hopestruck
Mommy to a Miracle
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it is a little scary to think that it took us two years to conceive and then what happens if...
but i'm trying not to look at that side of things.
i'm sure it's just as scary for you! i wish there were some test you could pee on every day to make sure everything is fine. i'd buy a wondfo-sized bag of those!
I'm sure you guys will be fine. In my personal experience/knowing people, most people who take time conceiving end up with very healthy babies. I'm not sure what the relationship is (why those who get pregnant quickly seem to M/C more often, very weird!). I am beginning to go on the theory that either way is part of the body's natural selection process - perhaps some bodies are better at picking up when an egg isn't viable better than others who grab onto any egg, only to m/c it later!
Haha, I totally agree! I have been occasionally using my OPKs (since I have TONS of them) to make sure my test line is still loads darker than the control. It's no guarantee of anything, but it does help a bit on those really worrisome days!! I also bought a doppler in my last pregnancy, so I've been trying to listen for a heartbeat, but I've never heard of anyone getting it before at least 8-9 weeks, so I probably have a ways to go.