You know, after I had the appointment I didn't really care what anyone said. My firstborn was so happy he was so happy to finally see his little brother. And even SO still had a big smile on his face despite wanting a girl. We also had some fun together after as well so it was just a good day overall.
When I called my mother she didn't really care, her priorities were elsewhere, but whatever her loss.
And SIL was insisting to SO that we have a "big brother party" for Lucas otherwise he will "feel left out" I'm like uhh no? Lmao. He's included in whatever he wants to be, including whatever baby sprinkle I might throw. He will only feel left out if other people make him feel that way, because I certainly won't, regardless how much harder it may make my life lmao. He will get the same amount of love and attention he's always gotten. He's doesn't need a party for being a big brother to tell him any of that. Besides, me and him already have a mommy son date to build-a-bear before baby's born. I know she meant well but just the way she put it annoyed me a little, lmao. You know, hormones and whatnot.
Thank you for all the congratulations, the hard part is getting some names going, since we got nothing thanks to SO 😂
And that sucks Dobby! Another two weeks wait is too long!
Lmao Disneyfan I almost had that problem too, baby kept running away from the technician. 😂