hello_kitty
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I agree with you Kat. I did not have postpartum depression with either boys, by the time he came everything fell into place, and I am sure it will be the same with this one. However, I cant stop myself from feeling a tad bit sad when I see girl clothes, or an infant baby girl dressed in pink or a pretty dress. This baby is destined to be a boy, I cant change that, but I am already paranoid about the future because we wanted 4 regardless so I still have hope but that hope seems so slim. It doesnt help that dh really, really wanted a girl before we found out. My boys are completely mama's boys and he wants to experience a daughter/father bond for a change and I couldnt give him that. I know it was his sperm that determined the sex and its not up to me etc, but when I see people with a different gender by the third child (and trust me most people I know have the opposite gender by the third kid) and I just dont understand why it didnt happen to me.