Hi ladies...seems I missed a lot last night.
Sandi, I am so sorry sweetie, but I gotta agree with Tiger, the best approach is the up front one. Just say exactly how you feel and be direct. Ask if he wants to remain married, and see where it goes. I am all for ultimatums...to a degree. I think if he wants to still be with you and work it out, he has to be dedicated to doing so and working through the problems. If not...you don't deserve to be putting so much stress on yourself over it. YOu can't change the marriage alone.
AFM; U/S went wonderfully, they ended up doing a full 20 weeks exam, and said everything is perfect, my placenta has even moved up!! But, it's still at the front, so guess it will still be a little bit till I am feeling more movement.
AND>>>>>>> my intuition was right.....it's a BOY!