buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

[ljsmummy]

Am and c.m.c you are both inspirational and truly one tube wonders!congratulations to you both hearing that has made my day.and now I know that it is possible and it might not be years away as I had thought at first!
I can't even imagine how you must feel,I would be exactly the same I'm sure!wow its really amazing,and to know your little miracles happened so quickly makes me feel really positive x x

 

[Amcolecchi]

LJ-yes I was devastated...my husband has low sperm morphology and docs told us we only have a 2% chance conceiving naturally, so when I got prego in April we actually did an IUI and it was our second try. And then to find out it was ectopic and lost my tube I was like done. I literally thought my life was over and I just didn't know what to do! But then after the surgery we decided to try natural and then save money for another IUI but then a MIRACLE happened and we got prego! So yes we defeated ridiculous odds, so I know you can too!! How are you feeling now?

 

[squeak01]

Hey x

Been off here for a couple days as been struggling a bit x still no sign of af for me. Been reading through the other posts and my levels never got above 760 x i would hv been just under 6 weeks when inhad my tube removed. I will be 7 weeks on thur since surgery..... i just dont understand y its taking so long. I dont want af so i can try straight away i just cant stand not knowing whats going on or how long it will be x im sorry for the vent and being selfish i just feel so isolated right now. Hubby cant really talk about it so im just left in limbo. Im starting to find its getting harder for me as time goes on. Im going to spain next week wats the bets af will make an appearance then lol.

Sorry for the rant, i just had to get it out somewhere x

 

[ljsmummy]

Am - that is amazing,what a story!I'm so pleased for you!your little miracle defied the odds,so they must be a little fighter already!and it just goes to prove that whatever's meant to be will be. I'm feeling ok thank you,a little sore again today, was doing better but yesterday was first day on my own as hubby went back to work,so was running around after my 2 year old DS and think I overdid it a bit!my head is in a better place though,for now.it helps to read all the success stories from you lovely ladies,there is such a positive vibe and I love that.

Squeak - so sorry you are feeling low.I guess AF will just happen when its ready,and chances are yes it will be when you are in Spain!it would just be typical. Are you going for a holiday? Could be just what you need, and no doubt as you start to relax AF will show itself!I understand what you mean about not wanting it to show so you can start trying again,but just to know what's happening and where your body is at. For me I hate that I'm not in control of it and just have to wait!have always been regular as clockwork 28 days so it will be weird for me too.Hope it happens for you soon. But preferably when you get back home lol. I'm glad you ranted and got it off your chest..that way its not just me filling up the thread with rants lol. Feel better soon x x

 

[ladyluck84]

Rant away I was the same and wanted to get straight back too it. Just think a little extra time gives your body that but longer to heal

 

[ladyluck84]

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[squeak01]

Hey

Thanks ladies, yes off on hols. If af does arrive on hols i wont be to fussed just hope its nog to painful.

Its also the not knowing or being in control for me. I also had regular cycles every 28 TO 30 days after first mc i had my af 29 days after and was always regular. Its just fustrating as i was given very little info but was told it should be 4-6 weeks however i know thats not the case for everyone but it does make you worry.

Im nearly 7 weeks post op and physically im doing great i never have pain at all now and im
Doing everything i could pre op. Ive had two neg tests a week apart so hoping af arrives soon as i must be at 0 now

Thanks ljs i hope your recovering well, i wish us ladies didnt have to go through these awful experiences..

 

[squeak01]

Lady luck ur experiences hv been so similar to mine timewise, i defo dont mind waiting a little as i dont think i could take much more this year x

 

[Amcolecchi]

lj-your profile picture is gorgeous, love the dress!!!

 

[ljsmummy]

lj-your profile picture is gorgeous, love the dress!!!

Awwww thank you so much!I got in so much trouble because I didn't want to wear white (I'm really pale so I just blend in with white lol). But I loved it. 3 years ago now time flies xx

 

[ljsmummy]

lj-your profile picture is gorgeous, love the dress!!!

Awwww thank you so much!I got in so much trouble because I didn't want to wear white (I'm really pale so I just blend in with white lol). But I loved it. 3 years ago now time flies xx

 

[Amcolecchi]

Red looks amazing on you!! And who cares what color you wear, it doesn't effect your vows or marriage lol! But yes it's gorgeous!!

 

[ladyluck84]

Lady luck ur experiences hv been so similar to mine timewise, i defo dont mind waiting a little as i dont think i could take much more this year x

yes we are very similar. Totally crap isn't it!? I just want it sooo much. My husband has been away this month so tried not to get carried away with opks and temping and just did it when he was back so not feeling very lucky this month either

 

[Amcolecchi]

LJ- we have been married 3 years too! When is your anniversary?

Lady-I know timing sometimes is just never right! But you will get there one day

 

[c.m.c]

lj-your profile picture is gorgeous, love the dress!!!

Awwww thank you so much!I got in so much trouble because I didn't want to wear white (I'm really pale so I just blend in with white lol). But I loved it. 3 years ago now time flies xx

I was in New York in feb and saw a bride and groom getting pics taken on the Brooklyn bridge! She was wearing red and it looked amazing

 

[ljsmummy]

Aww thanks ladies!I nearly caved a few times as the in laws are traditional, but got so many nice comments after I'm glad I stood my ground!
Am - our anniversary is march 25th how about yours?x

 

[maybebayb]

Hello ladies, how are you all?
I have the worst cold in the world and have sat on the couch for three days now and still don't feel any better, I just want to cry I feel so crappy!

I feel so bad for dd as it's school holidays and haven't been able to do anything with her so far.

Squeak maybe you should get a blood test just to see if it is at 0, it could be at 5 or something which is underdectible on an hpt but enough so your body still thinks you're pregnant? I dunno I'm just guessing lol


Hope everyone is goin great! Must get on the computer and do a proper reply soon as it's hard to type on the phone especially with stupid auto correct un correcting what I say!

Xxx

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lj-My anniversary is Sept.18 so we just celebrated it And Happy Anniversary to you too!

Maybe-Did you see if your docs can prescribe you anything? Having a cold does suck!!! Hope you feel better ASAP!!

Afm-I got my NT Scan done this morning. Baby's neck and spine are great. They did the bloodwork for the chromosome abnormalities and I get those results back in a week so until then I am trying not to freak out!! I met two women in the office today who had Trisomy 18 and both lost their babies. I felt so bad for them!!! Hope you all are doing great!!

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[ladyluck84]

How lovely having that scan in your hand knowing all is ok! I'm praying for that day!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lady-I know you will be here one day too...I remember seeing others and wanting it and then it happened! Keep the faith up