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[katertots]

Just tell her you wont watch him anymore. That should teach her to be more grateful that someone as great as you was even willing to deal with him in the first place, since he seems like a brat anyhow.

 

[Bulldawg1026]

I was feeling bad about saying what I did but the more I think about it the less I do...I keep him for 50 a week and they don't bring food.....and half the time they don't pay until it's almost a month late....so yeah let them fork out 150-200 a week for daycare as mean as he is to other kids some child will put him in his place!!!!

Sorry for the rant

 

[katertots]

No dont worry about it, you know I will listen anytime. I have a rant of my own that has been building for a few days. Will post in a min, lol!

 

[Bulldawg1026]

Well last week was men's PMS week and this week is Rant week

 

[katertots]

Okay here we go, first of all heres a little background info: My boss is a friend of my familys and we used to do business together, she just had a baby girl. Also, the girl who works here as the sales/admin, is my next door neighbor, I am the one who refered her to this job. So she just had a baby too, and I am filling in for her as my boss asked me too, not my neighbor.

Its the end of her 8 weeks off and she is coming back next week. First of all she is dumb as rocks, has no common sense and I constantly get irritated with her bc she has no idea how to train someone, teach someone, or comprehend basic info. How she has kept this job so long, I have no idea? So she is coming back and I have to teach her some things, which I will do my best, but since she does not retain common sense information this might be challenging for her. The plan is for me to work Mon-Tues from here on out and her to work Wed, Thur, and Fri. Well, my boss asked me if I could train her to be a little more organized bc she liked the way I was doing things here. So I sit here thinking. She is not going to like that I came in filled in for her and now I am teaching her how to do her job all over again. Of course I cant tell her that shes not doing a good job. But I dont want her to hate me or trash talk me since we are next door neighbors. It puts me in a bad spot, bc she does not take direction very well, esp from me. This morning she asked me to check her email, when she has a computer at home to check her own damn email. She also asked me what I was up to the other day and I told her I had just re organized our desk and she said OH THANK YOU SO MUCH!

Wtf?!?!?! Why am I feeling like this is not going to turn out good?

 

[Bulldawg1026]

Oh wow....this does put you in a bad spot....I would just try and give constructive pointers....like I do it this way and it seems to be easier so I thought I would tell you maybe???

 

[katertots]

Thats a good idea. I hate it that shes bossing me around, bc I have always been the little boss of my own territory. She really is bad about common sense things. Eeeeek.

 

[Bulldawg1026]

My cousin is a Dr. and has no common sense.....somethings just make you want to scream!!!

 

[katertots]

Have you ever seen Bethany Ever After? I have Bethanys work ethic. So when I train someone I train them my way and Im not very good about understanding excuses. lol

 

[katertots]

She is a real pain in the azz too! Bethany is bossy and controlling in a work enviorment and I am just like that bc I want to make sure its done right, and dont want bad things or ideas to reflect on me. LOL

 

[Bulldawg1026]

Nope never saw it....but i'll have to check it out!!

 

[Bulldawg1026]

I can understand that....you train them and they mess up falls back on you!!

 

[Bulldawg1026]

So right before the showed up I had a positive OPK here I am cd8 and no sign of a second line....think I won't potty for a while and see what happens....I usually always have a second line and im using different test this month...so it has me nervous

 

[katertots]

Boss actually asked me if I wanted to do 3 days a week, but I dont want to have a job really. I want to help them out of course but I cant do much more bc I own my own business and have to run that too. My friend does not know anything about this and I dont plan on telling her bc she would be upset. I dont want her job, I dont have enough time. Plus, I hate to be stingy and rude but its not enough money for me to do it all the time.

 

[katertots]

Ohhhh noooooo. I hate OPK. I dont take them after cd 20 bc I dont wanna see any mishaps, lol. I am having AF cramping right now and im only 5dpo. Ick....

 

[Bulldawg1026]

what type of business do you own????

AF cramps STAY AWAY!!!!

 

[katertots]

I own a catery (cater baked goods), I dont have a store front though. I do birthday cakes, cupcakes, pies, sweets.

Funny thing is, no one ever taught me how to bake or cook. I kind of taught myself, and practiced ALOT! Everyone in town is under the impression that my mom taught me how to cook and bake, but she didnt. She hasnt lifted a pan ever! LOL

 

[Bulldawg1026]

That's funny but awesome at the same time!!!! I love to cook!!!!

 

[katertots]

I love to cook too, its so fun. I enjoy it alot!

 

[arpeters]

Amber - You are so right! I remember that!! I hope mine go up eventually. I remember you were freaking out because yours didn't go very high. Mine are a bit lower than usual. Do you chart? I would love to see your chart from last cycle. Thanks for the positive words!!