buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

[Amcolecchi]

Lady-I am so sorry hunny!!! But if no af yet, you are still in the game...KMFX for you!

 

[squeak01]

Hey,

thanks ladies x

am i totally agree i think i just had to relax and let it go, i really think the pent up stress and emotion helped cause the delay. Thats the way im looking at things we are taking the ntnp route for now lol how long it will last i dont know!

Lady im also kmfx digi's arent that great early on so dont give up till af appears. I totally understand the heartbreak though thats why im really going to try stick with ntnp as i hated that feeling, big hugs x i would suggest giving it at least a day and try a pink dye test x

 

[LynnC]

Ladyluck... Just think of this.. At this stage many of us are very sensitive. We give hopes up and little things can let us down. Just take it easy, dont push too hard.. If want, you should try to test with the first response. If it is still negative, dont be sad, it will come next time. With nowadays technologies, i believe at the end we will have our healthy pregnancies! Cuz we do whatever it takes, dont we?
i am myself super emo now too.. Just finally got my af and noticed everything is so slow... Around me, facebook, people with kid or even 2-3 kids. I just feel so lost n scared but theres nothing that i can do but just wait n keep reminding myself to stay positive. I usually just cry and feel better afterward

Hope everything is better with you

 

[ladyluck84]

I have been very tearful and my husband sent flowers to work today and I burst into tears because the message said "we will get there in the end I love you" I'm not sure tears were the desired effect!

 

[ladyluck84]

I have started panicking that it might be another ectopic. I know that i haven't had a bfp but I have read this can happen is ectopic as "the placenta is compromised and so u don't have enough hcg" to give a positive early on

 

[c.m.c]

Ll is it still negative?

With my ectopic I still had a positive!

If you're worried could you go to the GP to get betas done just to be sure?

My friend at home is in her 1st cycle TTC after a loss and her AF was a week late....totally strange for her.

I second what Lynnc says......it will happen, it really will

 

[Amcolecchi]

Yea my ectopic I still showed positive too..but I would call your doctor just in case!

 

[ladyluck84]

Got an appointment for the morning. I did get a positive when u found out at 8 weeks but not that month I fell as I tested and bfn then my period arrived late so didn't text again. I feel really light headed but I'm not sure if I'm maybe getting ill? I then started worry maybe it was scarring from my surgery in my cervix was blocking where "things should come out" I have honestly had all thoughts going through my mind!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lady-so what did the doctor say? I am confused if the positive was for today or last time? Sorry! ANd it's normal to have a ton of thoughts go through your head!! I was the same way and honestly still am!!!

 

[ladyluck84]

I initial tested negative with the last ectopic with a urine test. No I haven't had a positive this time. I just feel dizzy so I'm worrying

 

[LynnC]

Ladyluck... How r u? How was the docs visit?

 

[danni1989]

Ave any of you ladies who have had multiple ectopics gone on to have normal pregnancies...I had an ectopic on both sides once on my left and another on my right the one on my left was actually in my tube and had to remove tube...the one on my left didn't go in my right tube so I still have that tube...

 

[ladyluck84]

Af arrived today 9 days late and I'm in a lot if pain.Have another appointment next week for hopefully the referral to see a fertility specialist

 

[c.m.c]

I'm glad AF has arrived ll84 and at least you are not worrying about It...how much pain are you in?? !!! I hope this is you kick started back to normal cycles......cd1 and fingers crossed month 2 is the magic month




Danni....I'm so sorry o hear about your 2 ectopics

 

[ladyluck84]

Thank you cmc I was up most of the night in a lot of pain and sorry tmi but a lot if clots. Feeling a lot better now though

 

[cupcakeround]

Hello - I just wondered if anybody is now ttc who has had an ectopic pregnancy and had a tube (or more) removed as a result?

I am already a member of a couple of threads with some really fantastic ladies who have helped massively over my first few weeks and I look forward to continuing my journey with them. I also know there is an older thread for ttc after ectopic and I have had a little venture into there but most of those ladies are now pregnant (which gives me hope!) so I would like to start a new thread for anyone that is starting/continuing with their efforts.

I feel that with an ectopic there are quite a few different things to think/ worry about (some less, some more!) compared to a m/c and wondered if there is anyone out there that would like to join me in my quest to get pregnant again asap!

It's been nearly a month now since my laparotomy which removed my left tube and physically I'm getting there. I still have a HUGE swollen belly though which feels like my body is playing a cruel trick on me considereing there's no longer a baby growing in there! and I'm still a little sore by the end of the day.

I had about 10 days of light spotting following the surgery but am now waiting to shed the lining that was built up and praying that my body remembers how to ovulate so I can get going again!

I'd love to have some ectopic buddies to go through ttc with so who's with me?

hi im sorry for your loss im currently trying to concieve i know what your going thru i had my ovary and assuming my tube removed in 2011 after i had my youngest daughter and me and husband have been trying to concieve again this august i got pregnant and my levels where no going up so they sa id it was etopic plus i had another cyst on my only ovary they saved my ovary but baby was lost and i got a d&c so we are trying again i just ovulated two days ago so im hopeful its a go we want a boy so bad we have three girls already lol but im wishing you the best of luck as so myself.

 

[ljsmummy]

Hi ladies!
Sorry been quiet,we took a little holiday and it was hubbys birthday.Really needed the break!
Hope you are all doing well?Any updates?
lady-sorry af arrived,I really thought it was your month.fingers crossed for next cycle.
Afm- af arrived today! Never been so pleased for af to show!im exactly 5 weeks post op today.Feeling good,its a new cycle new start.
hope everyone is doing well x x

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lady-when I got my period it was super painful too, more painful then I ever had! Let us know what the F/S say! I really like my fertility specialist a lot!!!

Lj-Yayyy I know isn't it funny how bad you want your period now!? lol Good Luck if you are trying this cycle!!

 

[ladyluck84]

How long was the waiting list for the fs? Wondering what they will do. I have had 3 blood test, scan to see if I was ovulating, good check if the remaining tube whilst I was being operated on and hubby has had a sperm test. What's next?

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lady-where do you live? I didn't have a wait list at all for my FS..they did a bunch of tests on me too..so you did the HSG test? And your husband sperm's test...sometimes they test your cm.