Hi Ladies,
Happy birthday to you guys that celebrated in December. Yay!
Claire, sorry about AF, but yay! for Dr appointment on the 7th. It's something to look forward to and I hope you get some answers!
Spiffy, so sorry Hun! But I'm excited that you are ovulating already (and completely jealous!)
As for all those that got
here's to hoping Jan is our
month!
So my stay in first tri was short lived.
My first ultrasound showed baby was about a week behind and no heartbeat. My HCG was also not rising properly. Dr's scheduled a follow up ultrasound 3 weeks later!! Do they not understand what waiting does to a woman's head? So my amazing DH called the office and had them move me to a different dr that could see me sooner. Unfortunately my follow up US confirmed what I already knew...our little bean stopped growing. I tried to wait to mc naturally but I couldn't do it anymore. I applaud women who have that much stamina, but it was driving me crazy. My HCG kept going up so I was bloated and moody all for no reason. I elected to have a D&C on the 23rd. (Merry Christmas to me!). It was surprisingly easy. A lot less painful than my 2 previous natural miscarriages. Not something I ever want to do again, but so glad that it brought me closure and now I can move on and begin my obsession with the age old question....."when will I ovulate again?" My last HCG check was a week before my D&C, and was 11,500. I had a little brown spotting 2 days before my D&C and most of my pg symptoms were gone. I'm hoping my body finally wised up and realized I wasn't pg anymore and my hcg started dropping. I elected not to have it checked again bc honestly, I was tired of getting poked and prodded by this point.
I've asked Dr. Google a million times how long it will take my hcg to drop and for me to ovulate and I never like his answer....4-8 weeks is normal. Ugh! Fingers crossed that I am NOT "normal" and I ovulate next week.
DH and I are still trying to decide if we skip a cycle before actively TTC, but I think we'll roll the dice....if it works before I get AF, great, if not then it wasn't meant to be.....
Thanks if you read this far....sorry for the rambling. We didn't really tell many people we were pg, so it feels kind of nice to be able to talk about all of this for a change.