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Dealing with azoospermia?
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Rainbow123
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Good luck Gem! Fingers, toes and everything else crossed for you!
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Good luck gem! I feel your pain may sister is pregnant with twins after 2 months of trying naturally. And here I am after 3 failed IVF and one frozen. I am day 1 after day 2 transfer with DS. Praying for your positive.
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Seriously! This 2ww is a pain! Only day 2 and it feels like it is going by way too slow! I seriously need a hobby or project to focus on to pass the time!
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I hope you have a bfp in the making and that it is just delayed! You deserve a bfp as much as any one else!
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I hope you have a bfp in the making and that it is just delayed! You deserve a bfp as much as any one else!
Deafgal, I am really struggling with the wait and I am taking progesterone 2 a day which give me headaches and bad sleep. So don't know how I am getting to 2 weeks. Back to work today so hope this help although I am off again on Tuesday and Wednesday. Hope you doing better.
Thank you everyone! Im now 12dp5dt. I tested at 10dp and was negative. Everyone says its still too early. I have decided to not test again until beta since thats the only real official true answer. Ladies, take my advice. Never test early!!! Sooo stressful. Last night I was up for hours with terrible back pain and today I have cramps. AF better not think about it!! I have read this may be a good sign. Fingers crossed! Two days left. I hope I can make it!!
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Just need a little rant!
Another of my colleagues is expecting (the other just had a baby!) out of a staff of SIX! So LOTS of talk of babies in the staffroom, woop! Today, the girl expecting - who is also a friend and knows about our situation - says what they are thinking of calling their baby and it just so happens to be my number 1 choice of baby names should we have a boy. WTF? Out of all the millions of names out there! Ok, so I can cope with this, breathe deeply! Then 10 minutes later there is still so much baby talk, I make my excuses and leave the staffroom. Another member of staff, who is the BIGGEST GOSSIP ON THE F-ING PLANET (so I have NOT told her anything), makes a comment about how my friend should be more sensitive around me. How the hell has this gossip woman found out? And who is she to tell my friend to "be more sensitive"? Then she proceeds to discuss my infertility issues with my other colleagues (who also didn't know)! So my pregnant friend was left feeling terrible. She came to apologise and told me about 'gossip-face', so I break down in the middle of the corridor at school and have to run to the toilets! Not the best situation when I have a class of seven and eight year-olds who have just come in from playtime! ARRRRGH! I've reassured my friend that I would feel awful if she doesn't talk about her baby, as it is a very exciting time for her. It seems every time I manage to come to terms with things and think positively a whole new load of rubbish like this comes falling down on my head!
Rant over!
Hope everyone is doing ok? Thinking of you all, as always
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Another of my colleagues is expecting (the other just had a baby!) out of a staff of SIX! So LOTS of talk of babies in the staffroom, woop! Today, the girl expecting - who is also a friend and knows about our situation - says what they are thinking of calling their baby and it just so happens to be my number 1 choice of baby names should we have a boy. WTF? Out of all the millions of names out there! Ok, so I can cope with this, breathe deeply! Then 10 minutes later there is still so much baby talk, I make my excuses and leave the staffroom. Another member of staff, who is the BIGGEST GOSSIP ON THE F-ING PLANET (so I have NOT told her anything), makes a comment about how my friend should be more sensitive around me. How the hell has this gossip woman found out? And who is she to tell my friend to "be more sensitive"? Then she proceeds to discuss my infertility issues with my other colleagues (who also didn't know)! So my pregnant friend was left feeling terrible. She came to apologise and told me about 'gossip-face', so I break down in the middle of the corridor at school and have to run to the toilets! Not the best situation when I have a class of seven and eight year-olds who have just come in from playtime! ARRRRGH! I've reassured my friend that I would feel awful if she doesn't talk about her baby, as it is a very exciting time for her. It seems every time I manage to come to terms with things and think positively a whole new load of rubbish like this comes falling down on my head!
Rant over!
