Oh no! Waiting for longer sucks!!!
But then again, as we're not really trying this cycle it just means I'll get my disappointment early
I know there's always a chance but with the little amount of sex we end up having on the cycles we don't try the smep, it truly would be a Christmas miracle lol.
Bah, wish I could convince dh to properly try this cycle too! He'd probably say yes if I really insist but it wouldnt be fair as I know he'd really prefer to avoid this cycle...
Why does he want to avoid? Did I miss something?
Our son was due on the 30th December, which then changed to 27th and he was born December 18th. If I conceive this cycle, I'd be due 2nd January and chances are second one will be a bit early too so potential for having two babies born on the same of consecutive days is high. (Or in best case scenario, close!). Dh thinks it would be best if our children's birthdays were a bit further apart so we can concentrate on each one separately and make a big fuss of them individually, especially seeing as their birthday would already be 'overshadowed' by xmas and nye. Add to that that we'd have to pay for two birthdays and two Christmases all in one month and it makes it an expensive one!
We've got plans in case it happens anyway, but as my DH says DS happy if it just happens but he doesn't want to go out of his way to try and have them so close together. I see his point and if I wasn't so desperate, I'd be happy to wait... but I just want another baby no matter when it's born!! Lol. But I suppose in the grand scheme of things, a cycle won't matter.
So we're not preventing but not trying. Not temping or doing opks and that's stressing me out a bit already!!! But I'm hoping I'll chill out s bit more as the cycle goes on and perhaps I'll feel less pressure this way... You never know, I might end up deciding I don't want to use opks or temp the next cycle either!!