Still taking a break. I Oed on day 12 so I'm somewhere between 5-8dpo right now...give or take a day.
Did some research and found some trials with ivf and icsi so I'm going to email the contact and see if I can do the trial. I also found a few organizations that provide $10k grants for ivf or adoption so I will be submitting for next year...this years deadline has passed.
I told the hubby that if he doesn't start taking care of himself...eating right, vitamins, scheduling needed doctor visits...without me hassling him I'm going to do the donor iui whether he wants to or not cause I know that sperm is healthy and has gotten women pregnant. So we'll see what happens.
I know that sounds mean but I'm killing myself to be ad healthy as I can and he's sitting back twittling his thumbs like I can get myself pregnant. My hubbs is a small guy and could eat a truckload of food and still lose weight. He recently had a physical and his white blood cell count was low. The doc retested a month later same thing. He told him he doesn't have cancer and we've obviously been through all the screening so it's not an std or anything like that and he never gets sick otherwise. I looked up what it could mean and overactive thyroid is one. I told him that just like my underactive thyroid can affect our fertility, if he does have an overactive thyroid that could affect us too. So the doc told him to see a hematologist just to be safe. A whole month has gone by and he hasn't even made the appt. He hadn't even gotten the name and number of the doctor yet. Really?!?!? So if I'm in by myself, I'm making the decisions by myself too. Hopefully that will light a fire under him, but like I told him if it doesn't the next time I mention donor iui to him will be when I'm ready to go in.
Dh had 12mil post wash this time
are finding their way to where they belong.
