buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

[ladyluck84]

I'm in the uk. I have heard waiting lists can be up to a year here!! I hope not

 

[maybebayb]

Hello ladies! Sorry I have been awful quiet! I'm always only phone and I hate typing on it!

Oh ll84 sorry the witch got ya, I was reading back on what I missed out on and got all excite when I saw your test and then felt the disappointment with you when af came

Well I've got some good news! Had my 12 week scan today and all looked perfect! Will post a pic tomorrow when I get on the the computer, got put back to my original due date so I'm stoked about that! That's one less week of a wait

Who was the Thailand poster? I can't quite remember her poster name but I hope she is well!

Glad your wee Bubs are doing well am and cmc!
Sorry if I have missed anyone else!

Take care and ill post tomorrow xx

 

[Amcolecchi]

Maybe-Yayyy for the 12 weeks ultrasound!!! Can't wait to see the pic!!

Lady-I hope it doesn't take 12 months!!! Maybe since the ectopic and everything they will get you in sooner!

 

[ladyluck84]

Thanks ladies I hope so. So all keep everything crossed for me for Friday that they listen to me and don't put me off again!

 

[maybebayb]

bloomin hell, talk about a mission to log into the computer, the website is all changed!

anyway as promised here is a little pic of our pea! I loves him/HER already

https://i1207.photobucket.com/albums/bb474/charliestar7/253cbc16-5301-41e4-93a2-aeedb67a2056.jpg

hope that works!

 

[ladyluck84]

What a fab photo. Are u going to find out what sex the baby is?

 

[Amcolecchi]

Maybe-So cute!!!!! Baby looks so comfy in there!!! I find out the sex Nov. 21 lol but who's counting haha

 

[LynnC]

Maybe.. The little one is soooo cute. Cant imagine how it feels like to have such u/s!?

Ll84... Sorry hun af came ;( hope things will be sooner than one yearfor you

Dan... Welcome to the post!

 

[maybebayb]

Thanks ladies, its pretty amzing! Def finding out the sex, only 6 weeks to go!

 

[squeak01]

Hey all,

been busy recently so not been on here. Maybe your scan is so clear, defo gives me hope for the future x

Today is cd 19 for me and this is the time i would get positive ov tests. Yesterday and today iv been feeling as though i was going to get af as ive been having slight cramps and a tender abdomen. Im wondering if this is how ov pain feels now that i have had a tube removed. Of course this is all only relevant if im going bk to the 30day cycle i had before ectopic.

Did any of you ladies notice ovulation felt different after surgery? Before ectopic i would just get twinges on one side.

 

[squeak01]

Thanks ladies I hope so. So all keep everything crossed for me for Friday that they listen to me and don't put me off again!

Hey lady, so sorry you got af, i hope you get to see fs soon. I live in uk too and i think every area is different with regards to the waiting times i think it really depends on your circumstances, age, history etc xx

How did your docs visit go? If you dont mind me asking x

 

[ladyluck84]

I'm being referred but they may still turn down the referal because you are meant to have had 3 miscarriage and they don't count ecyopic or to have been trying two years without a pregnacy so 22 months and 2 losses for them isn't a problem apparently just 'unlucky'!!!

 

[squeak01]

I'm being referred but they may still turn down the referal because you are meant to have had 3 miscarriage and they don't count ecyopic or to have been trying two years without a pregnacy so 22 months and 2 losses for them isn't a problem apparently just 'unlucky'!!!

hey,

thats awful.

Were you trying for 22 months before your losses , sorry im not sure if thats what you meant, because if so surely that means your referral would be accepted! I remember after my first mc at hosp they said i wouldnt b sent for any testing to find out potential causes until after three but i thought the ectopic would count! Also are you young because i am 23 and find i get the youhave plenty of time attitude but its not the time that worries me, after all ive been through i just worry it wont be physically possible. Having also been told im just unlucky and i should be ok in future as at least i know i can get pregnant i know how much it hurts and can annoy you.

I hope your referral is accepted and that you start to feel a bit better in yourself soon. Its so hard to get past the hurt, anger and sheer fustration that loss causes, even more so when there is no explanation for it other than being "unlucky". Thats why i find this site so helpful as god knows where my head would be at if i didnt know tht even after all ive been through its still possible xx

 

[LynnC]

Hi ladies, how have u all been? Any good news?

Afm, last month my first real af came. About 2 weeks later i tested w opk, i ovulated (on oct. 29th). However, today is nov 16, af hasnt come my cycle before laparascopy was 28 days. By now it is 35th day n no sign of af. Ive been getting a symptom of sore breast but thats it. It is for sure im not pregnant. I wanted to wait till next month to start ttc. Sooo confused with the body now. I read somewhere that if u ovulated n theres no af, it could be that the egg turned into a cyst?? Sound scary to me!

I know that after op your cycle changes but for this long? Please help me

 

[ladyluck84]

My cycles have changed and my op was June l was ALWAYS 28 days and last was 36 and I'm now day 30. It is so frustrating because it gives me false hope and if I'm not pregnant I want to hurry up and get on with trying again!

 

[squeak01]

Hey,

dealing with the same just now ladies, super fustrating! First proper af after surgey started on 7th of oct im now cd41 with no signs/symptoms of af showing at all! Ive had a couple of times where iv had real strong af type pains and certain af was going to show only for it not to! I had a very small bleed with cm on cd 30 and thought af was going straight back to normal but it hasnt! It was only a tiny bit of spotting in cm. Before surgery i was exactly 28-30 days so super confused and annoyed. I have tested def not pg, thinking spotting could hv been ov bleeding if thats the case af hould arrive cd44/45 and if it doesnt im going to hv to hv a chat with doc even though a will probs get fobbed off!

Im trying my hardest not to let it gt me down but im sure you ladies know how hard that is! Xxx fingers crossed we all get the outcome we want soon!

 

[ladyluck84]

Squeak how frustrating! yes just keep hassling them. And don't be fobbed off with " it will take a while to return to normal" if I hear one more time "well u have fallen twice" then I will scream.....it's no good falling pregnant 100 times unless u get to bring a baby home!

 

[squeak01]

Hey ladyluck,

Its so annoying hearing that and also "at least we know you can get pregnant". Im starting to get worried now as i was out shopping today and stomach started getting sore then i felt as though af had started, i went to the loo only to find it was ewcm again?! I dont get it i seem to have had it lots on and off this cycle. The only thing i can think of is body is gearing
Up to ovulate but it isnt happening? Have any of you other ladies suffered similar or have any theories? When i finally start my next cycle im going to use opk's just to try figure out whats happening. Although its nice not suffering af pains etc its really worrying me now.

 

[ladyluck84]

The only time I have had that was when I was pregnant!

 

[LynnC]

Hey ladies, i asked my doc n he said sometime a small amount of spotting could still count as an af. Well i havent even gotten any spotting this month yet. Im so frustrated n wanting to start ttc again too!!!

I just dont get it. I tested with opk n got a smiley face saying i was ovulating ( on time.. 2 weeks after first af). How can u ovulate n not having period??? Where did the egg go??? i am on 36th day now since my last period