thank you hunnie... Thats exactly what im doing, thats the only thing i can do really.
I know ive got a due date, but well i havent thought about it too much, before i knew all dates of when i would of been 12 weeks, 20 weeks etc etc.... This time i just dont want to know, not because im being cold hearted. But the less dates i have in my mind the better, because when you miscarry these dates tend to stick like superglue!.
It also helps that were really busy doing things in the house and in the garden, so im not just sat over thinking haha