gonnagetabump
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Ok.....so I notice whenever ovulation is pos or close.....sex becomes so awkward ..... Usually the first day its great the second day eh not so much ..... Don't get me wrong we have a great sex life but most of that takes place when I'm NOT ovulating. On average sex maybe twice a week. My husband has a very physical job and works weekends only and so when ovulation falls on the weekend I get so discouraged. Because usually I don't wanna pressure him when his body is tired bc he won't ..... Finish. And I know he much prefers NTNP but I have always been tracking .... And NTNP for 6-7 cycles didn't work. So we had a talk about it and well he wants to know when I Ovulate. I just feel like it puts a damper on the mood totally not sexy. Idk what to do. We bd on Thursday ..... Pos opk Fri night and sat morning ..... Bd sat night.....attempted last night ... It didn't happen.
We are both sick to so if that doesn't make it weirder. I have been thinkin about telling him that we should just switch to every other night ..... Starting CD10-12 and let the rest be in Gods hands. Because as positive as ibtry to stay I start to feel discouraged and know.....that if we don't get pregnant naturally....we don't have money for expensive fertility treatments. I Ovulate regularly....cycles are 29days....so normal.
I mean how is it that so many other women fall pregnant.....like literally one time sex. I mean I miss the days when sex was spontaneous and fun ...I always wonder if that's the key....in feeling down n out for the month. Please help.
Do u think bd every other day is enough....
We are both sick to so if that doesn't make it weirder. I have been thinkin about telling him that we should just switch to every other night ..... Starting CD10-12 and let the rest be in Gods hands. Because as positive as ibtry to stay I start to feel discouraged and know.....that if we don't get pregnant naturally....we don't have money for expensive fertility treatments. I Ovulate regularly....cycles are 29days....so normal.
I mean how is it that so many other women fall pregnant.....like literally one time sex. I mean I miss the days when sex was spontaneous and fun ...I always wonder if that's the key....in feeling down n out for the month. Please help.
Do u think bd every other day is enough....