Hi esuzanne, I'm not really sure what they should do about going to another testicle but my understanding is that if they don't find it in one, they may well find it in the other. So yeah, I guess they should have gone. In our case, they found some sperm (which turns out to be immature so we don't know if its any good until we do ICSI) so they didn't go to the other testicle. I know they can go to the other one without making another incision, they make some kind of tunnel on the inside, are you sure they didn't do that?
After the summer we are going to get a second opinion in another clinic even if it means travelling, it can't hurt. I know it seems like they have come such a long way in all this research and they have, in a short space of time but they still have a long way to go into 'why' this happens to our husbands. We have no reason why, genetic tests are fine, so that is why we are going to go to a bigger busier clinic hoping they might have had some more cases like our own.
It feels like clutching at straws sometimes but why not, its a big part of our lives.
To everyone else, love the positive vibes and talk of 2ww!!