was perfectly fine at u/s.

Bumski my scan wont be for 2.5 more weeks.

 

[bumski]

Mobaby the wait must be awful, I hope it comes round quickly for you for reassurance, will they not scan you early if you tell them you have been spotting? X

Minno I found ringing Nhs really helpful, there is a very thick lining inside which is what I was passing but at the time I never knew that. There is a great thread about it on bnb that someone on here mentioned to me about subchorionic hematomas, worth a read def xx

 

[MoBaby]

im not sure. i havent talked to the nurse yet. when i called yesterday the call service never picked up. i may ask to supplement my progesterone with pio as well. and i will ask about an early scan. i will most likely scan myself at work before their scan anyways.

 

[Minno]

Bumski what did the nhs say to you? Did you go to a&e. I was going to but in the end had no pain and didn't think they would do much for me other than send me to the epu on Monday. I'm going to the clinic anyways so thought I'd wait it out. What did you do? X

 

[Blue12]

Reading up on everyone all the time. Praying for long healthy pregnancies for everyone. Dh and I are trying to figure out when we will try another fresh cycle. We don't get free cycles here and we have already had 4 cycles so it adds up fast and a 5th cycle may need to wait, but I definitely don't want to wait.

 

[bumski]

Minno when I called Nhs they asked if I'd passed clots bigger than a 50p which I had and they sent an ambulance out, quite dramatic and not needed so we decided to go to a&e ourselves, at a&e they did a hpt and did beta so when I went to epu I would have my second beta done. At epu they said they don't scan until 6 weeks but decided to anyway, she put me at 5 weeks ( I was 5+5) because she put ET as ov day even though embies were 5 day blasts.
A&e is probably a waste of time really as they don't do much. When is your app at epu? I'm bk there sometime this week

Blue, it's nice to hear your still around, I hope it's not too long until you can start another cycle again, it's such a hard thing to do from the beginning, I just hope you and Dh stay strong and I hope your dream is right round the corner x

 

[bumski]

Mobaby it's great you can scan yourself! I would be a nightmare if I could do that, my mum reckons iv traded hpts for scans! I hope it goes well x

 

[Minno]

Wow bumski, can't believe they were going to send out an ambulance. The nurse I spoke to didn't seem as concerned even though I told her the clots were huge. She said as long as not in pain and im getting beta checked tomoro that was enough. I knew a&e would be a waste of time. Went there when I bled with my son and they told me I was miscarrying and to go home and go to epu next day. At epu they scanned and said all was well! I don't trust emergency docs with pregnancy stuff!

How are you feeling? How is your tummy?
X

 

[diliapickle]

Minno - sorry for the bleeds! I really hope everything is ok!

Mobaby - awesome you can scan yourself!

Blue -

Hope everyone else is doing well!

My appointment went well! So next one is Thursday! Praying all goes well at that one appointment is where everything went crazy and had to cancel last time!

 

[MoBaby]

dilla no cancelation for you!! Hope you scan goes perfect

 

[Minno]

So had repeat beta today and as expected its gone down from 795 to 710. Clinic want me to continue on the meds until Friday just in case there is anything left in there but obviously they're not hopeful and neither am I. Such a pain that I have to continue with the meds but I suppose they're just being thorough. Stil bleeding lightly but clinic think that will continue for a few days. So that's just about that for me ladies. Now just need to get back to some normality and spend some time with my son!

Hope everyone else is doing well. Bumski how are things? Mobaby how's the spotting?
Xx

 

[Cynthia86]

Minno I'm so sorry! I just hate how you have to go through this

 

[MoBaby]

Minno soooo sorry.

My beta today was 379!

 

[Cynthia86]

That's great Mobaby!!

 

[diliapickle]

Minno - I am so sorry!

Mobaby - Awesome!

 

[Cynthia86]

How are you girls doing today??

It's so strange because I don't really feel pregnant anymore. The last couple of days have been so good. It's so hard not to worry but people tell to enjoy it while it lasts because the symptoms will come back! I think I have a couple more weeks with my fertility specialist but I already made an appointment with my ob/gyn. I called yesterday and they actually have an opening for today so I will be seeing her this afternoon. I'm hoping they will do an ultrasound because I am needing some reassurance that everything is ok with the twins! I will update later!

 

[bumski]

Minno I'm so sorry, I just hope it's one of those things and that there is still a chance, I'm so sorry your having to go through this x

Mobaby congrats on your beta, I bet it's reassuring to get those numbers x

Cynthia my symptoms dissapeared at 6ish weeks but have come back a few days later, my nausea lasts all day, I have to eat frequently to keep it away although the last thing I want to do is eat, GL at your app today.

How are you doing dilia? Hope your spotting stops x

Hope everyone else is ok x

Afm, more bleeding all weekend, if I move I bleed
Had another scan today, baby is still doing well but I have more blood in there so back to square one, just got to take each day as it comes