Sorry this is so frustrating for you Ricschick. I can't see anything myself, but I'm very bad at it and I'm only looking on my phone.
Regards drinking I looked it up during one of my TWW as I was going out where there was free prosecco and I didn't want to think up an excuse and possibly have people incorrectly guess I was pregnant. According to the NHS website the embryo doesn't reach out to form links with the mothers blood supply until 2-3 weeks after conception, so on that basis I allowed myself two glasses because I figured it wouldn't do the embryo if there was one any harm. It's the only alcohol I've had this year!