@Ash, Thanks!!! Yes, I have had the same thoughts. The IVF has such a high success rate and it seems like the last step before we can get our forever baby!! Right now my life is pretty laid back and quiet. I come and go as I please and do what I want when I want. Things with DH & me are really good. I could always just be a career driven women and forget about kids, make money, work, have fun, party,, buy all of the latest and greatest clothes, cars etc.....
But, I am 33 so I feel like my BIO clock is ticking pretty loudly right now. I have already taken really nice vacations, partied completed my education with my BA degree. I have a nice home, great marriage and relationship. DH has a great job. DH and me have been together for 11 years and married for 6. I feel secure enough to have a baby with him and I know he won't leave me if things get tuff. What else do I need to wait for?? I asked DH if he wanted to wait a little while before we do the IVF & ICSI.. and that was what he asked me "What else are you waiting for?" I answered with nothing. I did everything I wanted to do in my 20's. I have had some really great jobs and I didnt feel fulfillment from them. I dont think a job is as rewarding as being a mother will be. I also know that if I didn't ever have children than I would look back with huge regrets when I was old and no longer able to do it!!!
I also look at how screwed up and bad off some people that I know are that have kids.. and I think, gosh if they can do it. I can do it and do a million times better job than that idiot!!