...sorry for the swift departure.
wabi....lol that your DH said 'But you do it so well'. I don't think my DH would have a clue if I left it all to him. How is your DH with your presents from him? I have to write a wish list, but every now and then he pulls a surprise out of the bag. Usually a good one, though sometimes a little off the mark.
Wow, you put things is so eloquent. A 'low hum of anxiety' is just exactly it!!!!!! That is EXACTLY how I feel all the time, and you are right, it's exhausting!
Sorry you didn't get a BFP today, but you are definately not a loser for testing, and you still have time this cycle. Great to hear your DH is being very strong for you hun. Sometimes we really need that from our OHs. It's a great standpoint 'it'll happen when it's meant to'. I truly wish I could look at it like that too. Well done to him
My DH's positivity really gets on my nerves at time, but honestly I don't know where I'd be without it.
I hope this is it for you hun. Sending you lots and lots BFP dust hun x
Keely...The dark is spooky isn't it
lol You know what I always think about when I'm at home alone; I think about that bit at the beginning of scream when the girl is on the phone to the killer and he tells her to turn on her outside light and look into the back garden and she does, and her boyfriend is tied to a chair with his knee-caps blown off. It's sooooo ridiculous, but I hate turning on the outside light when I'm about to take the dog out. I always think there will be some kind of baddie out there starring back at me. Yes I'm 29 going on 9 lol Sooo stupid!
Glad all is better with you hun, and hope those worse effected will be able to return to their lives as best they can soon.x
Thanks for the positive words. I'm trying my best to keep smiling. It's not always easy, but when our littles ones arrive they will need happy, joyful mums, so we have to be careful not to lose too much of ourselves in this process and forget how to engage with that side. Sometimes I am scared that I'm so affected by this process I'll never be completely happy again. Not even with a baby. But my DH reminds me both times we've had a BFP, even when I've believed it was going to end, I was just elated. The fog lifted instantly even though I was wracked by a whole new worry. Having that life in me, even briefly, just changed everything. I hope I get to experience it again. And hopefully soon.
As I said, I think it's a good thing to see your MD hun. It'll let you have peace of mind. Let us know how it goes. Fingers crossed you ov'd (sounds promising) and this is your BFP cycle hun x
Summer...sorry to hear that your progesterone is inconclusive. Did she tell you what your level was? I have the progesterone scale and can pass it on to you if you want it. If you're getting a temperature shift then it sounds like you are ovulating, but that your progesterone is yeah, maybe not high enough? Although hun, hope you don't think I'm prying hun, but I noticed you went for day 21 bloods at like 9 or 10 days past ovulation. How long is your luteal phase? Just wondering as your progesterone should be measured 7 days before full af shows and if you were a few days away from that when you were tested the results could be misleading. I'm not saying that your progesterone isn't a problem but maybe your results aren't really reliable. I'm sorry you're feeling sad hun, but I've heard that if progesterone is an issue, the treatment is very successful, and clomid is supposed to be good (often people have multiples, twins/triplets with clomid). Maybe try and see the positive hun. If progesterone is holding you back then you could be pregnant pretty soon with treatment, and maybe you'll be getting two for one
Sending you lots of luck sweetie, and let us know how the second day21 test goes.x
afm...nothing interesting happening with me. Af is heavy and annoying. Getting there with my Christmas present buying, have to get DH a couple more main ones, and a few more for his stocking, have to get my mum two more, and my dad one, and still have a few other people to buy for but I already know what I'm getting, so hopefully by mid December I can kick back and relax lol. Looking forward to getting my tree
Sending BFP vibes to all for the cycle your in
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