Hope everyone is doing ok? Thinking of you all, as always
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Just need a little rant!
Another of my colleagues is expecting (the other just had a baby!) out of a staff of SIX! So LOTS of talk of babies in the staffroom, woop! Today, the girl expecting - who is also a friend and knows about our situation - says what they are thinking of calling their baby and it just so happens to be my number 1 choice of baby names should we have a boy. WTF? Out of all the millions of names out there! Ok, so I can cope with this, breathe deeply! Then 10 minutes later there is still so much baby talk, I make my excuses and leave the staffroom. Another member of staff, who is the BIGGEST GOSSIP ON THE F-ING PLANET (so I have NOT told her anything), makes a comment about how my friend should be more sensitive around me. How the hell has this gossip woman found out? And who is she to tell my friend to "be more sensitive"? Then she proceeds to discuss my infertility issues with my other colleagues (who also didn't know)! So my pregnant friend was left feeling terrible. She came to apologise and told me about 'gossip-face', so I break down in the middle of the corridor at school and have to run to the toilets! Not the best situation when I have a class of seven and eight year-olds who have just come in from playtime! ARRRRGH! I've reassured my friend that I would feel awful if she doesn't talk about her baby, as it is a very exciting time for her. It seems every time I manage to come to terms with things and think positively a whole new load of rubbish like this comes falling down on my head!
Rant over!
Hope everyone is doing ok? Thinking of you all, as always
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How awful! I am sorry that you had to deal with that today. I hate gossipy people. At my last job the gossipy girl was my "acting supervisor" and I disliked her. I stopped telling her stuff because she was insensitive and couldn't keep her mouth shut. After this dreadful woman was able to get pregnant she balled for days because it was a boy and not a girl. What?? THEN she told me that if I didn't hurry she would have two before I had one. WOW. Suffice it to say I spent a short period of time crying in the bathroom.
I think you can still use your boy name if you love it. Tons of people's babies have the same name. Plus, it's good that you are able to enjoy her pregnancy with her. I know how you feel when everyone around you is getting pregnant. My neighbor who has three boys was dying for a girl, this pregnancy is her last. Just found out...it's a girl! I almost balled. It's so hard watching everyone else get pregnant while you are left behind.
I hope that the gossipy girl stops harassing you all. I am sorry that you had a tough day. REMEMBER the progress you made and the progress you will make. The waiting sucks, but the reward is worth it!
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Thank you Mikihob, that's sound advice. How awful that your acting supervisor was like that! People like that shouldn't be allowed to be in those positions. My colleague is part of the senior management. She is nearing retirement and contemplating leaving this year or next, so just hoping she goes sooner rather than later so I don't have to look at her gossip face any more! Luckily the Deputy Head at school is my guardian angel. She came and found me in the toilets, gave me a hug and took me to the staff room for 10 minutes to become more composed. Don't know what I'd do without her some days! Good luck with your telephone consultation on the 8th 
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Hi Rainbow so sorry for you, feel your pain. X
I have not told anybody at work about doing IVF - already done 4 and to FET for the same reason. They know about my ectopic but they don't knows was IVF ectopic and keep putting stupid questions. I keep telling we are not ready. The most insensitive is my sister knows my full situation (not about donor sperm and shearing my eggs) and tells me I may need to give up, may not be to happen for me. She is pregnant with twins after 2 months trying naturally and calls me daily to chat about her pregnancy. But she is just enjoying her pregnancy so I need to be supportive.
I have not told anybody at work about doing IVF - already done 4 and to FET for the same reason. They know about my ectopic but they don't knows was IVF ectopic and keep putting stupid questions. I keep telling we are not ready. The most insensitive is my sister knows my full situation (not about donor sperm and shearing my eggs) and tells me I may need to give up, may not be to happen for me. She is pregnant with twins after 2 months trying naturally and calls me daily to chat about her pregnancy. But she is just enjoying her pregnancy so I need to be supportive.
