I am feeling like such shit today, sitting here crying as i type...
.... I got into an argument with DH over something really dumb today.. and now I am all upset... It is funny how the simpliest thing sets me off and I go off into an emtional rant at DH... than when the tears start flowing and I am by myself I realize how depressed I am, and how much of a toll this LTTC shit is taking on me and my marriage.. I am mad at DH for his low sperm count and him getting the vasectomy way back when and part of me I think blames him for us not having a baby yet.... Even though the rational side of me knows that he has no physical control over his sperm count, so realistically how can I be mad at him for something he cant control..
Plus he has come around and does more on his part in regards to TTC so I can give him credit for that, even though it took a little while for him to get there... Today is one of those days were my depression has taken over and I cant manage to pull myself off the couch to get out of the house and do something which i know always makes me feel better....
Right now i am trying to mentally prepare for the pain of surgery well all the while knowing that realistically i still may not get pregnant after that.. there are just no gurantees.. i cant control DH's sperm count...
Than the financial strain being put on me and DH right now is tuff, we finally get our tax return and instead of it paying for IUI it is going to pay for surgery for me.. it just feels like there is always some obstacle to over come... where do I keep finding the energy to keep going through this LTTC crap.... I just dont know how to keep doing this month after month.....
Do any of you girls feel like LTTC is taking it's toll on your marriage or relationship?? Throw in financial stress on top of everything else and sometimes i feel like i am going to break under the weight of this all..