CD 1 OCTOBER 27 (Anyone With Me?)

[amanthony]

Well, it's not over till she shows! What day was/is she actually due? And when was your last test? I'm sure it's in here, but there have been so many pages and I'm so far behind from being gone! Update me please!

 

[Tink1o5]

thanks aman... i just for some reason have this big fear of being infertile now....

I keep questioning myself thinking "you'll never get preggo" "its just not gonna happen"

I mean this in NO-OFFENSE to anyone..but
i just hate how some little girls who dont even want kids are just not caring and sleeping around and BAM they end up preggo

But those of us who really want babys and are ready just have no luck

 

[amanthony]

I was so afraid that something was wrong with one or both of us too. Honestly, I've worried about it for so long--way before we started TTC. Just worrying that something wouldn't go right. And I can't say that we "gave up" this last cycle because we definitely didn't, but I do know that after the trauma of the last BFN I was just way more relaxed about it and just not getting my hopes up, and that's when it happened. It's not like you can make yourself change your attitude really, but try not to stress too much if you can. I think it makes a huge difference.

 

[dan-o]

Awww, sorry she got you tink

Jaytee, I still have everything crossed for you!

 

[dan-o]

Gahhhhh, I'm about to ov and STILL haven't managed to BD yet!!! Noooooo!!!

We SERIOUSLY have to get busy tonight. We did attempt last night, but it just wasn't happening (he had one too many JD's, )

 

[jaytee]

DAN-O~~~~ You need to get Baby Dancing !!!!!

As for me, the showed up today. I'm not one bit upset or discouraged as I thought I would have been. If fact I'm happy that she came because this is my first normal in over one year. This AF was not brought on by Provera and I'm so happy about that!!!!

DH left early for work this morning (3:30am) and I will tell him that the got me. We made an agreement that if AF showed up that this cycle we were going to do things different.

New Cycle:

I will continue to take my BBT at 4:45 am every day, however I will not post any of the temps until cycle day 21. This was I don't stress about my temp going up and down and wondering when I will ovulate. Since I have to take Clomid. I know that I'm due to ovulate between cd14 and cd 18 so we will BD as much as we can during those five days. Including cd19 - for a just in case BD lol

Next af is due 1/1/09. That same day I miscarried last year! Maybe this is a good thing this year. Maybe God is going to replace that sadness with JOY on 1/1/09 ----- Oh I sure do hope so -----

So here I am starting a new cycle with the best girls on BNB!

 

[hopefulfor09]

Tink - so sorry she got you...

Jaytee - I am totally loving your PMA! We can and we will get our BFPs! PMA PMA

Dan-O - You better get bd'ing girl.....go catch that eggie.

I am torn, but I am not going to get OPKs this month....I am going to try to relax! And BD as much as possible. DH goes away on Wed till Sat for work - so hopefully I don't O then. But we'll BD as much as possible when he gets back. I am CD 6 today so hopefully I don't O till he gets back. I hosted my BFFs babyshower and it was great. She got lots of stuff and it brought a sense of peace for me.....wierd I know. But I am feeling confident that we will get our BFP.

Anyhow, here's to next month ladies!

 

[amanthony]

Next af is due 1/1/09. That same day I miscarried last year! Maybe this is a good thing this year. Maybe God is going to replace that sadness with JOY on 1/1/09 ----- Oh I sure do hope so -----

So here I am starting a new cycle with the best girls on BNB!

I hope so too! You're in my prayers!

 

[jaytee]

What has happened to our group?

Amanda got a BFP and then everyone left????????

Well I've been busy lately, you see I saw the movie Twilight in the theatre the other night and I was so madly in love with the story that I went and bought the books! I already read Book 2 (New Moon) in One day and two hours of today. I already started reading the 3rd book (Eclipse). I have never been so into books like I am with this story. Oh and each book is 500-700 pages!!!!!!!!! WOW

I absolutely have fallen in love with one of the characters! Edward Cullen! I have a crush on a fictional character!!!!!!! But hey it has taken my mind off TTC! Which is really good for us you know!

Well I hope everyone is ok!

 

[amanthony]

Hope I didn't scare everyone off?!?

I don't know. Maybe they joined new cycle groups for the new cycle? I'm really hoping for your 1/1/09 BFP, Jay-Tee!

 

[dan-o]

positive OPK today!!!

Hope we manage to BD later, work is making it quite difficult this month...fingers crossed!

 

[dan-o]

I haven't left!!

 

[jaytee]

Hey Dan-O

I'm so happy for that positive OPK!!!! I know the feeling....When I saw mine last cycle I almost past out!!!!!

 

[dan-o]

Trouble is I now have to seduce the fella after he comes home from a 14 hour shift & has to be up for work again 8 hours later!!! Plus work is stressing im out so he's grumpy a hell

Maybe i should tell him its ov time? I normally keep my cycle info to myself.

I reckon I'll try the seduction method first.. game on!!!!!

 

[amanthony]

Seduction method is always best, if you can!

If not, then go with the whole explanation thing.

But I have faith in you, Dan-O! Go get him!

 

[dan-o]

OK

bedroom sparkling -check
clean linen on bed - check
me bathed, waxed & buffed - check
2 cold beers in fridge - check
phone fella and turn his bad mood into a good one - check

challenge dan-o is officially on!

Trouble is i asked if he needed anything when he got home.. he said a hot bath NOOOOOO!!!!!

 

[amanthony]

Tell him you think a massage would be more relaxing...

 

[jaytee]

Hey girls!

Sorry for my absence....I'm so hooked on these books!

I will be leaving tonight for a trip to Maryland! And I will be gone until Saturday late night, which I think is great because DH won't be with me.....WAIT don't misunderstand me.... I LOVE MY HUSBAND, but right now (cd4) I'm stressed about this upcoming cycle and I think these few days alone with a group of girls will do me some good.

We are going for a Dance conference where I'll be busy dancing away all through tomorrow and saturday until late afternoon saturday. My mind will be distracted and before I know it, I'll be back on here Monday ... and on cycle day 8!!!!


Today is my appointment with my OBGYN.... I leave work in an hour and a half. I'm not nervous because its just a follow-up....I guess he wants to see if Clomid worked last cycle....which it did

Should I take a print out of my chart?

 

[amanthony]

Definitely take a printout of your chart!

Have fun on your trip!!!

 

[krazykat]

I'm still here! Just normally read cause not much to say on my part.

Hope you catch that eggy dan-o!!

We think we will "officially" TTC again in March, by then I want to be 145! So far just lost 4 pounds and am at 175 but I set a goal to lose 10 by New Year's and I'm working my booty off! So hope to be 165 in Jan, then 155 or so in Feb and by March be in my healthy weight range, which is 145 and then hopefully those babies will stick!

I'm so sore, I can barely walk around the house. I've been working out with Jillian Micheals dvds (the biggest loser trainer) and WOWzer, talk about feeling my muscles the next day lol. I just plan on a walk today, hopefully an hour, yesterday only did 35 minutes walk but also got in 15 minutes of heavy weights (full body) fast circuit.

Ya'll have a great weekend!!