first one was an emergency c-section... i was in labour for 3 days!!! and only managed to 5cms... he started getting distressed heart rate dropping low etc, so i was whipped down for section... he was an awful blue/black colouring it was such an awful experience...
second was planned.... my first labour wasnt easy and soo i was petrified of losing my second baby, everything of my first labour came flooding back at me etc...
when i seen my midwife with the pregnancy i had from feb-april she told me because ive had 2 now there wouldnt allow me to have a VBAC, and so i would need to have a section around 38 weeks, apparently its just procedure.
i dont mind c-sections at all, but i dont know any different. But would of been nice to just do the whole hog and say Yay i did it lol