Nice super moon pic!! Did everyone see it on Saturday? Where I live it was cloudy (boo), so I saw it for about three minutes, rising, before it snuck into the clouds. It was gorgeous for those three minutes, though! Later that night, around 2am, it woke me up with its super brightness. It wasn't huge and red and beautiful at that point, but SO bright.
Pino - I have thought about that very thing. Like, am I just set on getting those double lines? Am I equally excited about actually having a child? I have thought about this a lot, actually! I've come up with a few things. First off, none of us can really comprehend the enormity of the transformation that will occur when we get pregnant and become mothers. I think that being really excited about getting a +hpt is most women's way of taking baby steps towards that transition, if that makes any sense! Our first month TTC, when I was convinced it would happen right away, I thought immediately I had gotten pg because I was taking prenatals and they were making me sick to my stomach, lol. This 'symptom', in combination with all of the books about babies and baby name things I was reading felt TOTALLY overwhelming, and I got really scared. Since we've had 9 more months of TTC to get used to the idea, I've slowly warmed up to thoughts about getting the +, dealing with morning sickness, etc., getting a giant bump and dealing with that bodily change, and slowly I'm allowing my mind to think about labor and how I'd want that to go. There's only so much we can hypothesize about and imagine! And I think there's a reason that we all feel hopeful and excited in the TWW, and why we feel devastated when we see that BFN--it's because we all really want a baby!! At least that's my theory. I first realized that it was time to seriously TTC after a family event with my SIL, BIL, and nieces. Once OH and I got in the car to go home I totally broke down. I LOVE being with my nieces and my body was just aching for a baby when I was with them. It's like a switch got turned on--the mothering switch, lol. Anyway, my favorite life coach, Martha Beck, likes to say that any time we start sobbing uncontrollably after a happy occasion, or feel joy in a tough circumstance, it's time to pay attention because those feelings are likely pointing us in the direction of what we want. Sorry for the novel!! I apparently have a lot of thoughts on this...
preg - Did you test today?? I soooo want to hear!
treasured - Yes, AF is a bummer!! I feel OK about it now. I was actually not that upset this month--NTNP really helped me take a step back and enjoy the month. Now I'm right back on the horse and ready to SMEP!
Sashimi - We are so close to being birthday twins! That's amazing that OH surprised you with a trip! I've always wanted to go to Savannah, and thought about art school there. That's soooo exciting that you'll get to spend your birthday in Hawaii. It's amazing that you guys get the time away together, too! I think yearly vacations are essential--though we're not good about sticking to that rule.
AFM, I got blood drawn yesterday for estradiol and day 3 FSH. I know it's silly, but I'm nervous about the results! I know that the FSH level can indicate how many eggs or their quality or ability to mature, etc., and I'm scared my OB will call and say that I don't have eggs or they are not good quality or something. My OH asked me to relax and cross that bridge if we come to it, and it's not likely that we will. He's the positive one, lol, but I'm working on it! I really grew up as a sort of pragmatic pessimist--like, if I can imagine the worst case scenario and then decide how I'd deal with it, I'll be OK! That hasn't brought me anything positive, however, in my older years, and I'm really, really working on being more positive and worrying less.