Tella
Expecting our first <3
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Linkerland - dont be nervous about your surgery everything will be ok! i was stressing out about it too and it was so easy i would do it again anytime if it means 1 step closer to your miracle baby!! good luck!!!!!!!!
Tella, yes girl since we got married it will be 8 years next month actually, but we werent using protection since we started dating which is more like 11 years but we werent officially trying since then. and yeah hubby knows because doctor tells us both or he wants to know everything but im gonna stop telling him so much and hopefully he wont feel pressured to perform, il just act like its purely for fun lol and if i only knew exactly when to BD so we could catch that eggie life would be sooo much easier for us trying to concieve. instead we get a "week" where its possible :/
im sorry you are getting AF again dont be sad, you will get your BFP!! you've gotten it before so you know your body can do it, it just needs to happen again for you and i believe it will!!!
I gree, everytime i want to give up i see a little one or even my god daughter and i think i can give up on that. And it gives me renewed energy to keep trying.
The fact that i got a natural bfp before is the one reason i keep thinking why cant it happen again, i hope we can sort out my immune system as it must be something that the normal doctors dont test for as they just tell me im unexplained.
I agree i would also do it again considering the benefits i got out of it.
Ready- thanks for your encouraging words! It does put me at ease knowing you would do it again. I do have my hope's up it will help me on my way to my bfp. But trying not to get them to high incase it takes awhile or more help to get me ovulating. Tella- im sorry af is showing its ugly face hoping we'll both get our bfps next cycle. The doctors is going to do a d&c since I've been bleeding so many days. Hopefully that cleans me out so I can hopefully get a more normal af. I'm a dental assistant. My dad and sister are both dentists. So by procedures I mean extractions, crowns, root canals, ect.... im thinking I'll be fine to take xrays the week after. But am trying my best to limit the others due to the fact im moving, bending, and have to be quick at what I do. Unfortunately more and more patients keep calling with tooth aches. So it might be inevitable that we'll have to put more bigger procedures in. Allready have two I had to put in the schedule. But tried to put them closer to the end of the week when im hopefully feeling better.
Afm- went to my pre op appointment today. Had to wait over 2 hours to see the doctor. Then go thru all the paperwork with the pre op nurse. Get blood taken ect... ended up running late for our afternoon patients. And not getting lunch But happy its done. Just gotta get through one more busy day at work tomorrow. Then ops the next day.
Oh ok yes sorry, now it rings a bell Hope you dont have to work before atleast Monday. I had my op on a Wednesday and was back at work the following Monday.
A D&C might just make your uterus more susceptible for implantation.
Good luck linkerland, will be thinking off you! Good idea to try and stay on light duties when back at work, but I hope you are taking at least three days off sick??. Honestly you will need it!
Stay positive ladies, this WILL happen for us all. I am trying to spend less time on forums, as it just makes me obsess more. It's hard, it's horrible to be in this position, but every time I see a new baby I tell myself it will be me soon.
At the weekend I met my new nephew for the first time, it was hard but not as hard as I was expecting. The worst bit was actually my sister in law telling me they weren't trying and didn't want it to happen so soon! (He was a honeymoon baby). she didn't mean it maliciously, she is just a bit (well, very) clueless and speaks before she thinks. She was probably nervous too and when I didn't have a meltdown she relaxed a bit too much I think lol. Anyway I said I didn't need to hear that and then I think she realised what she had said!
I am trying to put TTC to the back of my mind, now we have IVF approaching in October, I am really trying to see this as one last childless summer and make the most of it!
I understand your thing with the forums making you more obsessed, i find it the same. Although i have like 3/4 threads that i dont mind keeping up with but at the moment im not really keeping up with any journals as that gets to much for me at times.
Its great way to pass the time to your IVF, enjoy your last days of sleeping late on weekends, having a tan on weekends and going out for drinks because next year this time that will not be possible