Anyone over 45 TTc ?buddies needed <3

[BBbliss]

Delphine, this man was not and is NOT in charge of your life and specially your well educated opinion, because the FACTS are here as proof, women in their mid 40's DO get pregnant! I know it's hard to shake it but you must put it behind you. I wish you had more options and could find a more sympathetic doctor. About your DFs SA improving I would also recommend pycnogenol in conjunction with Lcartinine to improve morphology, the hardest of the three to change.

Btw, we also had zero morphology and that means zero sperm is of the correct head shape needed for penetrating the egg. When the sperm has abnormal shape it makes it impossible to fertilize the egg, unless during IVF when they they use icsi and inject the sperm directly inside the egg bypassing the natural process.

 

[BBbliss]

Well ladies the DEIVF did not work! Sad but at least we tried one last time!

Garnet, I'm SO SORRY! I did not expect this to happen to you, I hope you are ok and I don't want to ad to your pain and frustration but isn't DE the "answer" to all of our problems? They talk so much about egg health so what do they say now? Do you have more frozen blasts?

I'm sorry, I'm just angry for you when I think about all the promises made to us about DE from all of those RE who say "we" are the problem

 

[Delphine11]

Thank you for the Pycnogenol recommendation, BBbliss. Adding that to my vitamin/supplement order now.

I'm much more positive today and I'm putting that man out of my head. My partner seems happier too, which makes me happy.

 

[Garnet]

I want to apologize ladies! I had no symptoms so I thought it was a bust and so I tested this morning before going off meds and it was flower:

 

[Wish4another1]

Garnet - I am a stalker here as I am not 45 so don't want to post too much - but I just wanted to say CONGRATS!!!! I know it's been a long time coming for you!!!

 

[Garnet]

Garnet - I am a stalker here as I am not 45 so don't want to post too much - but I just wanted to say CONGRATS!!!! I know it's been a long time coming for you!!!

Thank you!

 

[peanutpup]

Awesome news Garnet!!!! So happy for you.....I knew it was your time I bet your dh is doing backflips yayyyyyy!

 

[Garnet]

Awesome news Garnet!!!! So happy for you.....I knew it was your time I bet your dh is doing backflips yayyyyyy!

Thank you PP, actually he going to buy a ban saw as a consolation prize! I get baby and he gets ban saw! It was so worth going to Prague to get Donor egg!

 

[BBbliss]

What a relief! That's great! Congratulation Garnet!

Forget my frustration over DE LOL

 

[Garnet]

What a relief! That's great! Congratulation Garnet!

Forget my frustration over DE LOL

Hey I am just as surprised as you!

 

[terripeachy]

HA!!HA!! Bbliss. I just checked this thread this morning, and I was behind you rallying!

Congrats Garnet! That is fantastic news. So happy your precious is on its way!

 

[Garnet]

Thanks!

 

[peanutpup]

Awesome news Garnet!!!! So happy for you.....I knew it was your time I bet your dh is doing backflips yayyyyyy!

Thank you PP, actually he going to buy a ban saw as a consolation prize! I get baby and he gets ban saw! It was so worth going to Prague to get Donor egg!

Sounds like he gets rewarded twice! maybe put him to work building something for you if my dh was on board I would def consider de......I am ecstatic this worked for you....so happy to hear good news from the old team

 

[Garnet]

Oh believe me it took almost a year and showing him every DE baby born and success story! I also threaten to get a sperm donor if he did not cooperate! It really alot less money and we had a wonderful vaca in Europe!

 

[Delphine11]

Wow, Garnet! Amazing news! That's just fantastic! You must be so excited! Really lovely news for you.

Look after yourself. xx

 

[marathongirl]

Yay Garnet!!!! So happy for you! Will they follow you closely with betas and us soon?

 

[marathongirl]

How is everyone? It's quiet on here lately. How are you doing Garnet?

AFM- the witch showed this morning. She was not welcome. As I'm not charting I don't know exactly when I o'd but at least my cycle was 27 days. This makes me happy.
Off for a weekend away with my hubby and babes so have a great weekend everyone!

 

[BBbliss]

Just started BCP in preparation for my transfer in about six weeks. Just waiting for time to pass now...

Sounds like a great weekend Marathongirl, I like it that you are feeling "in love"

 

[Delphine11]

The time will soon go, BBbliss. Your little frozen embryos in your signature make me smile every time I see them

As for me, I'm still taking my supplements and hoping and praying a good egg will appear and get itself fertilised pronto. I've put the stupid, depressing specialist out of my mind now and I'm feeling positive. We're still trying naturally - largely because the specialist was a big waste of time and nothing was offered except DEs. Somehow his awfulness made us more determined.

 

[BBbliss]

Thank you Delphine, I'm sorry it took me so long to respond, but with my grandmother passing and 16dd being an emotional angry teen at the moment I've been trying to focus on family matters more then on myself and TTC

My little guys with the scarf and hats make me smile too they are a promise

I don't know if I said it but I love your attitude and I totally get it about your experience with the Dr. I felt the same way! Now I just want to prove him wrong!

Hang in there! You have a good spirit and a lot of good intentions from a pure place. There are forces in the universe working their magic on you... Keep an open heart and let the details sort themselves out