April showers bring May BABIES!

[jjbubbles28]

Oh Khigg. I cannot imagine how hard this must be. My sister in law was pregnant and found out at 6 months that her baby girl had a chromosome 20 deletion and addition. So little is known about this chromosome that they advised her to abort since they can only assume that severe mental ******ation, epilepsy, blindness are all most likely. As all doctors told her the same fate, we turned to pray and family. Our baby girl, Mia was born perfect and beautiful and just hit her 1 year bday. I only pray that a miraculous story is also in your future. I can never understand why these things happen, but know you have a lot of people here to listen

 

[Khigg19]

I keep thinking and hoping they are wrong, but I think this is our fate. It's too late. They sent her home to grieve and then said to call when she's ready to deliver. I don't see how anything good could come from this. We're all so broken.

I'm not mad at God and am trying not to dwell on the why's, but it hurts and I just wish I could take her pain away.

 

[Fellowes79]

oh, Khigg. I am so sorry. I know no words can make it better. I am praying for you and your family. It's heartbreaking.

 

[jjbubbles28]

How are you doing Khigg?

 

[Khigg19]

Less tears today. She is being induced tonight. We will say our goodbyes tomorrow or Monday. Just depends on how long it takes since she hasn't started dilating on her own.

Yesterday-Thursday is my fertile window and we haven't been able to BD. I'm not sure we will actively try this month.

How are you doing? How is your brother?

 

[sunshine85]

Hey girlies hope I can join in too. Here's the rundown

Af was April7-11th. We dtd the 16, 18 two times, the 19th once and hoping the caught something. I hope I did. Being that we dtd about an hour ago as well I am not sure we will for the rest of the day today, as I am exhausted haha. Should I still babydance on Monday since that is the day my ovu calendar says I ovulate? Just to be sure? I am so confused why it says Mon I ovulate when today marks CD14 for me. Sigh..

Anyway, I felt nausea all day yesterday, gassy, now a slight headache...

to all

 

[jjbubbles28]

How are you doing Khigg?

 

[Fellowes79]

I've been thinking about you Khigg! (You too, jjbubbles)

My lack of AF seems so insignificant compared to other things

 

[jjbubbles28]

So my brother went for his Cat scan today and they denied him for insurance purposes since they have no biopsy yet. Biopsy was supposed to be back in 3 days now they say not until friday which is 10 days! So frustrating not to have any control and be forced to wait. It helps talking here

 

[jjbubbles28]

How late are you fellowes?

 

[Fellowes79]

That is beyond frustrating they denied him because of insurance. It's actually disgusting. Sending positive thoughts his way!!!

12 days late. This has never happened to me in my whole entire life!

 

[Khigg19]

Sorry, I've been MIA. She delivered Sunday afternoon and the delivery want pretty fast, no pitocin needed. She went from 2cm to crowning between the 2 hour checks.

Maybe it's time for some blood work fellowes

Jjbubbles, that's just bull! Hopefully all that gets sorted out.

I think I'll ovulate tomorrow. We've BD Sunday and Tuesday, but I'm so confused as to what I should do.

 

[jjbubbles28]

Khigg, you have to do what is right in your heart. If you feel taking some time is better then give yourself that time. I cannot imagine the emotions you are having now.
Fellowes..BLOOD! BLOOD!BLOOD!!!

 

[Fellowes79]

Khigg... I agree with jjbubbles. Do whatever is in your heart. Don't have guilt for trying to make a new life when your sister just went through an awful experience, and don't put pressure on yourself either **hugs** you and your whole family have a special angel looking after you now.

I guess I will call my doc and request a blood test. And then if AF doesn't come, I will get checked out. Think they will just call to the lab and order me a test or think I will have to wait for an appt?? Hoping i can just go in for blood ASAP!

 

[Khigg19]

Should be able to get the blood work ordered, it just depends on how they operate. If you have to wait for an appt, they'll usually give you an opening that they have available for the rest of this week that way you don't have to wait 2+ weeks.

 

[Khigg19]

I want a baby, but I can't even imagine telling her especially so soon. Sunday I got up and squeezed as much out as I could. Tuesday, I felt a little more comfortable to lay around for a little.

 

[prachipie]

Khigg, you have to do what feels right for you right now. I can't imagine what your sister is going through, but as difficult as it is, I would think she would be happy for you, especially because I'm sure she knows you want this so much.

JJbubbles, that really sucks about the CAT scan, did they reschedule him for Friday? I can't believe how backwards our supposedly premier healthcare system can be sometimes.

Fellows, 12 days late! I wonder what's going on. When was the last time you tested?

 

[Fellowes79]

In case anyone was curious... Today is CD1. FINALLY. Thanks for listening

 

[Khigg19]

Bummer!! At least you can start over and stop waiting! I wonder what was up with that?

 

[Fellowes79]

I am happy she came, ha. I was jumping up and down this morn. My hubs was confused... He was like, you usually cry when she comes what are you doing?! Ha. I think we are going to do it every other day when she leaves and see what happens.

How are you feeling, Khigg?

Any updates on your bro, jj?