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buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

Have u guys been keeping track of the ovulation (opk home testing?)
 
Hey,

i wish i could say it was that but i tested with a cb digi on sat and got a neg given that ive always been no longer than 30 days im sure i should have had positive by now (cd43). I think body is just messed up sadly x
Iv not even had a sore chest like i usually would approaching ov and period all ive had is past three days thirsty and throughout this whole cycle cramps ewcm on and off. Ive been so grumpy and have rowed with oh. I dont know hw much more i can take and believe me im not someone who gets this low down feeling ever. Xx

lynne c, thanks for sharing that xx i would hv counted what i seen as af if it had happened again or even lasted an hour but it was only the teeniest amount in cm when i wiped and then nothing at all after that. I really wish i could count it as af but i seriously doubt it was x

i havent tracked ov at all, im not sure what could be causing your delay. I know sometimes you can get a positive opk but not actually ovulate as opks detect the surge im sure, the only way to be certain is to track bbt alongside the opk x

i hope we all get af or bfp soon as i for one really cant stick in this limbo much longer, its tearing me apart nevermind what its doing to my relationship :(
 
Hey,

Any updates lady & lynne still no af here cd 46 now. Ive ordered some cheapie tests and some ov tests for next cycle, whenever tht may be! I have a docs app booked for 6th dec, praying i have started af by then!
 
Not yet :nope:my mood is up n down. So frustrating:growlmad:

Are you seeing the doctor just for common check up? It is so hard to see a doc here in Taiwan due to the language barrier. So lost... :cry:
 
Lynn- I am so sorry it must be hard with the language! Can you find a doctor there who also speaks English? That might help! It might take some time for your periods to regulate but I would still want to check it out...good luck hun, we are here for you!!
 
Hey,

Yes im going to speak to him just to try get a handle on what is going on, if af hasnt showed By the time i see him something is seriously up as i will be 2 months late. I feel as though something is wrong as i keep getting all the niggles as though its going to start but it never does. All i keep getting is ewcm n then dry again n then more ewcm! I know what you mean, last week i was in such a bad mood and constantly angry!

I hope you can get and see a suitable doc soon that must make it extra hard xx
 
Omg me too. I would get bloated feeling or a little af cramp here n there... But nothing!!! I know I should not strees out but omg cant help it! :growlmad:

Am, did your cycle change by lots? Do you remember the routines? :cry:

Thank you girls for the support. I bursted in tears because of some little things yesterday.. So sensitive, lost, n sad nowadays:nope:
 
Hey,

Even more bloated today and lay in bed this morning feeling a little peaky. Im positive its all in my head though its horrible. Today ive felt as though af is just about to start again but still no sign.

I really feel low today so i can understand how your feeling lynne c it so isolating which makes it even worse. Hopefully there is an end to our cycles soon!

I ordered some cheap tests yest and there due tomorrow so going to test just to see whats going on.

Hope your ok lynne xxx
 
Hey i went to see doc yesterday. He said just relax n let it comes whenever. Do not stress out or feel pressured. Its common to mess up on cycles after op. Hope it should be better for us soon :cry:
 
Lynn-as much as I HATE when they say not to stress and forget about it, unfortunately it's soo true...well at least in my case...I wasn't have a period for like 2 months! Then I went to the beach for a family vacation and on day 2 I started!!! So I think just getting away from my house and just knowing I was going to relax, it just came! So maybe take a little weekend get-a-way? Maybe the holidays will be a distraction? So I know it sucks to hear about the stress thing, believe me I HATED it but it did work for me!...ALso yoga did too :) Hopefully this will help and your period will be here before you know it!!!
 
Hey,

Lynne thanks for sharing that it makes me feel better about my situation.

Im going to keep my app with docs for the 6th dec espesh if i havent had a period by then im cd 52 now and no af so im worried but im going to take on board yours and amo's advice x The main thing that worries me is the ewcm i keep getting, it all stopped just over a week ago and i thought i might hv ov and af would arrive soon however yesterday i got quite alot of ewcm again and had af like pains at the same time. This has happened a few times throughout my cycle now and km worried af isnt showing because im not managing to ov.

Im just going to do my best to relax and fingers crossed af will be here soon. Hopefully you dont have to wait as long as me lynne x
 
Hi Ladies,

I listenned to everyone and tried to relax. I even signed up for massage n spa. It worked. Right after the spa my af came. I was cd45. I know its not really because of the spa but who knows.. We should just try to relax in ourown way. Whatever helps right?!

Squeak, please just go to doc n have them check you. Dont wait up!

Hope you all to have a happy Thanksgiving!:hugs:
 
Hey,

Thanks, I have an appointment for the 6th of december unfortunately unless its an emergency or im willing to see another doctor other than my own gp, I wont get a same day appointment or even one that week.

Im trying to not have any stress and in all honesty i really havent been too bad so im not sure whats up x i think if i go over 60 days i will worry more then as thinking about it, i may not have ovulated last cycle and may hv this cycle if thats the case I wouldnt be due af until cd60. I'll let you know how i get on once i've seen doc.

Really glad you hv af now Lynne and you can get on to the next cycle xx
 
Lynn that is awesome news!!!! Yes, whatever it takes to relax! Spa, working out, vacation, it is so worth it! It worked for me too! I am glad your period is here so you can start to try again!!! :) KMFX!!

Hi Ladies,

I listenned to everyone and tried to relax. I even signed up for massage n spa. It worked. Right after the spa my af came. I was cd45. I know its not really because of the spa but who knows.. We should just try to relax in ourown way. Whatever helps right?!

Squeak, please just go to doc n have them check you. Dont wait up!

Hope you all to have a happy Thanksgiving!:hugs:
 
Hi Lynn,
Glad AF came finally. That worked for me too,we took a holiday and it arrived the week after!After 5 weeks of waiting though!

Amcol - youre 20 weeks already!!wow that really is flying by!Did you find out the sex of the baby?

Sorry I havent posted here for a while. Life has been crazy and I dont know where the time goes.Also,we had some hopefully good news last week...see below!x x
 
Wow Congrats ljsmummy! Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.

Gives me so much hope seeing how many ladies on this thread with just the one tube get their little miracles in the end xx
 
It feels good to know I'm not alone. I'm ttc now n I don't even know where to start. I was 5 weeks when I lost a baby. I heard that people get pregnant a couple months after the surgery but I haven't had any luck.
 
Thank you squeak.
Maybe when was your ectopic?how long have you been ttc since?
This was really our first cycle,so we are extremely lucky. I didnt think it would ever happen let alone quickly.
I have a scan scheduled for Wednesday to see if baby is in the right place this time,although ive been feeling some twinges in my right side (side with tube) so thats a bit worrying. I cant go through it all again, so I really hope all is ok x
 
Congrats lj!!! I am so super excited and happy for you!!! Can't wait to hear about your scan x
 
Oh thank you!wow you are 17 weeks along already thats really flying by!
im absolutely terrified of going for the scan,I can just imagine the whole situation being the same again. I dont know what I would do. I hope im just worrying over nothing. Did you feel the same?x x
 

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