April mummies baby club :-)

[xxxjacxxx]

Ive thought that before now!



https://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y25/jakscooby/leoclothnappies2026-1.jpg

 

[sarah_george]

That really could be Oscar only reason i know it isnt is because he hasnt got that t-shirt

 

[xxxjacxxx]

Scary!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[sarah_george]

that piccy you posted and my avatar look sooo alike OMG!! xxx

 

[xxxjacxxx]

I know, thats why I posted it! Do we have twins that were seperated at birth???????????

 

[mama2b]

Morning girls,

Hey Oscar & Leo do look alike !! I thought that the other day, I need to upload a new one of Lucas soon.

Can I ask you all a question, well a couple actually !

Last night I mentioned to oh about having another baby in a few years (like 3 - 5) and he kept saying I don't want to talk about it, anyway to cut a long story short he basically came out and said he didn't feel like he was ready to have a baby now and feels to young (is 29) also actually said if could go back in time would do things different !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so pissed off he kept saying he does love Lucas and wouldn't change him for the world but he obviously would if he is saying that he would go back in time and change things

I think this has a lot to do with none of his friends having babies or half of them even having gfs, i think he feels restricted.

How old are your oh's and did/do they feel like this ?

 

[xxxjacxxx]

Morning girls,

Hey Oscar & Leo do look alike !! I thought that the other day, I need to upload a new one of Lucas soon.

Can I ask you all a question, well a couple actually !

Last night I mentioned to oh about having another baby in a few years (like 3 - 5) and he kept saying I don't want to talk about it, anyway to cut a long story short he basically came out and said he didn't feel like he was ready to have a baby now and feels to young (is 29) also actually said if could go back in time would do things different !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so pissed off he kept saying he does love Lucas and wouldn't change him for the world but he obviously would if he is saying that he would go back in time and change things

I think this has a lot to do with none of his friends having babies or half of them even having gfs, i think he feels restricted.

How old are your oh's and did/do they feel like this ?

aww hun im sorry to hear this. I dont think your OH means what you thought he meant to be honet. I, for example had my first baby at 17 and since then have had 3 more......I say all the time that if I had my time again then I would get myself a carreer and wait till Im older before having kids. I tdoesnt mean I love my kids any less or wish I didnt have them, cos I dont! I love them all and am so glad I do have them. Maybe he means this? Also, man dont tend to grow up as quickly as us girls, my OH was 31 and we had our first together (my 3rd) and he wasnt ready but once she was here he sorta grew up a little ! lol! Dont take it to heart hun, 3-5 years is quite a long time, I would enjoy what you have now and cross those bridges in the future when your both ready x

 

[sarah_george]

I agree, I had my oldest at 21, and although i also love all 3 of my children very much I also wish i had started a little later, I would still have all my kids identicle as they are, just later, If he isnt very good at explaining himself then that could have been what he meant, being a parent for the first time instantly loads you with responsibilites and its probably that that he is still adjusting too, I'm sure he loves Lucas very much xxx

 

[HannahGraceee]

https://i611.photobucket.com/albums/tt193/hannahgraceeee/Picture004.jpg

Ava smava

 

[MelanieSweets]

Hey Juliette, I totally agree with Jacqui, sometimes men do say things, in our case i say things i love Ridley completely and with all my heart but some days I think and wonder what we'd be doing if I didnt have little un, i would of had an amazing career and my independance which I will admit I miss, we are both very independant, if Lucas was un expected then its not always easy to adjust to this new lifestyle Ridley was a suprise and I must admit my life has 110% changed! ... OH would say that too, talk to him and ask him do you regret having baby, because it may come up in an argument about something else or it will play and play on your mind otherwise, things are best out in the open hun xx

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Morning girls,

Hey Oscar & Leo do look alike !! I thought that the other day, I need to upload a new one of Lucas soon.

Can I ask you all a question, well a couple actually !

Last night I mentioned to oh about having another baby in a few years (like 3 - 5) and he kept saying I don't want to talk about it, anyway to cut a long story short he basically came out and said he didn't feel like he was ready to have a baby now and feels to young (is 29) also actually said if could go back in time would do things different !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so pissed off he kept saying he does love Lucas and wouldn't change him for the world but he obviously would if he is saying that he would go back in time and change things

I think this has a lot to do with none of his friends having babies or half of them even having gfs, i think he feels restricted.

How old are your oh's and did/do they feel like this ?

Awww hun

My OH is 27 & he said he has always wanted to kids but when it comes down to Amelia crying/really horrid nappies/lack of sleep.. he acts like a 15 year old.. gets mardy really easily, and gives up really easily if she won't settle within 30 seconds!!

His friends don't have kids either and a part of me always thinks he would rather be with his friends playing xbox and drinking beer than being with Amelia and myself!

Hope everyone is okay and had a good weekend!

xXx

 

[mellllly]

My OH is 27, he would have liked to have started earlier!!
We are TTC agaon next year so Sophie should be 2 by the time the 2nd one arrives!

OMG Oscar and Leo - Twins definitely!!! Scary hehe!

Just popping in and catching up!! x

 

[HannahGraceee]

Why does no one ever talk to me when i come in here now?

 

[mellllly]

Why does no one ever talk to me when i come in here now?

I was actually just popping back in to say Ava is soo cute!
She has really long legs!!

 

[sarah_george]

I often posts and no-one talks to me I just post updates and be nosey! this board has gone really quiet since they all decided to join the other site...

Hows you hanna? xx

 

[HannahGraceee]

I often posts and no-one talks to me I just post updates and be nosey! this board has gone really quiet since they all decided to join the other site...

Hows you hanna? xx

Im good Thanks completely knacked for doing completely nothing all day!! lol
you??

Yeh i know what you mean it used to be packed in here!! i wish it was like when we were all pregnant the chatt in there used to always be flowing!!

 

[HannahGraceee]

Why does no one ever talk to me when i come in here now?

I was actually just popping back in to say Ava is soo cute!
She has really long legs!!

thanks hun!! i think she has little leggs 3-6 on top newborn on legs

 

[sarah_george]

everyone is busy with there babies!! we are good thanks hun, had a chillin day today also, amazing how tiring that is lol, ava is beautiful you enjoying motherhood? I am, i'm starting to think about number 4 already xx

 

[mellllly]

Perhaps its just that pic!! hehe!
Us April mums are seriously soo clever!

I just think we dont have as much time as when we were pregnant! I know I sure dont!
If im not feeding Sophie im tidying up, taking her to be weighed, going to wiggle and giggle, sorting staceys hen weekend (which is next weekend -sooo excited)

I was just looking at my pregnancy belly pics, I really miss my bump!!

 

[mellllly]

everyone is busy with there babies!! we are good thanks hun, had a chillin day today also, amazing how tiring that is lol, ava is beautiful you enjoying motherhood? I am, i'm starting to think about number 4 already xx

Im thinking of number 2 already! We are ttc next april!!